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I have been married since 2003 applied for adjustment of status one day came home and everything was gone this was in 2004 husband just walked out and I have not been able to find him at all. I have been staying with friends and not working illegally have not committed a crime not even a parking ticket lol.

What are my options here as I am too scared to go to INS incase they deport me on the spot. I have not heard anything from INS or USCIS in years I am so afraid and not sure what to do. I am still married but currently in a relationship and my man has proposed to me and not sure what to say. He knows my situation but I am not sure what to do can anyone help me please. Online it say my case is still pending please help!

Anjele

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When did you file For AOS ..... If you moved did you notify change of address etc ..

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Filed for AOS July 2003 and yes sent in the AR11 but now being told that my case has been archived but have not been denied. He left I have no idea where he is and we are not sure what to do. After all the pain and heartache can I divorce and remarry my head is spinning here and I don't know what to do. I came here on a B2 visa and my husband proposed to me a week before I was due to leave we got married filed AOS and close to a year later came home and he was gone. So confused and scared right now.

Anjele

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A visit with an Immigration Lawyer is a must...
talking all the paperwork you have with you ...

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Hi Anjele, and Welcome to BE. :)

I suggest you hire an immigration attorney to help you with this one. You should have been notified a LONG time ago of your AOS interview. If you missed getting that notification, you are probably in removal procedings. You will need to get a lawyer to help you figure out what you should do....get your case back on track, if possible....get divorced...see if your new husband can petition for you again...etc.

Whatever you do, don't leave the USA.

I wonder, why did you wait sooooooo long before wondering what happened with your status here? It's been 5 years since your husband left you. Surely you must have known that if you don't have your green card in hand, your status was in jeopardy here?

Best Wishes,
Rene

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What are my chance that USCIS will have me deported? I am not working as I cannot and staying with friends so looking into legal aid but not sure what I can do anymore.

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There's no way any of us laymen on here can predict your chances. You'll have to ask an immigration attorney.

What about your boyfriend? He wants to help you and marry you....surely he can help pay for an attorney to make that happen?

Rene

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Been to scared because have heard horror stories about it all I have no excuse but I have done nothing wrong I mean how can my new fiance petition me if i already have a case pending I don't understand omg.

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Well, the only wrong thing you did was that you failed to complete your AOS and get your green card.

Your fiance cannot petition for you as long as you're still married and you have a case pending. That's why you need to talk to a lawyer, so he can tell you what steps to take next.

Rene

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I spoke to USCIS today on the phone and they did not mention anything about removal proceedings at all. Wouldn't that show on their system if that was the case? All she told me was that my case had been archived and that I would have to go to my local office make an appointment and get them to send my file then go back.

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Don't pay attention to what the USCIS 800-number people tell you. They are just contract workers who know nothing about immigration rules or law.

You NEED an immigration attorney for this one. If you never completed your AOS and got your green card, you have issues. How bad they are, only an immigration attorney can tell you.

Rene

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Thank you very much for your response. He was verbally abusive since the day we got married would leave for days and never tell me where he was just come home when he wanted to and then one day left for good. But thank you so muc for you advice and time.

Anjele

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You're welcome. Make sure you tell the lawyer all these details, they could be very important to your case.

Rene

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And there was your incarnation before that
http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=227816


Your story seem to changed a few times over the years ...
you are really long overdue in leaving the country ...

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Hi Kyttia or beautifulscars
Just calm down, don't panic, Rene is absolutely right, U NEED AN IMMIGRATION ATORNEY ASAP. You filed AOS in 2003 and still nothing? 6 years? Wow , that is kind of strange. But if you really love your new fiance and are ready for marriage and he can petition for you , just get divorce and move on with your life. Like Rene said just talk to an immigration attorney. It will all work out fine.

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Ray please I don't need you on my back again please and yeah there was a point where I was working because I could ok.. I don't need you throwing things in my face alright.

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Here is one of your older postings:

Okay Andrew I am sorry but what do you think that I dont have a brain I know I have alot of options okay and as for money I am currently working to pay my husband back for my AOS filing so that is why money is tight. Sorry if I was rude but I am the one having to deal with this not you. I thank you all for your advice and I will leave it at that . Again Andrew sorry for my rudeness


You are stating that you are paying your husband for the AOS fees???? Why?? Why would you have to pay him back?? I mean that sounds just like a business marriage to me. I mean no offense here. My ex wife actually paid (more then half for my AOS filing when I asked her honey you don't have to do that we can pay it when I get EAD and a job but her responce was you are my husband and will do everything for you. Even tho we divorced there was never paying back issue. I mean does anyone agree with me? I think there is no such a thing "PAYING BACK" in marriage. Best wishes Milan

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We will take care of deleting your "beautifulscars" account.

My advice remains the same: Talk to an Immigrant Attorney!

Rene

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m,

No.

I think there is marriage and then there is marriage, and no two are alike, especially yours and hers.

Regards, JEff

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That's all in her past now anyway. She has not seen or heard from her husband for years now, so it seems.

Let's just concentrate on getting her to understand she needs an attorney in order to clear up her case.

Rene

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Yep have not heard from him in years have no idea where is he living.

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My apology. So he was gay and you feel like he just used you so he can look good. Sorry for your pain.

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Ray was on your back?

On July 26, 2005 you wrote, "Love to Rete, Hyper, Ray and all who have supported me in the past."

So, perhaps you should reconsider what you wrote to Ray!

Hey... in that same post, you wrote, "Well it has been nearly one year since Houtson District Office forgot to update my new address and henceforth denied my case due to abandonment..."

Which is odd, because, earlier today you wrote, "Filed for AOS July 2003 and yes sent in the AR11 but now being told that my case has been archived but have not been denied."

So, it seems you either lied 4 years ago when you said your case was denied... or you're lying now, when you say your case has not been denied. Which is it?

Ian

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Strongly agree Ian.

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I filed in 2003 got letter got notice of denial due to abdomment even though I sen in the AR11 and such got the letter April 26 2004 there are snippets posted on my threads. Anyway consulted with an immigration attorney and he gave me some great advice. Seems always have to defend myself in here with people I don't know from Eve. I will no longer post in here if that's what I have to do. He used me married me to look good in he eyes of his mother and I am the one to suffer and continue to do so.

Night all thanks for your help comments and judgement!

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OK, so you DID get a letter of denial. What took you so long to follow up on it? You got denied way back in 2004, but today you were saying you have no idea what's happening with your case.

And you DID talk to a lawyer who gave you great advice. Was that today, after you talked to us, you mean? Or way back in 2004? What was the advice, do you mind sharing it so we also can learn what to do in a case like yours?

Thanks,
Rene

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No Rene called one after I spoke to you today and he is taking my case and representing me I am getting conflicted stories from USCIS about my case but after I was denied due to abandonment which was not my fault I filed a motion to reopen and never heard from them. INS officer told me my case was still pending so I did take your advice and hired and attorney. He is goin to find exactly what is going on and get back to me. He told me not to go near INS until her looks at my case and can go with me.

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Oh, good news! I'm glad you're following up with a professional, and I hope it all works out for you.

Please keep us posted on you news.

Rene

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bet i could find him.