Serious illness and bringing family over
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Hi,
Thank you in advance for reading. Maybe I am not posting in the right area please forgive me.
Recently I have been diagnosed with cancer and it's not looking good right now. We were planning to bring my son over.
I have a greencard, my son is an US citizen. My husband was getting ready to apply for my son's greencard, he is 19 years old and not married. We were planning to file through the consulate of the country my son is living. No problems there..
But now that I am facing this, plans have changed a bit, what can I do to bring him here sooner? Not that I want to have special treatment, but honestly it would help us a lot when he would be here, he could be helping my husband in our business when I am going through my treatments and what not more.
I was even thinking about getting him back on a 6 month visa, I would love to have him here close now that I'm sick.
Any pointers are welcome, thank you once again!
Thank you in advance for reading. Maybe I am not posting in the right area please forgive me.
Recently I have been diagnosed with cancer and it's not looking good right now. We were planning to bring my son over.
I have a greencard, my son is an US citizen. My husband was getting ready to apply for my son's greencard, he is 19 years old and not married. We were planning to file through the consulate of the country my son is living. No problems there..
But now that I am facing this, plans have changed a bit, what can I do to bring him here sooner? Not that I want to have special treatment, but honestly it would help us a lot when he would be here, he could be helping my husband in our business when I am going through my treatments and what not more.
I was even thinking about getting him back on a 6 month visa, I would love to have him here close now that I'm sick.
Any pointers are welcome, thank you once again!
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I think you meant here that your husband is a USC, not your son.
I'm not knowledgeable about stepchildren and immigration, but just wanted you to know that he can still visit if he has a tourist visa, while his immigration paperwork is being processed. That is, unless he's got issues such as previous overstays or arrests.
Sorry to hear of your illness...I wish you all the best.
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I was even thinking about getting him back on a 6 month visa, I would love to have him here close now that I'm sick.
Sorry to hear of your illness...I wish you all the best.
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Thanks Renee,
Yes its my husband that is the US citizen...my head is a bit full lately![Blink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/blink.gif)
Okay so you are saying that, if we would process his papers through the consulate, he would still be allowed to come here???
That would really be helpfull!!
Yes its my husband that is the US citizen...my head is a bit full lately
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Okay so you are saying that, if we would process his papers through the consulate, he would still be allowed to come here???
That would really be helpfull!!
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I think you meant here that your husband is a USC, not your son.
I'm not knowledgeable about stepchildren and immigration, but just wanted you to know that he can still visit if he has a tourist visa, while his immigration paperwork is being processed. That is, unless he's got issues such as previous overstays or arrests.
Sorry to hear of your illness...I wish you all the best.
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I'm not knowledgeable about stepchildren and immigration, but just wanted you to know that he can still visit if he has a tourist visa, while his immigration paperwork is being processed. That is, unless he's got issues such as previous overstays or arrests.
Sorry to hear of your illness...I wish you all the best.
Rene
Oh and no he has no arrests or issues with overstays...He is in fact a security officer right now!
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It's up the POE officer whether to let him in on his tourist visa or not, and for how long.
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He does not really has that strong ties, he does have work, but he lives with his dad and stepmother. So that can be a bit tricky, now would a letter with statements from my doctor help him to make sure he can come and stay in the meanwhile???
Believe it or not, but besides me and my husband we have no relatives that can help us out, I have two little ones that I need to take care off and our business. All my family lives overseas.
It's up the POE officer whether to let him in on his tourist visa or not, and for how long.
I believe the 6 mo visa needs to be requested through the consulate as well, but maybe I am wrong?
Believe it or not, but besides me and my husband we have no relatives that can help us out, I have two little ones that I need to take care off and our business. All my family lives overseas.
It's up the POE officer whether to let him in on his tourist visa or not, and for how long.
I believe the 6 mo visa needs to be requested through the consulate as well, but maybe I am wrong?
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I'm sorry you're having to go through this alone.
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as opposed to the visa waiver for a 90 stay
The B-2 has to be applied for at the US consulate
in his country ..
Saying he is coming to look after his mother could
actually be a bad idea ..If they decide he would be taking a
nursing job from a US citizen it may be a reason to refuse ..
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The OP is in CA. Cant her son come over on the 90 day VWP and then at the end sod off to Mexico for the weekend and then come back into the US for another 90dayer?
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I know but say he went for the weekend of the 20th and had an unrestricted/open ticket to fly back to the UK on the 29th. The border USCIS would let him back in with a fresh stamp in the passport (because hes flying home from the US in a few days time)and another 90days waiver. The fact that between coming back over the border into the US and getting on the plane he decided to "legally" stay another 90 days is a "get out" of sorts.
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I know but say he went for the weekend of the 20th and had an unrestricted/open ticket to fly back to the UK on the 29th. The border USCIS would let him back in with a fresh stamp in the passport (because hes flying home from the US in a few days time)and another 90days waiver. The fact that between coming back over the border into the US and getting on the plane he decided to "legally" stay another 90 days is a "get out" of sorts.
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Is it at all possible for your son to begin attending university here?
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Might get lucky, chances are you would not, but jumping ahead.
That was a few months ago.
Not sure what his chances of a B would be, no mention of his citizenship, I will assume v low. But a B would not allow him to do the above.
I would like my 18 year old son to come to live with us in the USA. I'm having some health issues and need treatment for that, my son will take over my work in our store and will be living with us.
Not sure what his chances of a B would be, no mention of his citizenship, I will assume v low. But a B would not allow him to do the above.
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