Coping With A Divided Family
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With married children both here in the US and back in England, and the time for retirement closing in, the question has been raised. What do we do when we retire? Do we stay here, where we have lived for the last thirty years, or do we drag up and move back to England, with the obvious advantage of the National Health Service. I would be very interested to hear from any other people in the same predicament and to learn how they have or will handle the situation when the time arrives.
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With married children both here in the US and back in England, and the time for retirement closing in, the question has been raised. What do we do when we retire? Do we stay here, where we have lived for the last thirty years, or do we drag up and move back to England, with the obvious advantage of the National Health Service. I would be very interested to hear from any other people in the same predicament and to learn how they have or will handle the situation when the time arrives.
My plan is to split time between the two countries. There's been a long thread on the difficulties of doing this on the moving back to the UK forum that would be a good starting point for this kind of retirement arrangement.
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Medicare is a concern, both in terms of its cost and possible major "reforms" by the Republicans. But at least over 65's do (currently!) have a single-payer system that is being denied to everyone else. A bigger concern to me is health care access in the years before I am eligible for Medicare.
My plan is to split time between the two countries. There's been a long thread on the difficulties of doing this on the moving back to the UK forum that would be a good starting point for this kind of retirement arrangement.
My plan is to split time between the two countries. There's been a long thread on the difficulties of doing this on the moving back to the UK forum that would be a good starting point for this kind of retirement arrangement.
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We are in a similar predicament...although we only have one child and she lives in Canada. We do not have a visa for Canada and the Canadian government are making it extremely difficult for retirees to get PR. We can split our time between the UK and Canada...but what happens if one has a serious health issue...or as the years go by you cannot get travel insurance?
These are things many expats don't consider when they are planning to move from the UK.
These are things many expats don't consider when they are planning to move from the UK.
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We are in a similar predicament...although we only have one child and she lives in Canada. We do not have a visa for Canada and the Canadian government are making it extremely difficult for retirees to get PR. We can split our time between the UK and Canada...but what happens if one has a serious health issue...or as the years go by you cannot get travel insurance?
That is oh so true.
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We are in a similar predicament...although we only have one child and she lives in Canada. We do not have a visa for Canada and the Canadian government are making it extremely difficult for retirees to get PR. We can split our time between the UK and Canada...but what happens if one has a serious health issue...or as the years go by you cannot get travel insurance?
These are things many expats don't consider when they are planning to move from the UK.
These are things many expats don't consider when they are planning to move from the UK.

http://www.saga.co.uk/insurance/travel-insurance.aspx
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I'm thinking ahead J. A couple of years ago I had a nightmare of a job trying to get my MIL travel insurance. When I did manage to get insurance the doctor changed one of her meds...I had to inform the insurance company of this and they pulled the cover. Even if you're in the 50/60's...you could have major problems getting travel insurance if you have health problems.
Jim.
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With kids in both places, I'd probably live in UK (personal preference) and visit the US annually, pick the season you love best and stay a month each year. But like other say as you age medical cover could get harder. My Mom is 73 and only visits for a short time now, the plane ride exhausts her and she takes days now to get over it and insurance is harder to find, but it is out there.
Or make your kids behave and all live in one country
Or make your kids behave and all live in one country
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Another question, if you are still a UK citizen, would you need travel insurance? Or would you be entitled to be treated by the NHS if you had a medical emergency?
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If you are a resident in UK you get to use the NHS, if not you'd need travel insurance to go there. Our Blue cross insurance here in the US covers us internationally. (I asked before we went) The NHS still will treat you in emergencies no problem sometimes they don't even ask for payment and other times they will want payment. Depends on who asks the questions and where you are treated, some areas are more used to tourists than others.
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If you are a resident in UK you get to use the NHS, if not you'd need travel insurance to go there. Our Blue cross insurance here in the US covers us internationally. (I asked before we went) The NHS still will treat you in emergencies no problem sometimes they don't even ask for payment and other times they will want payment. Depends on who asks the questions and where you are treated, some areas are more used to tourists than others.
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With married children both here in the US and back in England, and the time for retirement closing in, the question has been raised. What do we do when we retire? Do we stay here, where we have lived for the last thirty years, or do we drag up and move back to England, with the obvious advantage of the National Health Service. I would be very interested to hear from any other people in the same predicament and to learn how they have or will handle the situation when the time arrives.
When the husband accepted early retirement last year, we had to decide what to do & where to go. Several factors pulled us back to the States. We both have older family members who've been hoping for years that we'd move Stateside. We also have the afore-mentioned children settled here. Health insurance (of a sort) is in place till Medicare kicks in. And, lastly, we couldn't afford to buy a house in the part of England where we had our ties, but we can afford this here in this part of the US.
So . . . we moved back here to see how it goes. The jury's still out. It's been a difficult adjustment, & I'm not certain what twist the story will take.
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If you have better information, perhaps share it again?
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With married children both here in the US and back in England, and the time for retirement closing in, the question has been raised. What do we do when we retire? Do we stay here, where we have lived for the last thirty years, or do we drag up and move back to England, with the obvious advantage of the National Health Service.
If you are entitled to Medicare, is the National Health Service really a better deal? Different perhaps - but better?




