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HumphreyC Oct 22nd 2012 8:02 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by cluedweasel (Post 10342178)
Of course, all that was wonderful. When we moved over it was a different story. One small example (among many) was work. In the U.K. it was never an issue. I didn't even interview for my last 2 positions. I was well enough know in my field that I could quit in the morning, make a phone call and have multiple offers by the afternoon. Not boasting, its just the way it was. So, even though I was moving to the U.S. without a job, I thought it wouldn't be an issue. Well, that was one stupid mistake. In the space of 6 months I went from Head of Operations for one of Europe's largest data centres to selling cars in southern California for minimum wage and a crappy commission.

That's a rough gig to say the least. What are you still doing over here ? Presumably it would be better back in the UK where your business contacts etc are?

Pumba NI Oct 22nd 2012 8:19 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by morayeel (Post 10342083)
Hi all
I broswe around here quite often and I just hate to see members being so sarcastic to one another.Pumba is just asking for advice and other members can be just hateful.


Originally Posted by cluedweasel (Post 10342178)
It's not being hateful. The feedback is based on people's own experiences. The U.S. is not just like the U.K. with funny accents, better weather, bigger houses and bigger cars. It's a totally foreign country with different values and attitudes than we're used to. The (mostly) common language is, to my mind, a bad thing. It leads to an attitude of familiarity.

By all means, Pumba NI should try the US if he wants, but some of the remarks he posted were a little short sighted based on his limited experience.


Originally Posted by cluedweasel (Post 10342235)
And Oregon has lots of other ways of making up for the lack of a sales tax. You're going to pay for it somewhere down the line.


I get what all you guys are saying and I take everything on board. I try to be a sponge for information particularly on something that I am actively pursuing.

I didn't want to go into a lack of detail hence alot of people jumping on this 'you don't know what your doing band wagon'

I've been researching this for well over a year now so I am well aware and much more clued in than most on the massive differences across the country and also individual states, counties and cities.

Ian please note the commas in my post. After each comma is a different point. :wink_smile:
Also anyone who doesn't realise that California is a state and Houston is a city should really be sent back to school.

dunroving Oct 22nd 2012 10:14 pm

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Pumba NI (Post 10344152)
I get what all you guys are saying and I take everything on board. I try to be a sponge for information particularly on something that I am actively pursuing.

I didn't want to go into a lack of detail hence alot of people jumping on this 'you don't know what your doing band wagon'

I've been researching this for well over a year now so I am well aware and much more clued in than most on the massive differences across the country and also individual states, counties and cities.

Ian please note the commas in my post. After each comma is a different point. :wink_smile:
Also anyone who doesn't realise that California is a state and Houston is a city should really be sent back to school.

That probably includes a lot of American adults. ;)

Pulaski Oct 24th 2012 12:15 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Bink (Post 10343740)
Right, I've done 11.5k in 7 months... and that's not extreme.

Agreed - I do a minimum 25,000 miles a year (and average 30,000) and have done every year since I came here.

cluedweasel Oct 24th 2012 7:41 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 10347345)
Agreed - I do a minimum 25,000 miles a year (and average 30,000) and have done every year since I came here.

13 months to the day since I bought my last car - 6,753 miles. Guess I'm a home body.

Giantaxe Oct 24th 2012 7:49 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by cluedweasel (Post 10348156)
13 months to the day since I bought my last car - 6,753 miles. Guess I'm a home body.

Less than 4k miles so far this year for me... but I do live and work in a walkable city with "reasonable" public transportation.

Nutek Oct 24th 2012 8:19 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 
My wife and I manage to run up around 30k per year between us. Mostly due to the daily drive to work and back.

N1cky Oct 24th 2012 8:38 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10348218)
My wife and I manage to run up around 30k per year between us. Mostly due to the daily drive to work and back.

On the flip side, when we lived in the UK me and hubby would do 25,000 between us just commuting to work. Here we do 3,500

Nutek Oct 24th 2012 8:48 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10348240)
On the flip side, when we lived in the UK me and hubby would do 25,000 between us just commuting to work. Here we do 3,500

*Jealous*

It would be great to live that close to work. Still, whilst the milage i do here is higher than i did in the UK, the time spent driving it is probably less.:)

Typing on the ipad makes me sad. And mad. But mostly sad.

N1cky Oct 24th 2012 9:09 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10348250)
*Jealous*

It would be great to live that close to work. Still, whilst the milage i do here is higher than i did in the UK, the time spent driving it is probably less.:)

Typing on the ipad makes me sad. And mad. But mostly sad.

In fairness, I work from home now, but hubby's office is only 6 miles away. The vast majority of people who live in this area have less than a 10 mile commute to work. You wouldn't choose to live here if you didn't work here, the high cost of houses mean you would be much better off living anywhere else.

I know what you mean about the time though. My 30 mile commute in the UK would take between 50 and 90 minutes, normally nearer 90. Even when I lived in LA, my 20 mile commute would only take me 40 minutes.

Bink Oct 24th 2012 10:30 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10348250)
*Jealous*

It would be great to live that close to work. Still, whilst the milage i do here is higher than i did in the UK, the time spent driving it is probably less.:)

Typing on the ipad makes me sad. And mad. But mostly sad.

Right?! I do 250/wk on commute plus another 80 to play footy.
My commute varies between 25 min to 1.25 hrs though depending on time of day

cluedweasel Oct 24th 2012 2:30 pm

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Giantaxe (Post 10348167)
Less than 4k miles so far this year for me... but I do live and work in a walkable city with "reasonable" public transportation.

I have a 4 mile round trip to work. Summer, I cycle. Autumn and winter, I wuss out and drive :)

Xebedee Oct 25th 2012 2:12 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by cluedweasel (Post 10342178)
It's not being hateful. The feedback is based on people's own experiences. The U.S. is not just like the U.K. with funny accents, better weather, bigger houses and bigger cars. It's a totally foreign country with different values and attitudes than we're used to. The (mostly) common language is, to my mind, a bad thing. It leads to an attitude of familiarity.

Well said.

I once worked with an Iranian engineer in Albany (NY).
His opinion was that "Americans' hearts are too far apart".
Now, I like the way he couched those words as to not sound too offensive or judgemental.

To fill out the spaces between his words, I have found throughout years in America that an immigrant's chances for empathy or affirmation are all-too rare. When they come, the words really tend to stay with you and they gain a real value.

I am now convinced that it takes a certain type of person to be a successful immigrant. A type of person with a certain background. Further, If you are not like this, then it will be a struggle at best.

For myself, it is a relief to have reached the point in my mid-40's where the sense of anger and resentment at being marooned has now evaporated. The loneliness of living here certainly isn't acceptable, but it is now understood. I really think I have it sussed now and that's nice, because from "this place" it will be much easier to walk away with no regrets.

On the off chance that makes any sense, good luck fellow traveller.

Steve_ Oct 26th 2012 2:25 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Mallory (Post 10343845)

Yes, because you obviously haven't bothered to read page 2 of that report, look at column 5 in that table and compare that to the US, which apparently is somewhere around 13%. Bear in mind those European countries have been around for a long time as distinct nations, the US is an immigrant nation but has roughly the same % of foreign-born people.

Compare the US with Canada or Australia for example. Australia is around 25% and Canada is around 20%.

Steve_ Oct 26th 2012 2:31 am

Re: Why move to the US?
 

Originally Posted by Giantaxe (Post 10348167)
Less than 4k miles so far this year for me... but I do live and work in a walkable city with "reasonable" public transportation.

Obviously it depends on the city, but I would say on average public transport is worse than here.

My real concern with it is what America plans to do with all of the retiring baby boomers? Public transport becomes a real issue when you get too old to drive. And the healthcare situation as well is pretty grim.

All developed countries are going to have these problems but in the US it seems like it will be worse than others.


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