Im struggling today ....
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Im struggling today ....
Does everyone this close to the day feel like this ?
I just want to go ...
S
I just want to go ...
S
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by stephenwhite68
Does everyone this close to the day feel like this ?
I just want to go ...
S
I just want to go ...
S
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by stephenwhite68
Does everyone this close to the day feel like this ?
I just want to go ...
S
I just want to go ...
S
it has its ups and downs the closer u get to the flight.
hang on in there
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by soapy
dont worry about it, u will feel better tomorrow then shite the next day
it has its ups and downs the closer u get to the flight.
hang on in there
it has its ups and downs the closer u get to the flight.
hang on in there
Our house sale broke down just before xmas too which made even more crappy.
Just a had a call though for a new viewing so am on an 'up' at the moment. it is a bit of a rollercoaster though! Thought having the visas and having to work out notices, etc in UK would be simple - it's not tho'! My mind is already in Oz...which explains why I'm online rather than working!! Oh well.
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by samnrob2
I'm in the same boat. Just waiting to sell the house before we go - Christmas was more of an inconvenience than a time to relax and celebrate. We just wanted to get it out of the way.
Our house sale broke down just before xmas too which made even more crappy.
Just a had a call though for a new viewing so am on an 'up' at the moment. it is a bit of a rollercoaster though! Thought having the visas and having to work out notices, etc in UK would be simple - it's not tho'! My mind is already in Oz...which explains why I'm online rather than working!! Oh well.
Our house sale broke down just before xmas too which made even more crappy.
Just a had a call though for a new viewing so am on an 'up' at the moment. it is a bit of a rollercoaster though! Thought having the visas and having to work out notices, etc in UK would be simple - it's not tho'! My mind is already in Oz...which explains why I'm online rather than working!! Oh well.
life in limbo is horrid. hope it all works out for u.
try to enjoy this moment cos after u get here u have a few months of chaos lol
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by stephenwhite68
Does everyone this close to the day feel like this ?
I just want to go ...
S
I just want to go ...
S
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by Bix
It could be a lot worse....you could be staying
In fact, for what it's worth, that's my one ultimate piece of advice for anybody starting out on the visa trail. Don't get stressed out over every little thing otherwise you'll never get anywere. Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
Rob
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by samnrob2
Too true. Everytime we get stressed out about selling house, cars, booking flights, etc - we try and look at the bigger picture. This has, surprisingly, worked very well for us.
In fact, for what it's worth, that's my one ultimate piece of advice for anybody starting out on the visa trail. Don't get stressed out over every little thing otherwise you'll never get anywere. Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
Rob
In fact, for what it's worth, that's my one ultimate piece of advice for anybody starting out on the visa trail. Don't get stressed out over every little thing otherwise you'll never get anywere. Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
Rob
>> Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
<<
Im quite sure that we will find work and that everything will be ok
i have felt like this since the first day that we decided to do this......
just can't be bothered with waiting now ...
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by stephenwhite68
the thing is though that none of those things worry me ?
>> Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
<<
Im quite sure that we will find work and that everything will be ok
i have felt like this since the first day that we decided to do this......
just can't be bothered with waiting now ...
>> Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
only then can you start to s**t yourself!
<<
Im quite sure that we will find work and that everything will be ok
i have felt like this since the first day that we decided to do this......
just can't be bothered with waiting now ...
Whilst the potential for falling flat on your face is very apparent to those around you (ask my mum who can't hide her utter dispair at us going) I think everyone on this forum has or has had the same feeling. Surely no one moving half way round the world hasn't weighed up the pro's and con's - you've got to.
And whilst all us expectant Ozzies can see the potential pitfalls we are all probably united in our motive for going...life's too short and you've got to grasp every opportunity when you can.
What's more, recent govt stats show that immigrants still unemployed after 12months in the country have fallen to an all time low - that's one govt stat I like!
Rob
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Re: Im struggling today ....
What's more, recent govt stats show that immigrants still unemployed after 12months in the country have fallen to an all time low - that's one govt stat I like!
Rob[/QUOTE]
Rob, that is becaus etheu round you up and set uoy free in the middle of the outback, like an unwonted puppy at Christmas
Bye
Mark
Only Kidding,
they feed them to the sharks!
Rob[/QUOTE]
Rob, that is becaus etheu round you up and set uoy free in the middle of the outback, like an unwonted puppy at Christmas
Bye
Mark
Only Kidding,
they feed them to the sharks!
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by stephenwhite68
Does everyone this close to the day feel like this ?
I just want to go ...
S
I just want to go ...
S
we are going on march 6th 05 only just under 6 week,s to go??
so I no how you fill . we are going to adelaide were are you going
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Re: Im struggling today ....
I'm struggling too
My heart and mind are already in Adelaide but we need to sell the house so my body can leave York.
Seem to be loads of us in this position
My heart and mind are already in Adelaide but we need to sell the house so my body can leave York.
Seem to be loads of us in this position
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by samnrob2
Take a deep breath and think about what's to come when you land in Oz...with just the clothes on your back...a few $ in your pocket, nowhere to live, no job to go to...
#14
Re: Im struggling today ....
Do you think the people in the 50s & 60s - The £10 poms felt the same way?
The UK & world was slightly different them days, in one way I think they felt it worse cause there was less travel & technology.
But on the other had there was less hassle with the immigration so maybe plenty thought what the hell, lets do it for a few years (thats the type of thought most £10 poms had whom Ive spoken to.
The UK & world was slightly different them days, in one way I think they felt it worse cause there was less travel & technology.
But on the other had there was less hassle with the immigration so maybe plenty thought what the hell, lets do it for a few years (thats the type of thought most £10 poms had whom Ive spoken to.
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Re: Im struggling today ....
Originally Posted by hevs
And the weirdest thing, NO KEYS!!!
I'm off I'm rambling again