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Ian12 May 9th 2011 10:28 pm

Oz to London - back home
 
The noise, the crowds, the thumping of London taxi diesel engines under my window, jostling for a space to walk on Oxford Street, stellar like car insurance premiums, a dodgy coalition government and I am LOVING IT.

It is true I do miss the silence of my Ozzy bedroom which was on the bush and all of the wildlife - I made friends with the sulphur crested cockatoos and rainbow loriketes - but it is good to be home.

I am not saying that the UK is better or anything silly like that. It is different and it suits us better. The car sits outside most of the time because it is cheaper and quicker to nip on a bus. Better still, we can walk to most places. Being in the West End we tend to have friends pop in when "in town" - very different from the suburban isolation we experienced.

Within half an hour we can be in the garden of "ye quaint old world pub" enjoying a pint of real ale, some excellent food while exchanging pleasantries to folks on nearby tables. Who said the English were not friendly? The kids run around the garden playing tag or ball with the other kids and a great evening is had by all.

OK it has only been six weeks back in blighty but so far so good.

Greetings to readers in both hemispheres.:thumbsup:

Pollyana May 9th 2011 11:57 pm

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Originally Posted by Ian12 (Post 9353680)
The noise, the crowds, the thumping of London taxi diesel engines under my window, jostling for a space to walk on Oxford Street, stellar like car insurance premiums, a dodgy coalition government and I am LOVING IT.

It is true I do miss the silence of my Ozzy bedroom which was on the bush and all of the wildlife - I made friends with the sulphur crested cockatoos and rainbow loriketes - but it is good to be home.

I am not saying that the UK is better or anything silly like that. It is different and it suits us better. The car sits outside most of the time because it is cheaper and quicker to nip on a bus. Better still, we can walk to most places. Being in the West End we tend to have friends pop in when "in town" - very different from the suburban isolation we experienced.

Within half an hour we can be in the garden of "ye quaint old world pub" enjoying a pint of real ale, some excellent food while exchanging pleasantries to folks on nearby tables. Who said the English were not friendly? The kids run around the garden playing tag or ball with the other kids and a great evening is had by all.

OK it has only been six weeks back in blighty but so far so good.

Greetings to readers in both hemispheres.:thumbsup:

You went back? :blink: :thumbup:I always wondered if you would.....lucky things!! Ive just got back to Aus after a month spent in London and Bristol, and I swear I'm only alive when i'm back there. Your thoughts sound just like mine - I get to Heathrow and I just inhale the atmosphere, the noise, the bustle, the racket, everything. its home :)
Good luck, hope it works out well and the kids are happy there....give me a job and I'd be over there too :thumbup:

Irish Guinness May 10th 2011 10:21 am

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Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 9353777)
You went back? :blink: :thumbup:I always wondered if you would.....lucky things!! Ive just got back to Aus after a month spent in London and Bristol, and I swear I'm only alive when i'm back there. Your thoughts sound just like mine - I get to Heathrow and I just inhale the atmosphere, the noise, the bustle, the racket, everything. its home :)
Good luck, hope it works out well and the kids are happy there....give me a job and I'd be over there too :thumbup:

I love it to thank God I am going for a holiday again this year..I feel like a different person when I am in the U.K.

moneypenny20 May 10th 2011 10:23 am

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Brilliant to hear from you again, often wondered how you and yours were getting on. Long may you enjoy living back there. Good luck for the future Ian.

quoll May 11th 2011 11:01 pm

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Originally Posted by Irish Guinness (Post 9354511)
I love it to thank God I am going for a holiday again this year..I feel like a different person when I am in the U.K.

Me too - it is great to feel whole at least for some time each year. I get two months this year woo hooo!!!

toodlepip May 13th 2011 7:37 am

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Oh sounds wonderful. I love London - lived there from 97-01 but we really can't afford to go back there, we're heading further north.

I think I'll feel more alive in the UK than I do here in Australia!

izzi81 May 21st 2011 12:48 pm

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Originally Posted by Ian12 (Post 9353680)
The noise, the crowds, the thumping of London taxi diesel engines under my window, jostling for a space to walk on Oxford Street, stellar like car insurance premiums, a dodgy coalition government and I am LOVING IT.

I love this... because it encapsulates for me why forums are useful but that it always comes down to you making up your own mind. Most of the discussions on BE are about 'should I move to...' 'will I like it?' 'do you like it?'.
But the thing is... we all like different things! What you've described there, I hate. Noise, crowds, cars outside my window, no space to walk. But for you, it's clearly great!

Each to their own, I'm glad people like different things, that's what makes the world work. I'm glad you've found a place you love... we're still looking for ours and I know it is the opposite of where you are! :lol:

Forums like this are great for information gathering, but there's no way to know whether it's right for you except by asking yourself. :thumbup:

Welshie82 May 24th 2011 3:57 am

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It's the same here in Canada. I live in a metropolois yet it feels...dead. There's no atmosphere. When I walk downtown everyone has their heads down, nobody really talks to one another. Everyone and everything is sterile and disconnected.

Yet back home everywhere feels so alive, the city itself is like one giant living organism. Can't wait to move back home.

the troubadour May 24th 2011 4:48 am

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Originally Posted by Ian12 (Post 9353680)
The noise, the crowds, the thumping of London taxi diesel engines under my window, jostling for a space to walk on Oxford Street, stellar like car insurance premiums, a dodgy coalition government and I am LOVING IT.

It is true I do miss the silence of my Ozzy bedroom which was on the bush and all of the wildlife - I made friends with the sulphur crested cockatoos and rainbow loriketes - but it is good to be home.

I am not saying that the UK is better or anything silly like that. It is different and it suits us better. The car sits outside most of the time because it is cheaper and quicker to nip on a bus. Better still, we can walk to most places. Being in the West End we tend to have friends pop in when "in town" - very different from the suburban isolation we experienced.

Within half an hour we can be in the garden of "ye quaint old world pub" enjoying a pint of real ale, some excellent food while exchanging pleasantries to folks on nearby tables. Who said the English were not friendly? The kids run around the garden playing tag or ball with the other kids and a great evening is had by all.

OK it has only been six weeks back in blighty but so far so good.

Greetings to readers in both hemispheres.:thumbsup:

Now you've got me all nostologic for the old town as well. Here am I back in sleepy Perth trying to convince myself that London is not for me any longer, being over fifty,but the truth is I miss it very much.

Must admit always found it far easier to connect with folk than here.Then there is a feeling of being in a place far greater than oneself. While here in Perth it sort of feels that it is all about the self in what one has etc.

the troubadour May 24th 2011 4:49 am

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Originally Posted by Irish Guinness (Post 9354511)
I love it to thank God I am going for a holiday again this year..I feel like a different person when I am in the U.K.

A lot of us can identify with what you mean.

pompeyblonde May 31st 2011 5:59 am

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Yeah...very reassuring to hear this...If i had the money and the job Id be back too:unsure: All the best to you! :thumbup:

Kittykat11 Jun 3rd 2011 12:02 pm

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Originally Posted by the troubadour (Post 9383780)
While here in Perth it sort of feels that it is all about the self in what one has etc.

I couldn't agree more!! People here (Perth area) seem obsessed with what they have (how big their car/boat/4x4 is) or where they live (must be in the "correct" suburb/street). I've never been in a more materialistic place in my life!

golgo13 Nov 10th 2011 8:30 pm

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Originally Posted by Ian12 (Post 9353680)
The noise, the crowds, the thumping of London taxi diesel engines under my window, jostling for a space to walk on Oxford Street, stellar like car insurance premiums, a dodgy coalition government and I am LOVING IT.

It is true I do miss the silence of my Ozzy bedroom which was on the bush and all of the wildlife - I made friends with the sulphur crested cockatoos and rainbow loriketes - but it is good to be home.

I am not saying that the UK is better or anything silly like that. It is different and it suits us better. The car sits outside most of the time because it is cheaper and quicker to nip on a bus. Better still, we can walk to most places. Being in the West End we tend to have friends pop in when "in town" - very different from the suburban isolation we experienced.

Within half an hour we can be in the garden of "ye quaint old world pub" enjoying a pint of real ale, some excellent food while exchanging pleasantries to folks on nearby tables. Who said the English were not friendly? The kids run around the garden playing tag or ball with the other kids and a great evening is had by all.

OK it has only been six weeks back in blighty but so far so good.

Greetings to readers in both hemispheres.:thumbsup:

We are 12 weeks away from returning to the UK, we have settled on Croydon initially but will also go and visit Bristol and Brighton since we are looking for something more chilled. Went to uni in London 02-05 and loved it, working there might be a different story though but shall find out soon.


Any further date Ian12?

Englishman43 Nov 11th 2011 3:36 pm

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Originally Posted by the troubadour (Post 9383780)
Now you've got me all nostologic for the old town as well. Here am I back in sleepy Perth trying to convince myself that London is not for me any longer, being over fifty,but the truth is I miss it very much.

Must admit always found it far easier to connect with folk than here.Then there is a feeling of being in a place far greater than oneself. While here in Perth it sort of feels that it is all about the self in what one has etc.

That is perfectly put. I've always felt in England the history, the old buildings etc give me a sense of where I've come from & my small place in a bigger scheme of things whereas here in Southern California where there is nothing like that it's very soulless & shallow.

the troubadour Nov 13th 2011 11:34 pm

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Originally Posted by Kittykat11 (Post 9407508)
I couldn't agree more!! People here (Perth area) seem obsessed with what they have (how big their car/boat/4x4 is) or where they live (must be in the "correct" suburb/street). I've never been in a more materialistic place in my life!

Indeed it is. There is just too little to Perth for us and finally my OH is coming to the conclusion that it could be time to move on.
After both experiencing some serious 'insular'and close to corrupt working conditions it has brought home in no uncertain terms the fact that we have to look for alternatives.
I do believe the over emphasis on material pursuit is the answer to the lack of other viable alternatives. In my case not a particually healthy way to live.

the troubadour Nov 13th 2011 11:42 pm

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Originally Posted by Englishman43 (Post 9727466)
That is perfectly put. I've always felt in England the history, the old buildings etc give me a sense of where I've come from & my small place in a bigger scheme of things whereas here in Southern California where there is nothing like that it's very soulless & shallow.

CA is not too dissimilar to WA. Smaller scale of course. One issue is the over emphasis on youth. I feel more stongly the older I get that the old world is far more in tune with life.

crap coffee Dec 10th 2011 8:06 am

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Originally Posted by the troubadour (Post 9731060)
Indeed it is. There is just too little to Perth for us and finally my OH is coming to the conclusion that it could be time to move on.
After both experiencing some serious 'insular'and close to corrupt working conditions it has brought home in no uncertain terms the fact that we have to look for alternatives.
I do believe the over emphasis on material pursuit is the answer to the lack of other viable alternatives. In my case not a particually healthy way to live.

:thumbup:

Thats' right.

dave99 Jan 1st 2012 11:59 am

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I found the obsession with stuff, materialism, is far more prevelant here in the UK. It seems all people care about is buying the latest gadget, having the latest big screen tv so they can sit on their arses in front of it all night after work and gossip about eastenders/xfactor.

In australia I found the opposite to be true, people were far more social and spent more time out and about rather than glued to a tv.

golgo13 Jan 1st 2012 11:57 pm

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There are people like that everywhere dave99, I live in Melbourne and there are people like that here too. I guess a notable aspect that should be thrown in is how far pr close are to amenities that allow you to have the coveted lifestyle. I have numerous parks and city activities near me, but on a 40c day like today I am happy I have a decent tv to watch sport on! :)

Irish Guinness Jan 2nd 2012 3:09 am

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Originally Posted by golgo13 (Post 9815247)
There are people like that everywhere dave99, I live in Melbourne and there are people like that here too. I guess a notable aspect that should be thrown in is how far pr close are to amenities that allow you to have the coveted lifestyle. I have numerous parks and city activities near me, but on a 40c day like today I am happy I have a decent tv to watch sport on! :)

me to !!!! way to hot to be outside,5 minutes in that sun and you would be burnt:eek: :eek:

sallysimmons Jan 7th 2012 10:07 pm

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Originally Posted by dave99 (Post 9814515)
I found the obsession with stuff, materialism, is far more prevelant here in the UK. It seems all people care about is buying the latest gadget, having the latest big screen tv so they can sit on their arses in front of it all night after work and gossip about eastenders/xfactor.

Wow, you really need some new friends :lol:

Most of my friends back home seem so busy with their various interests that they are hardly ever home. I envy them their busy social lives and can't wait to get back to join in.

I think there are couch potatoes everywhere.

Cumbrian Lass Jan 10th 2012 6:25 am

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Originally Posted by sallysimmons (Post 9827344)
Wow, you really need some new friends :lol:

Most of my friends back home seem so busy with their various interests that they are hardly ever home. I envy them their busy social lives and can't wait to get back to join in.

I think there are couch potatoes everywhere.

are all your friends in the kendal area sallsimmons?
maybe i could join in too LOL! cheeky me!!!
I am finding it difficult to make friends here,alot harder than dare say it ...Alberta. I am going to go to a charity volunteer job fare today,to see if i can pick up a little part time job helping out.Then when i move i will try and set up my cake business from home:thumbsup:

brits1 Jan 10th 2012 6:42 am

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Originally Posted by sallysimmons (Post 9827344)
Wow, you really need some new friends :lol:

Most of my friends back home seem so busy with their various interests that they are hardly ever home. I envy them their busy social lives and can't wait to get back to join in.

I think there are couch potatoes everywhere.

Just thinking the same, I rarely watch tv and if I do its something I enjoy.....I hate soaps but would not knock someone for watching them....each to their own...Also if I started to get hung up on keeping up with the Joneses....well I would call it a day....Dave...you need to start living a life and not watching what others do....all that rubbish you mentioned happens the world over

brits1 Jan 10th 2012 6:51 am

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Originally Posted by dave99 (Post 9814515)
I found the obsession with stuff, materialism, is far more prevelant here in the UK. It seems all people care about is buying the latest gadget, having the latest big screen tv so they can sit on their arses in front of it all night after work and gossip about eastenders/xfactor.

In australia I found the opposite to be true, people were far more social and spent more time out and about rather than glued to a tv.

Urrgghhhh generalisation....dont get me started......your circle of friends might live like that (although why you would be friends with someone who is who appears the opposite from you is barmy)but not all of Aus are outdoors etc...etc....I dont have the latest big screen etc I certainly dont watch Eastenders and I certainly do not sit on my ars-all night and I live in the UK s you have that bit wrong,blimey you know more on t.v than I do lol.....but if you find life to be like that and you dont like it then do something about it but don't generalise a country life is not that simple...wish it was.

sallysimmons Jan 10th 2012 11:51 am

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Originally Posted by Cumbrian Lass (Post 9832097)
are all your friends in the kendal area sallsimmons?
maybe i could join in too LOL! cheeky me!!!

:lol: No, I'm afraid not. Half are in Manchester and half in Leeds/Bradford area. We're trying to move to Kendal because it's halfway between my mum in the wilds of Cumbria and my husband's parents in Southport. We won't actually have friends right in town - but the train services are good, so we're hoping people will travel to see us.

Sorry to hijack this thread but if you're creative in any way, have you checked out the classes at the Brewery Arts Centre? They have a lot going on there and it seems a good way to meet new people.


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