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Old Mar 15th 2006, 9:56 pm
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aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
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Old Mar 15th 2006, 10:01 pm
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Originally Posted by TouristTrap
aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
Despite some of my posts on here I haven't.
I've always been rather bi-polar when it comes to dealing with rude/arrogant/unhelpful people - as soon as I get a whiff of any kind of the aforementioned behaviour I'm off - maybe i need anger management

I'd like to point out that before that I am always exceptionally polite and well mannered.
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Old Mar 15th 2006, 10:03 pm
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Originally Posted by TouristTrap
aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
No, I actually became that way a couple of years before I moved over here, but I would call it assertive rather than aggressive. My wife (USC) is more of the aggressive type but I've shown her how to get what you want easier by being assertive in a "friendly" way. Is that called being manipulative?
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Originally Posted by neil
No, I actually became that way a couple of years before I moved over here, but I would call it assertive rather than aggressive. My wife (USC) is more of the aggressive type but I've shown her how to get what you want easier by being assertive in a "friendly" way. Is that called being manipulative?
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Originally Posted by BigDavyG
Despite some of my posts on here I haven't.
I've always been rather bi-polar when it comes to dealing with rude/arrogant/unhelpful people - as soon as I get a whiff of any kind of the aforementioned behaviour I'm off - maybe i need anger management

I'd like to point out that before that I am always exceptionally polite and well mannered.
Sounds a bit like me.............we're not related are we?
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
Sounds a bit like me.............we're not related are we?
If we are I wouldn't like to be the Chase employee that you speak to next
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If we are I wouldn't like to be the Chase employee that you speak to next
Wow thats just what my husband said.
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Nope, I got my "assertiveness training" between the ages of 19 and 25 and have honed them perfectly into arrogant bastardness.


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No. I've always been quite and unassuming....would never say boo to a goose.
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Originally Posted by rushman
Nope, I got my "assertiveness training" between the ages of 19 and 25 and have honed them perfectly into arrogant bastardness.


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LOL - before I even scrolled down to read other posts I was going to suggest you - ahhhhh brilliant (well mine anyway) minds almost think alike.
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Originally Posted by Angry White Pyjamas
No. I've always been quite and unassuming....would never say boo to a goose.
Been to DisneyWorld one too many times, eh AWP?
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Originally Posted by AmerLisa
Been to DisneyWorld one too many times, eh AWP?
Too frightening for me.
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Originally Posted by TouristTrap
aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
If anything, I think I've gone the other way. I probably got more aggressive/assertive to start with, but now I'm just so totally f**ked off with the crap that gets thrown at us from so many directions in this supposed home of customer service, that frankly, I tend to put up the shutters now. If I realise I'm not getting anywhere, I find a way of extracting myself from the downward spiralling conversation, and tag it off to my wife. She does a wonderful Incredible Hulk (don't make me angry, you wouldn't like me when I'm angry) impersonation, and generally comes up trumps. She's sort of a bit like a Rottweiler in a chihuahua's skin....
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Default Re: Who has become more....

Originally Posted by TouristTrap
aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
who the **** wants to know ?
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Old Mar 16th 2006, 2:42 am
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Originally Posted by TouristTrap
aggressive (assertive), since moving stateside?

I know I have.
only with my driving.... or do i just notice it more here?
oh, and when ordering things at starbucks etc, when i first arrived people behind me seemed to squirm as i took my time deciding what i wanted. No i'm aware of every second... sad, that, i think
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