Now we've got the visa, it's a bit of a chicken and egg situation
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Originally posted by bamboy
yeah sounds like a good idea, but remember that goodbyes are always going to be hard no matter when u do it. just make the right choice for yourselves. it would be good to have the kids looked after while house hunting , we had to drag our 2 with us but they are 4 and 8 a bit older then yours. specially if u come in jan as it is really hot
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yeah sounds like a good idea, but remember that goodbyes are always going to be hard no matter when u do it. just make the right choice for yourselves. it would be good to have the kids looked after while house hunting , we had to drag our 2 with us but they are 4 and 8 a bit older then yours. specially if u come in jan as it is really hot
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That is a major reason we are thinking that she should come, honestly a trip once a week to Asda is a nightmareish especially if they don't want to do it - just reckon that she could help with all that stuff - dunno at the moment we are trying to look at all the options and stuff. When you have kids, ect who relatives need to say goodbye too you need to give them time to get used to the idea, our fault really as we tried not to talk to much about it with the families untill we have visa as this could have stressed them out and then we may not have got it. So they have only had a week or so to get used to the idea - dunno at the moment it seems like there is loads to think about and ag=fter all that stress of the visa application I would just love a holiday to figure it -
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