Relocating to Houston...
#16
Re: Relocating to Houston...
Really?! This concerns me!
We don't particularly want to change our wedding plans (we already have not insignificant non-refundable deposits down on it - of course we didn't know about the relocation when we booked it!) and its what we both want.
A 'quickie' marriage is not what we want. It's frustrating that the US doesn't recognise co-habitation as we've been going out over 8 years and have owned a place and lived together for 4.
As far as the B2 visa goes, I was under the impression (and advice) that it is a tourist/pleasure visa and so long as we can prove that she will return to the UK after a defined period of time (which I believe we can), she would be eligible for this, despite the fact that I would be a US citizen.
We don't particularly want to change our wedding plans (we already have not insignificant non-refundable deposits down on it - of course we didn't know about the relocation when we booked it!) and its what we both want.
A 'quickie' marriage is not what we want. It's frustrating that the US doesn't recognise co-habitation as we've been going out over 8 years and have owned a place and lived together for 4.
As far as the B2 visa goes, I was under the impression (and advice) that it is a tourist/pleasure visa and so long as we can prove that she will return to the UK after a defined period of time (which I believe we can), she would be eligible for this, despite the fact that I would be a US citizen.
Getting a registry wedding done on paper and then doing the whole ceremony later isn't a big problem, many people do this, you just wouldn't need to file a marriage cert then because you'd already have done it.
Your making things a lot worse if you mess things up, you probably want to talk to a immigration lawyer who could advice you of the options you've got and the benefits of them.
#17
Rootbeeraholic
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Location: Houston, Tx
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Re: Relocating to Houston...
She's likely to get the B2 denied with you being a USC.
Getting a registry wedding done on paper and then doing the whole ceremony later isn't a big problem, many people do this, you just wouldn't need to file a marriage cert then because you'd already have done it.
Your making things a lot worse if you mess things up, you probably want to talk to a immigration lawyer who could advice you of the options you've got and the benefits of them.
Getting a registry wedding done on paper and then doing the whole ceremony later isn't a big problem, many people do this, you just wouldn't need to file a marriage cert then because you'd already have done it.
Your making things a lot worse if you mess things up, you probably want to talk to a immigration lawyer who could advice you of the options you've got and the benefits of them.
We'd consider moving the wedding forward if we can at the same venue/church but a registry wedding isn't something we want to do just so that we can sort a visa. It may be that I end up having to do the first 6 months on my own.
They've also agreed to get me in a tax accountant to advise me on how to handle my tax.
As far as Selective Service goes I'll also double check - I'm 27 and from what I can see it's only compulsory for those aged 18-25...
#18
Re: Relocating to Houston...
Thanks Bob. I've been on to my company to put me in direct contact with their immigration lawyer - their advice so far has just been for me to go ahead and get my US passport. I need to quiz them closely on this.
We'd consider moving the wedding forward if we can at the same venue/church but a registry wedding isn't something we want to do just so that we can sort a visa. It may be that I end up having to do the first 6 months on my own.
They've also agreed to get me in a tax accountant to advise me on how to handle my tax.
As far as Selective Service goes I'll also double check - I'm 27 and from what I can see it's only compulsory for those aged 18-25...
We'd consider moving the wedding forward if we can at the same venue/church but a registry wedding isn't something we want to do just so that we can sort a visa. It may be that I end up having to do the first 6 months on my own.
They've also agreed to get me in a tax accountant to advise me on how to handle my tax.
As far as Selective Service goes I'll also double check - I'm 27 and from what I can see it's only compulsory for those aged 18-25...
Just get a registry wedding done with a couple witnesses, sorted. Do the church wedding as planned, it's only a ceremony anyway and no one need know....your making this a problem when there isn't one.
SS you were meant to sign up when 18, don't know what or if there could be any problems with not signing up regarding sponsoring a partner though, but you certainly need the last 3 years of taxes filed for it.
You want your own lawyer to ask questions too because the company lawyer isn't looking out for your benefit as you ain't the client, the company is so they will do what is in the best interest of their client which might not be the same for you and your partner.
#19
Re: Relocating to Houston...
You're in a position that many here would envy, in that you're a US Citizen and can bring a wife with you without the hassle of a spouse visa....
Ultimately it's really up to you and your wife-to-be to decide whether being married now so that you can be together in the USA in the near future is more important than the planned wedding in 2011.
Ultimately it's really up to you and your wife-to-be to decide whether being married now so that you can be together in the USA in the near future is more important than the planned wedding in 2011.
#20
Re: Relocating to Houston...
Thanks Bob. I've been on to my company to put me in direct contact with their immigration lawyer - their advice so far has just been for me to go ahead and get my US passport. I need to quiz them closely on this.
We'd consider moving the wedding forward if we can at the same venue/church but a registry wedding isn't something we want to do just so that we can sort a visa. It may be that I end up having to do the first 6 months on my own.
They've also agreed to get me in a tax accountant to advise me on how to handle my tax.
As far as Selective Service goes I'll also double check - I'm 27 and from what I can see it's only compulsory for those aged 18-25...
We'd consider moving the wedding forward if we can at the same venue/church but a registry wedding isn't something we want to do just so that we can sort a visa. It may be that I end up having to do the first 6 months on my own.
They've also agreed to get me in a tax accountant to advise me on how to handle my tax.
As far as Selective Service goes I'll also double check - I'm 27 and from what I can see it's only compulsory for those aged 18-25...
#21
Re: Relocating to Houston...
Doing the first 6 months on your own, I'm sure would be doable, but then she'd be visiting you on the VWP and only allowed to stay for up to 90 days at a time with about the same amount of time spent out of the US before she visits you again...sorry if you know all this already
#22
Rootbeeraholic
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Location: Houston, Tx
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Re: Relocating to Houston...
You're in a position that many here would envy, in that you're a US Citizen and can bring a wife with you without the hassle of a spouse visa....
Ultimately it's really up to you and your wife-to-be to decide whether being married now so that you can be together in the USA in the near future is more important than the planned wedding in 2011.
Ultimately it's really up to you and your wife-to-be to decide whether being married now so that you can be together in the USA in the near future is more important than the planned wedding in 2011.
Even were we to get married tomorrow it could still take 6 or more months for her to get approved to come over, potentially longer.
I understand that most people who are looking for a longer term move would envy my situation but actually being a USC is what's causing the issues for me. If I wasn't a USC I'd almost certainly be able to take her across for at least a year, possibly two while I carried out my work contract and then return to the UK.