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Some ideas for those who may be feeling a little homesick or lost without their friends back home.
I just got back from a book club meeting, met a great group of smart readers, I also have a new friend from Berlin who is understanding of the life of an expat.
I found them through meetup.com and yahoogroups. Meetup costs to organize a group but not to join, Yahoo is free but has less features.
I have been here nearly three years and have been feeling a bit down recently, am hoping these new outlets will help me to move forward, maybe it will work for you.
I just got back from a book club meeting, met a great group of smart readers, I also have a new friend from Berlin who is understanding of the life of an expat.
I found them through meetup.com and yahoogroups. Meetup costs to organize a group but not to join, Yahoo is free but has less features.
I have been here nearly three years and have been feeling a bit down recently, am hoping these new outlets will help me to move forward, maybe it will work for you.
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I'm just feeling the same as well after a few months...but I bump into people all the time from england..and my neighbor is English, She's been here 20 years
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I'm just feeling the same as well after a few months...but I bump into people all the time from england..and my neighbor is English, She's been here 20 years
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Hey that's great news. Reading is such a solitary pursuit but joining a book club turns reading into a shared experience. Glad you took some steps to find people with the same interests and here's the new found friendships you will enjoy.
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I sent this to you in Karma - but good for you Bradford Lass! You don't have to be from another country to have to look hard for friends. People are so friendly where I live but they are not transient, so many have friends/family long since established that fill up all of their free time.
I just looked at Meetup and there's a travel focused group in our area. That could be fun ... though I might not be able to convince myself to go without OH. Hmmm.
I just looked at Meetup and there's a travel focused group in our area. That could be fun ... though I might not be able to convince myself to go without OH. Hmmm.
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And they were all so well read!
There are a few more I am interested in, wish I had done it years ago.
Two of the group had lived in England but they didnt know where Bradford was.
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I sent this to you in Karma - but good for you Bradford Lass! You don't have to be from another country to have to look hard for friends. People are so friendly where I live but they are not transient, so many have friends/family long since established that fill up all of their free time.
I just looked at Meetup and there's a travel focused group in our area. That could be fun ... though I might not be able to convince myself to go without OH. Hmmm.
I just looked at Meetup and there's a travel focused group in our area. That could be fun ... though I might not be able to convince myself to go without OH. Hmmm.
Two of the group had lived in England but they didnt know where Bradford was.
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[QUOTE=Bradford Lass;6757410]Some ideas for those who may be feeling a little homesick or lost without their friends back home.
I just got back from a book club meeting, met a great group of smart readers, I also have a new friend from Berlin who is understanding of the life of an expat.
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The book club thing wouldn't work round here
....... I can't find anyone outside the family that can read
I just got back from a book club meeting, met a great group of smart readers, I also have a new friend from Berlin who is understanding of the life of an expat.
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The book club thing wouldn't work round here
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I'd love to join a book club but everyone here likes TV too much to read a book.
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I guess just cos we don't meet people every day doesn't mean they are not out there.
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