Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
#76
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
I'm on this thread becuase I'm hoping to move to the US with my boyfriend. His mother, who has had a work visa for 5 years, called us to say she had been approved for a green card and flew home to see us. She has been recently asked to do these tests. That's all I know. It's a real shame that we seem so hung up on her green card status when I'm only looking for some advice.
Rene, thanks once again for your constructive feedback. It is complicated, I've been flicking between posts at work today so sorry I have not had time to study the issue.
Rene, thanks once again for your constructive feedback. It is complicated, I've been flicking between posts at work today so sorry I have not had time to study the issue.
#77
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
I can't believe this thread has gone on this long. It's simple, read the Wiki, tells us which visa you are going to go for. The forum has clearly stated that finding a job is one thing, qualifying and getting a visa is another.
With unemployment in US in some areas reaching 11-12% - it's hard to believe many will wait to petition (spend extra dollars) and time.
Yes, OP and another person here are wanting to move to States but it's clear that it's not the easiest market to crack. Both in terms of current economy and visa status!
This forum is as good as one wants it to be. If one can take the suggestions and learn, it will be quick to understand if ones dream can come true.
Canada, Australia and NZ are still welcoming migrants!
With unemployment in US in some areas reaching 11-12% - it's hard to believe many will wait to petition (spend extra dollars) and time.
Yes, OP and another person here are wanting to move to States but it's clear that it's not the easiest market to crack. Both in terms of current economy and visa status!
This forum is as good as one wants it to be. If one can take the suggestions and learn, it will be quick to understand if ones dream can come true.
Canada, Australia and NZ are still welcoming migrants!
#80
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Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
I was under the impression that this site was here to help potential visa applicants...
I won't be asking for any advice...
Ian
#82
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
I'm in the UK right now. An earlier poster outlined the status with his mother so I'm fully aware of that. I keep having to answer threads with justifications, very tiresome. I'm not looking to persue this move through citizenship.
You all know more than I do about this, there's really no need to be patronising.
Thanks to all, I'm off to do some research!
You all know more than I do about this, there's really no need to be patronising.
Thanks to all, I'm off to do some research!
I do hope you have done some research last night and can come back with some newly formed conclusions, and more informed questions/responses.
#83
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Oh dear...seems I don't "understand the language and terminology used"!!!..if that's not condescending I don't know what is.
Oh, and Fatbrit you mentioned the brave and hallowed being the only people able to enter America, but you missed one other category...the very wealthy....USA here we come!!
Oh, and Fatbrit you mentioned the brave and hallowed being the only people able to enter America, but you missed one other category...the very wealthy....USA here we come!!
#84
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
So.....you won the lottery or did he knock off a bank?
#85
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I'm interested to know what "very wealthy" means
To me, it means NEVER having to work, being able to sponsor whatever charities I want, knowing I'll never have trouble coming up with the cash to pay for a $700,000++ medical bill.
I do hope that this is what mazsmum means, and if so I'm pleased for her.
(Personally, I'm a bit tired of people saying "oh yeah, we're rich" but only have net assets worth about 2 or 3 mil - that doesn't go far in the US.....)
To me, it means NEVER having to work, being able to sponsor whatever charities I want, knowing I'll never have trouble coming up with the cash to pay for a $700,000++ medical bill.
I do hope that this is what mazsmum means, and if so I'm pleased for her.
(Personally, I'm a bit tired of people saying "oh yeah, we're rich" but only have net assets worth about 2 or 3 mil - that doesn't go far in the US.....)
#86
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
Here is what I said:
It seems to me that you got upset over something that didn't have anything to do with you, and came in and posted a rant to people you don't know.
Perhaps it would be better if you just started over, and as you have your own questions, ask them in your own thread.
#87
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Often around here it is necessary to crush false hopes. The US is a closed shop for the overwhelming majority of British people.
If you can let me know how to crush someone's misguided dreams without appearing to be condescending or negative, I would love to know. It must be a useful skill.
It's hard to make newcomers understand the gravity of the situation, especially when they come on here saying 'any advice greatly appreciated' when what they actually mean is 'if you could show me a way that circumnavigates the system, it would be greatly appreciated'.
If you can let me know how to crush someone's misguided dreams without appearing to be condescending or negative, I would love to know. It must be a useful skill.
It's hard to make newcomers understand the gravity of the situation, especially when they come on here saying 'any advice greatly appreciated' when what they actually mean is 'if you could show me a way that circumnavigates the system, it would be greatly appreciated'.
#88
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
Hi All, I thought it would be useful for any other applicants to know the outcome of this situation for my boyfriend and I. My original post was late September when we were both looking to move here ASAP, hopefull that this would be soon - although seen by many as 'deluded'. We have now both had H1B visas approved and start work January, so excited! We originally filed applications through our US attorney at the start of December so visas took 3 weeks for the petition to be approved and appoitment set at the us embassy. We are already here in the US and can't wait to start work. To any other hopefuls it is possible, we did it!! Thanks to all.
I hope you enjoy your new life in the US. Congrats again!
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Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
Hi Sarah, many thanks - we're thrilled. We're both working in education (maths & physics) but different institutions and understand there's a shortage of teachers here which might be a good tip for anyone considering the move. Yes around 2 hours wait for a quick 'interview' which I was incredibly nervous about and turned out to be lots of waiting around. So glad it's official now, it can be really confusing with many different sources of conflicting information and opinions. Initially I had considered the H4 option but was lucky enough to have my offer, although a slightly later start. Thanks for your message, it's a really exciting time! x
#90
Re: Young couple moving to USA, advice needed
Hi All, I thought it would be useful for any other applicants to know the outcome of this situation for my boyfriend and I. My original post was late September when we were both looking to move here ASAP, hopefull that this would be soon - although seen by many as 'deluded'. We have now both had H1B visas approved and start work January, so excited! We originally filed applications through our US attorney at the start of December so visas took 3 weeks for the petition to be approved and appoitment set at the us embassy. We are already here in the US and can't wait to start work. To any other hopefuls it is possible, we did it!! Thanks to all.
I hope now that you are in teaching your reading ability improves. Only one person mentioned the word 'deluded', but you were doing a great job at giving that impression simply by not showing any evidence at all in your posts that you had read more than 50% of the information that had been given. You did indicate that you were skim reading posts from work whilst you were tired, but considering that a number of people were giving of their own time - for free - to help you it's a little bit arrogant on your part that you chose not to show them the respect of actually reading what was written.
The impression that people got was the one that you gave. That's your responsibility, not theirs.