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Old Jun 20th 2005, 7:18 pm
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Originally Posted by Guelder Rose
But that was done in the Lounge, this is the USA forum ... I don't think everyone reads the threads in the Lounge.
Sorry ..I spoke out of turn...
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 7:23 pm
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 7:39 pm
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Originally Posted by Celtic_Angel
..... why can't a big smile and a Hi do
Thank you. Might save you AND me some embarrassment.....
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 7:54 pm
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Originally Posted by ScotsmanInTexas
I on the other hand don't want to hug anyone at all and more to the point want them to stop hugging me.
Have you tried a liberal dose of OFF or Skin So Soft ?
Or maybe a Glasgow Kiss?
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:27 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Originally Posted by Taffyles
Have you tried a liberal dose of OFF or Skin So Soft ?
Or maybe a Glasgow Kiss?
hehe, well I could try that right enough, they (wife's friends) already think I'm brutish, anti-social and stand-offish so probably wouldn't surprise them too much!
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Originally Posted by Toontje
Thank you. Might save you AND me some embarrassment.....
oh naive Toontje"sigh" you are not getting away with anything short of a big hug!!
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:31 pm
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Originally Posted by Celtic_Angel
oh naive Toontje"sigh" you are not getting away with anything short of a big hug!!
Bugger!






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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:34 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Originally Posted by Celtic_Angel
I guess you just look cuddly! I'm not crazy about hugging either , unless it's my immediate family of course and then a good cuddle is in order!

I only occasionally suffer from an unwanted hug, I guess my body language says it all, I tend to hesitate and it all gets a little awkward In fact I'm not crazy about the hand shaking thing either,
I mean I don't work so I meet people in very informal settings, why can't a big smile and a Hi do
What about if you're a hopless hugger like me. I rarely make the first move, I stand on guard when I see the huggee approach with their intention, but somehow I always end up going the same way, and well then it's just embarassing. Is it me, or does anyone else have this problem ?
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:37 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Originally Posted by HappyHammer
What about if you're a hopless hugger like me. I rarely make the first move, I stand on guard when I see the huggee approach with their intention, but somehow I always end up going the same way, and well then it's just embarassing. Is it me, or does anyone else have this problem ?

I'm a hopeless hugger as well. I even make the first move sometimes depending on my mood! I just love hugging - it's so expressive!
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Originally Posted by ScotsmanInTexas


I don't know if it's just me but I rather dislike the American habit of people I barely know trying to hug me.
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Baked beans the night before help!!
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:45 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Originally Posted by willmore
I'm a hopeless hugger as well. I even make the first move sometimes depending on my mood! I just love hugging - it's so expressive!
I made the first move once when we were visiting my husband's family ... we were leaving, or so I thought, and I just wanted the whole performance over and done with. Having hugged everyone, I then realised we weren't leaving after all - and had to go through the whole performance all over again ten minutes later! At that point I decided never to make the first move ever again ...
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Originally Posted by Ray
Sorry ..I spoke out of turn...
Ray ... I'm quite sure you never speak out of turn ...
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 8:53 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Of course hugg's all round when arriveing or leaveing England. But after I'v now been hugged by alote of fat sweaty Americans, I'm on my guard :scared:
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 9:13 pm
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I was totally surprised when the real estate agent who was showing me apartments in New York hugged me and kissed me on the cheek at the end of the day because I didn't know people here did that. Maybe she was just really happy to get her commission. But since I had just arrived from Geneva where people always kiss THREE times, I automatically went for her other cheek and then it was her turn to look surprised.
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Old Jun 20th 2005, 9:14 pm
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Default Re: How can I stop people Hugging Me?

Originally Posted by britvic
Of course hugg's all round when arriveing or leaveing England. But after I'v now been hugged by alote of fat sweaty Americans, I'm on my guard :scared:
I was hugged by a hairy sweaty man in a vest one time! :scared:
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