Originally Posted by ameriton

Mmm, and it's funny; before I met him I wouldn't have thought of picking up and moving but now as long as I'm guaranteed to be with him I'd do anything. I love the idea of starting out new and learning everything all over again with him. It's a new adventure.

He works with computers so I'm sure he won't have too much difficulty finding a job, but the more to choose from the better. I work in mortgages, and in my small town the jobs are limited.

Also, living in a bigger more cosmopolitan area keeps your mind active. No offense to Americans, I am one after all.. but they're pretty stupid. I recently explained to a friend that Oxford is not a country, but a town in England. I overheard her tell someone that my fiance wasn't English because he was from Oxford.

Originally Posted by evoal2003

when we made our decision to live together the way i looked at it, if my fiance moves here she will live my life, if i move there, we live hers. if we both move we will live ours.

strange how you never think of moving. i wouldn't have moved towns this time last year, now i can t wait to move countries.

just a tought your post gave me.