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Old Dec 7th 2018 | 12:56 am
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Originally Posted by spouse of scouse
Pop over to the Moving Back To The UK forum and ask Brit in Paris
How is this relevant to the UK? They would be entering the US.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 12:57 am
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Default Re: Silly question re which queue to join

Originally Posted by civilservant
How is this relevant to the UK? They would be entering the US.
Yes, being able to read quite well I'm aware of that.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 12:59 am
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Originally Posted by civilservant
Who said anything about lying? I certainly didn't.

I am simply stating that standing there, with your boyfriend, saying you are coming for a visit, has the potential to cause issues and have the officer think potential overstay. YMMV.

Personally, I would go in seperate lines (USC v tourist) and she should state no more than is asked. What is the purpose of her visit? For a vacation. Only if she is asked about a boyfriend and/or family should she volunteer that information.
Honestly, this country is truly absurd. Not you of course

Surely immigration officers know that boyfriends and girlfriends are capable of choosing different queues to walk through and can ask the question about any boy/girlfriend any time they want. My son is also returning to the UK at the end of the holiday too, she isn't "joining" him here.

Is she going to need to bring proof of her uni place?

I'm sure your advice is sound, but the immigration's neurosis over one teenager, in a country with over 11 million undocumented immigrants makes no sense at all.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 1:00 am
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Originally Posted by spouse of scouse
Pop over to the Moving Back To The UK forum and ask Brit in Paris
Not a bad idea at all, unless he can be lured in here. I will have a look.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 1:06 am
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Is she going to need to bring proof of her uni place?

I'm sure your advice is sound, but the immigration's neurosis over one teenager, in a country with over 11 million undocumented immigrants makes no sense at all.
It's the system. No one has the right to enter the US other than a USC. You just have to abide by the system and know that presenting a certain case is not in your best interest, Presenting it in a different way can remove the problem.

Put it this way, I came to the US 4/5 times after getting married. At no point did I mention I was visiting my wife. I was only asked what the purpose of my trip was and I said vacation. Which was true. Asked and answered, stamped, and on my way. That was under Obama, things will have got somewhat tighter under Trump.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 1:09 am
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Originally Posted by civilservant
It's the system. No one has the right to enter the US other than a USC. You just have to abide by the system and know that presenting a certain case is not in your best interest, Presenting it in a different way can remove the problem.

Put it this way, I came to the US 4/5 times after getting married. At no point did I mention I was visiting my wife. I was only asked what the purpose of my trip was and I said vacation. Which was true. Asked and answered, stamped, and on my way. That was under Obama, things will have got somewhat tighter under Trump.
She is abiding by the system. Nobody assumes a right, she is applying for the ESTA, etc. etc..

The "system" ought to be rational, that's all, but I fully recognize that it's not.
 
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I'm with civilservant on this one. Why give grounds for suspicion and additional questions when it is totally avoidable.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 1:21 am
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Originally Posted by Lion in Winter
Not a bad idea at all, unless he can be lured in here. I will have a look.
BIP does browse the forums and replies if appropriate. He even joins in TIO.

I will send him a message.

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Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:01 am
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Originally Posted by MidAtlantic
I'm with civilservant on this one. Why give grounds for suspicion and additional questions when it is totally avoidable.
Yeah, if that's the safest way then that's what it is.

It just seems absurd - it isn't as though the immigration officers can't work out for themselves that people queue in separate lines.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:02 am
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
BIP does browse the forums and replies if appropriate. He even joins in TIO.

I will send him a message.
He shouldn't go in there. It's no place for someone with a functioning brain.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:13 am
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Originally Posted by Lion in Winter
He shouldn't go in there. It's no place for someone with a functioning brain.
Hey, I'm a bit disappointed that you haven't added your desperate knee-jerk desires to your signature
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:30 am
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Hey, I'm a bit disappointed that you haven't added your desperate knee-jerk desires to your signature

Your wish is my command.

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Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:33 am
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You wish is my command.
Made my day! (I take my fun where I find it)
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 2:53 am
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I'm with civil servant as well on this one. Separate lines. Vacation.
 
Old Dec 7th 2018 | 3:13 am
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Originally Posted by petitefrancaise
I'm with civil servant as well on this one. Separate lines. Vacation.

I think we have a majority opinion.
 


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