How bad can it get?
Sep 2nd 2005 | 7:58 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
Thank you all for your kind replies. I took sleeping tablet last night so managed to sleep more. It is so good to know there is so much support at such a difficult time, I have never had life so stressful.
I have friends taking my 5 year old out today and another one is going to help me prioritse what I have to do as we move out in 2 weeks time.
I will keep you informed, Thanks again.
Paul and Nicola
I have friends taking my 5 year old out today and another one is going to help me prioritse what I have to do as we move out in 2 weeks time.
I will keep you informed, Thanks again.
Paul and Nicola
Sep 2nd 2005 | 8:02 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
I managed to duplicate meesage and now I can't get rid off this box without putting something in it and so I thought I had better write something so I can close this reply. My poor head it hurts. 
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Sep 2nd 2005 | 8:27 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
Originally Posted by rangersman
My sister is terminally ill with breast, liver, lung, bone and brain cancer, it seems unbelieveable that one person could be so unfortunate to get so many secondaries, I won't ever see her again. She can now barely walk, is having morphine. She is only 40.
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
OMG going through crap like this really puts life into perspective!
We went through similar last year and thought we would never get through it but somehow you do!
Just make sure you tell her everything you have always wanted too we missed that chance!
Stress out on here as much as you like ,as everyone else has said there will always be someome here for you
Be Strong
Take Care of yourself
Kris xx
Sep 2nd 2005 | 8:28 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
Oh Christ Nicola, I have just read this thread. You poor poor sweetheart Not a lot I can say really. I know how I would feel if it was my sister. Just know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this terrible time.
Anne x
Not a lot I can say really. I know how I would feel if it was my sister. Just know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this terrible time.Anne x
Sep 3rd 2005 | 8:47 am
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I know that this kind of feeling can be very intense. When I went thorugh a divorce in a foreign country with 2 children many years ago without any frieds or relatives I felt similar desperation. At one point I was so stressed me breath becamse very short and heavy an I thought I was going to die of some heart failure. I started to pray to Jesus and Mary for help. And slowly gradually I had built my life back up from no money no house no job and no strength. My life is now - many years later,so much better. If you were a Christian I would recommend the same. Give me the name of your sister. I will pray for her too. Best wishes. Gerard
Originally Posted by rangersman
My sister is terminally ill with breast, liver, lung, bone and brain cancer, it seems unbelieveable that one person could be so unfortunate to get so many secondaries, I won't ever see her again. She can now barely walk, is having morphine. She is only 40.
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
Sep 3rd 2005 | 8:51 am
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Re: How bad can it get?
Originally Posted by rangersman
My sister is terminally ill with breast, liver, lung, bone and brain cancer, it seems unbelieveable that one person could be so unfortunate to get so many secondaries, I won't ever see her again. She can now barely walk, is having morphine. She is only 40.
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
Sep 3rd 2005 | 8:59 am
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Re: How bad can it get?
Originally Posted by rangersman
Thank you, for all your kind replies, its so good to know that there is so much support at such a difficult time. I have friends helping me with my year old son and to help me prioritise what I have to do as we are moving out of the house in 2 weeks. Realising you need help is one of the hardest things.
Thanks again,
Paul and Nicola
Thanks again,
Paul and Nicola
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
This really helped me when my mum was dying...... Look after yourself Nicola and live your life as your sister would want you to
Much love to you
Becky xxx
Sep 3rd 2005 | 11:08 am
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That is so sad My heart goes out to you all.
My heart goes out to you all.
Sep 3rd 2005 | 12:35 pm
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We are so sorry to hear this news. Sending you hugsxx
Sep 3rd 2005 | 12:54 pm
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Oh Nicola
Thought I would log on at 2am because I cant sleep as I am stressing about the move and I read this and it puts everything into perspective.
You poor girl, how on earth are you keeping it together?
I am so sorry that your sister is terminally ill, life is so unfair and she is so young too for gods sake.
I am not surprised you have lost it, who wouldn't lose it?
Really not much else I can say apart from I will try again to sleep now and not stress about immaterial stuff and think of you and your sister and send you lots of good wishes.
Take Care
Sharon
xxx
Thought I would log on at 2am because I cant sleep as I am stressing about the move and I read this and it puts everything into perspective.
You poor girl, how on earth are you keeping it together?
I am so sorry that your sister is terminally ill, life is so unfair and she is so young too for gods sake.
I am not surprised you have lost it, who wouldn't lose it?
Really not much else I can say apart from I will try again to sleep now and not stress about immaterial stuff and think of you and your sister and send you lots of good wishes.
Take Care
Sharon
xxx
Originally Posted by rangersman
My sister is terminally ill with breast, liver, lung, bone and brain cancer, it seems unbelieveable that one person could be so unfortunate to get so many secondaries, I won't ever see her again. She can now barely walk, is having morphine. She is only 40.
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
Sep 3rd 2005 | 4:09 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
Originally Posted by rangersman
Thank you, for all your kind replies, its so good to know that there is so much support at such a difficult time. I have friends helping me with my year old son and to help me prioritise what I have to do as we are moving out of the house in 2 weeks. Realising you need help is one of the hardest things.
Thanks again,
Paul and Nicola
Thanks again,
Paul and Nicola
this is one of the things i worry about being so far away from my family, what would i do. My sister was on the phone the other day ,her friend also has cancer she is 47, and they have told her nothing else can be done, i feel so bad i cant be there for my sister, nd told her, but she said to me ,yes you are there for me, as i phone her all the time.
Spend as much time as you can with your sister, i miss mine so much,be strong. Denise
Sep 3rd 2005 | 4:21 pm
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Re: How bad can it get?
Originally Posted by rangersman
My sister is terminally ill with breast, liver, lung, bone and brain cancer, it seems unbelieveable that one person could be so unfortunate to get so many secondaries, I won't ever see her again. She can now barely walk, is having morphine. She is only 40.
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
And its all too much, I've completely lost it today, completely stressed out, can't make sense of any thoughts, why this on top of everything and as some of you will know my MIL is having investigations as well. I go back to work Monday after 6 weeks off, only sleeping 4 hours a night.
Still waiting for the exchange of contracts.
AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I've had enough!!!!!!!No more stress
Sorry to off load hope I haven't depressed you all too much.
Nicola
Take care of yourself - try and get rest, even if you can't sleep.
Sue
Sep 3rd 2005 | 4:51 pm
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Sending you K. It's never easy when it's someone young.
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Thinking of you XXX
Sep 3rd 2005 | 8:45 pm
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Crikey my thoughts are with you and your family.xxx
Sep 3rd 2005 | 8:53 pm
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I wish I could say something profound that would make the hurt go away, but I cant. All I can say is. We really feel for you.
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