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britvic Sep 30th 2007 8:20 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5371830)
only two weeks now eh ;)

:lol: Well fifteen day's actually :eek: :thumbsup:

TruBrit Sep 30th 2007 8:21 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by candy wy. (Post 5371778)
you can keep your 90f.

i hear you....the weather here is a horrible humid 95f. apart form a few nice days spring and fall the heat and humidity is unbearable and living 24/7 in a/c cannot be healthy. bring on some cool weather where i can breathe :unsure:

i don't think i'll ever feel the cold again ;)

TruBrit Sep 30th 2007 8:22 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by britvic (Post 5371838)
:lol: Well fifteen day's actually :eek: :thumbsup:

and counting :)

britvic Sep 30th 2007 8:25 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5371848)
i hear you....the weather here is a horrible humid 95f. apart form a few nice days spring and fall the heat and humidity is unbearable and living 24/7 in a/c cannot be healthy. bring on some cool weather where i can breathe :unsure:

i don't think i'll ever feel the cold again ;)

That's what I want, some lovely cold fresh air right up my nostril's :)

Redlippie Sep 30th 2007 8:29 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by britvic (Post 5371868)
That's what I want, some lovely cold fresh air right up my nostril's :)

I can't believe it has gone so fast! :thumbsup:

Where abouts are you moving to pet? :)

My kids are moving to the UK in a few months' time. I'm moving to Portugal within a year or two. That sort of answers the question.

Good to see you again candy. Long time no see :):)

Elvira Sep 30th 2007 9:30 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by britvic (Post 5371826)
Of course I would, I'm only here for him anyway but that all changes in two week's time :thumbsup:

Bloody hell, Vic - I can't believe you' re this close!!! :thumbsup:

Are you all sorted............... or panicking... :lol:

britvic Sep 30th 2007 9:36 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by Elvira (Post 5372056)
Bloody hell, Vic - I can't believe you' re this close!!! :thumbsup:

Are you all sorted............... or panicking... :lol:

Sorted as much as I can be mate :thumbup: no panicking going on here yet :eek: :lol:

candy wy. Sep 30th 2007 10:06 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5371848)
i hear you....the weather here is a horrible humid 95f. apart form a few nice days spring and fall the heat and humidity is unbearable and living 24/7 in a/c cannot be healthy. bring on some cool weather where i can breathe :unsure:

i don't think i'll ever feel the cold again ;)


Dont think i would cope with heat all year round. It is something that would get very old fast.:)

Jerseygirl Sep 30th 2007 10:28 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by candy wy. (Post 5371463)
If your partner died how many of you would return home? would you be able to afford to move back or would it be difficult financially?

Yes I would...immediately. I would want the security and familiarity of friends, family and a system I know and am comfortable with.

Jerseygirl Sep 30th 2007 10:30 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by britvic (Post 5371838)
:lol: Well fifteen day's actually :eek: :thumbsup:

I was going to put a comment in the 'what made you smile today' thread in the Lounge this morning...but I thought it best to let you announce it first. ;)

Circus-of-Power Sep 30th 2007 7:40 pm

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by candy wy. (Post 5371463)
If your partner died how many of you would return home? would you be able to afford to move back or would it be difficult financially?

I would party for awhile and hang around just long enough to make sure she really was pushing up the daisy's :sneaky::sneaky:

Doubt I'd return to the UK though..I like it here ....I have a decent job and a nice place to live ..so I don't see the point in starting over once again

Englishmum Oct 1st 2007 4:36 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by Jerseygirl (Post 5372179)
Yes I would...immediately. I would want the security and familiarity of friends, family and a system I know and am comfortable with.


Me too!

I've always said that I don't want to be an old lady in the USA....a few years to go yet (I'm in my mid-40s, so is my spouse) but if I became a widow why would I want to hang around here when all of my family are in the UK and our mortgage on the house in Essex, England is almost paid off? Here in Essex county, NJ our housing tax is more than $1000 per month......!

It may well be that our son will want to stay on in the US but our daughter never wanted to live here, went to boarding school at 16 and has stayed in England ever since (she's now 23). If my son stays here I'll just come over on visits but I wouldn't live in the US long-term.

Home is where the heart is and for me it's in Blighty. :wub:

Ray Oct 1st 2007 4:45 am

Re: would you leave
 

Originally Posted by candy wy. (Post 5372133)
Dont think i would cope with heat all year round. It is something that would get very old fast.:)

Your right its a bummer .....
Be glad when I have had enough....

Redlippie Oct 1st 2007 4:50 am

Re: would you leave
 
Personally, I don't know how I'm going to cope with 68F winter weather this year.......

snowbunny Oct 1st 2007 4:56 am

Re: would you leave
 
I wish I had somewhere to move back to. :(

I am really hating the fact that there's no national health care and no safety net here. I'd have to wait out my ten years, then try to emigrate on my own (HSMP or equivalent).

Even if I chose not to move, I'd still like to have the choice. After getting struck down by a kidney stone without any sick leave, I feel really fragile physically and emotionally. If something happened to me, my OH would return home, definitely, and it's the knowing that I live somewhere that so many people consider second-class (and I know why!) that is hard.

I'm verging on depression over this, seriously. I feel like I want to get on with my life and can't due to having to remain here.


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