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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
I feel the need to point out that, while many people may get away with the "VWP express," you're unlikely to convince them that you're only here for a casual visit when you show up with the dog.
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by it's just not cricket
(Post 8231059)
I feel the need to point out that, while many people may get away with the "VWP express," you're unlikely to convince them that you're only here for a casual visit when you show up with the dog.
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
lol :lol: I would defo look into it more, bit of a risk!
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by it's just not cricket
(Post 8231059)
I feel the need to point out that, while many people may get away with the "VWP express," you're unlikely to convince them that you're only here for a casual visit when you show up with the dog.
Very good point! P., I was also advised by someone who was US government based (and knew better) to go the VWP route. Frankly I couldn't risk that myself, what if they decide to send me back and ban me from the US for good. What happens to my happy ever after dream then!?? If you look at signature you'll see I've gone down the K1 route and just been approved. Honestly, you can do this the legal way in the given time. There are lots of others taking that route right here, right now and you'll get all the support you need. Get that 129F completed and sent off asap, your November date is still do-able!!.:thumbup: |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Sounds like the fiancee still wants to go a different route. Horses being led to water etc.
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by peejaygee
(Post 8230534)
I will be printing this thread off and taking it to show the person in Feb and asking them blunty 'is it illegal'
Ian |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by peejaygee
(Post 8230159)
I sorta feel a little bit better knowing I've nipped this in the bud now and get the correct route done...
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Ok, if this comes across wrong please bear with me... This is what we would like to do (after chatting last night) and we think we have it licked... but there is always one or two questions, which I'm going to ask here..
Ok, she fills in the Fiance Visa, sends it's off. In the mean time, provided I'm not doing too many back to backs, etc, I'm still visiting on the VWP. Hopefully it takes about 6 months to come back, around about June or July, she is visiting in July, I'm not over there, so I've not entered the US for the 90 limit on getting married. I then visit back in late sept, which puts me under the 90 day issue, which enables me to get married in Nov. Here are the two questions, once I've entered on the Fiance Visa in Sep and it is valid for 90 days, does this allow me to return back to the UK after my visit, then return back to the US to get married? or between July (or when the Visa comes back) should I wait until Nov to visit again? (Couldn't bear to think I'd have to wait 4 months to back with her) Also, I don't know if I'm reading this right, but once I'm married and I have to apply for the spouse visa (I think) I have to return back to the UK until that is processed? The reason I ask this, I am thinking of renting my house out, etc, if I've gotta return back, that puts a different spin on dates for that, etc. The reason I'm confused is because I don't see the logic in the apparant penalisation of someone who has done it the correct way, after just getting married to the person they love being sent away. As you can understand, we both want to do it the correct and legal way, as we don't want to jepodise anything and/or have problems with law. Regards Paul. |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by peejaygee
(Post 8232216)
Ok, she fills in the Fiance Visa, sends it's off. In the mean time, provided I'm not doing too many back to backs, etc, I'm still visiting on the VWP.
Hopefully it takes about 6 months to come back, around about June or July, she is visiting in July, I'm not over there, so I've not entered the US for the 90 limit on getting married. I then visit back in late sept, which puts me under the 90 day issue, which enables me to get married in Nov. Here are the two questions, once I've entered on the Fiance Visa in Sep and it is valid for 90 days, does this allow me to return back to the UK after my visit, then return back to the US to get married? or between July (or when the Visa comes back) should I wait until Nov to visit again? (Couldn't bear to think I'd have to wait 4 months to back with her) Also, I don't know if I'm reading this right, but once I'm married and I have to apply for the spouse visa (I think) I have to return back to the UK until that is processed? The reason I ask this, I am thinking of renting my house out, etc, if I've gotta return back, that puts a different spin on dates for that, etc. The reason I'm confused is because I don't see the logic in the apparant penalisation of someone who has done it the correct way, after just getting married to the person they love being sent away. If the restricted travel after marriage bothers you about the K-1, then you have a couple of other choices: 1. Marry sooner in a small civil marriage (like NOW), and do the spouse Immigrant Visa. You'll probably just make it back in time for the big wedding event in November. 2. Wait to marry in November as planned, but realize that you'll then return to the UK for Immigrant Visa processing, with making VWP visits in the meantime, this time as a married couple. Immigration is done on a set of rules and boundaries, and sometimes what the couple wants, doesn't perfectly fit in with what Immigration requires. |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by peejaygee
(Post 8232216)
Ok, she fills in the Fiance Visa, sends it's off.
In the mean time, provided I'm not doing too many back to backs, etc, I'm still visiting on the VWP. I then visit back in late sept, which puts me under the 90 day issue, which enables me to get married in Nov. ... once I've entered on the Fiance Visa in Sep and it is valid for 90 days, does this allow me to return back to the UK after my visit, then return back to the US to get married? or between July (or when the Visa comes back) should I wait until Nov to visit again? (Couldn't bear to think I'd have to wait 4 months to back with her) I don't know if I'm reading this right, but once I'm married and I have to apply for the spouse visa... If though, you don't get a K-1 visa and instead simply get married in the US and then return to the UK, then yes... you'll be applying for a spouse (CR-1) visa. If that's the case, your (then) wife would file an I-130 petition and NOT an I-129F. The reason I'm confused is because I don't see the logic in the apparant penalisation of someone who has done it the correct way, after just getting married to the person they love being sent away. Ian |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Being pedantic - sometimes extra detail is important - a visa is a travel document that allows you to travel to a POE and request entry. A visa does not allow entry, the inspecting immigration officer at the POE does that (or he denies entry).
Regards, JEff
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 8232305)
Think about what a visa actually is... it's a travel document that allows you to enter the US.
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Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Pee :p I suggest you listen to the people here, you dont have to ask us if coming to marry on the vwp and staying is illegal, the immigration website for USCIS tells you and I would suggest you take that as the "word of God". My husband and I are in the middle of AOS ( for him to stay ) after coming on a K-1 ( wish we had done things differently but alas ) this is the route we chose and it has been the safest one by far.
If we had chosen to have him enter on the VWP and then adjust, he would surely have been sent home. We are lower incomed ....certainly not even middle class but we have scraped by on luck and faith in the system, had we done the 10 foot pole jump and had him come in on the vwp and then adjusted...i am certain he wouldnt be here and my 3 sons would be fatherless for the next 10 years or so. Its apparent you dont have children involved so I dont want to seem dramatic, but after being on here for over a year and a half now and learning what I have, please follow the immigration rules and come over the way you should legally. however, it IS YOUR future ultimately and none of us would like to see you back here next year asking for help to appeal a deportation. I hope I am right to assume that most of the people here like to hear about happy endings and helping people in the right direction. I dont think anyone would purposely steer you wrong...it just sounds to me like this co-worker of your fiance's really has no clue about the VWP and the consequence of your AOS being denied and not being able to appeal it. Good Luck. |
Re: Moving to the US: Practical Questions
Originally Posted by peejaygee
(Post 8232216)
As you can understand, we both want to do it the correct and legal way, as we don't want to jepodise anything and/or have problems with law.
After you marry...
Hope that helps! ~ Jenney |
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