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Old Oct 5th 2009, 7:32 am
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OK thanks. Sorry though, how do I start on these?
It's a state thing -- so there are more than 50 different answers! Use Google with teacher license <name of state> and go from there.
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OK thanks. Sorry though, how do I start on these?
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Old Oct 5th 2009, 8:09 am
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OK thankyou

Erm OK I don't mean to be rude but I think you missed everyone's hesitation in recommending the 'find employment' route. You seem proactive and optimistic and that's great but I don't think it's going to help in this situation.

The probability of actually finding a sponsor AND getting the visa is basically.... zero. It's not impossible in theory, but in practice it pretty much is. Why would a school spend ~$6000 and lots of time to hire you when they can pick an American teacher? It's an expensive, lengthy process and very hard to justify for a school.

I know you really want to go through this route but I'm just writing so you don't get your hopes up/waste your time/spend money on immigration lawyer consultations/ignore job opportunities at home.

If you don't want to get married for a few years then, I guess, visit him on holidays using the VWP for a few years (small consolation, I know). Sorry for being overly blunt but everyone's posts just seemed to be deceptively subtle.
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Not sure why you think the position is unusual.

And the one thing certain is that Immigration is not cheap, and to the US not quick.

But you implied he will not have custody, so there is the UK option.
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Erm OK I don't mean to be rude but I think you missed everyone's hesitation in recommending the 'find employment' route. You seem proactive and optimistic and that's great but I don't think it's going to help in this situation.

If you don't want to get married for a few years then, I guess, visit him on holidays using the VWP for a few years (small consolation, I know). Sorry for being overly blunt but everyone's posts just seemed to be deceptively subtle.
No.. I understand the opportunities are severely limited. I'ts very easy to see that. But I need to thank everyone for their advice all the same.
I'm pretty disheartened about it, but I will keep trying. We've been going back and forth for years already, and even if I start this now, I know I'll continue to be doing it for a long time. So I'm going to try it, despite the difficulties and hope for the best in between now and when I do feel it's time to get married. People do manage to do it - there is an english person teaching at the school that his parents work at (they are both teachers and are giving me their own advice. They can't help me with immigration issues).

The unusual reference was because I've trawled all over the forum and not found any situation discussed like my own.

And about him not having custody. That doesn't matter. They are a big part of his life and he does not intend to leave his 2 kids while he lives in another country. And nor should he. Maybe when they are older, it is something we have discussed.
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No.. I understand the opportunities are severely limited. I'ts very easy to see that. But I need to thank everyone for their advice all the same.
I'm pretty disheartened about it, but I will keep trying. We've been going back and forth for years already, and even if I start this now, I know I'll continue to be doing it for a long time. So I'm going to try it, despite the difficulties and hope for the best in between now and when I do feel it's time to get married. People do manage to do it - there is an english person teaching at the school that his parents work at (they are both teachers and are giving me their own advice. They can't help me with immigration issues).

The unusual reference was because I've trawled all over the forum and not found any situation discussed like my own.

And about him not having custody. That doesn't matter. They are a big part of his life and he does not intend to leave his 2 kids while he lives in another country. And nor should he. Maybe when they are older, it is something we have discussed.
Maybe the parents of the English person you know working as a teacher here put in a good word for him at the school and that's how he got the position.

I don't think anyone's mentioned that due to lack of funds many school districts are laying teachers off right now.
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It is probably me, and probably too many stories in the local papers, but does anybody else smile whenever they see this thread title?
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It is probably me, and probably too many stories in the local papers, but does anybody else smile whenever they see this thread title?
didn't until you pointed it out
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It is probably me, and probably too many stories in the local papers, but does anybody else smile whenever they see this thread title?
lol oops!
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I don't think anyone's mentioned that due to lack of funds many school districts are laying teachers off right now.
that seems crazy... theres no way my school would sack anyone... its not possible... who will teach the 400 odd kids left behind? cover supervisor at £150 a day??
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that seems crazy... theres no way my school would sack anyone... its not possible... who will teach the 400 odd kids left behind? cover supervisor at £150 a day??
You are in the UK and this is the US...things are very different here. For instance in NYC it is illegal for teachers to go on strike...if they do they receive a very hefty fine for each day they don't work.
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that seems crazy... theres no way my school would sack anyone... its not possible... who will teach the 400 odd kids left behind? cover supervisor at £150 a day??
OMG...

They shorten the school day, double up, get rid of 'unessential' subjects.

Until recently we had 2 middle schools in our town.

Now there's only one.

They town hasn't shrunk, and I don't think there are fewer school kids.

And this happens to be an 'affluent' town...
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that seems crazy... theres no way my school would sack anyone... its not possible... who will teach the 400 odd kids left behind? cover supervisor at £150 a day??
Yeah, but that's where you need to begin to see that things are different here. Many schools here are horrifically underfunded and understaffed. Which is why paying $6000 to sponsor your H1 is not really likely to become part of their gameplan.
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