I am desperate - any help please!

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Old Nov 28th 2003, 1:46 pm
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Mike Devlin
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I am a UK citizen who is desperate to move to the USA to be with my
future wife. Trouble is both she and I are going through a divorce, so
marriage at the present moment in time is impossible although it is
something we will do.
I am doing my best to search for a job in SC so I can be with her and
her children (not mine - although we do plan on having one as soon as
possible between us). I am extremely well (over-?)qualified with
experience in the Confectionery and Bakery trade (although apparently
they call them "gourmet bakeries" in the US), but I have just
discovered that the employer has to pay $1000 to hire me!!! As if I
don't have enough problems! We are both desperate to be together and I
am thinking of anyway I can to get there (and preferably work).
Has anyone any ideas at all - no matter how remote! And is it true
about staying in the USA for 3 months, going to Mexico or Canada for
24 hours and coming back in again for 3 months and so on....
Please help us both.
 
Old Nov 28th 2003, 3:40 pm
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And is it true
about staying in the USA for 3 months, going to Mexico or Canada for 24 hours and coming back in again for 3 months and so on....
Please help us both.
NO!! that is not allowed.
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Old Nov 28th 2003, 5:12 pm
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Mike Devlin wrote:
    > they call them "gourmet bakeries" in the US), but I have just
    > discovered that the employer has to pay $1000 to hire me!!!

Not anymore. That law expired by Sept. 30.
See http://www.visalaw.com/03sep5/2sep503.html

    > Has anyone any ideas at all - no matter how remote! And is it true
    > about staying in the USA for 3 months, going to Mexico or Canada for
    > 24 hours and coming back in again for 3 months and so on....

Nope. Not possible, at least not for people who enter with a visa waiver
(green I-94W.)

-Joe
 
Old Nov 29th 2003, 5:20 am
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i129F Visa is your best bet!
 
Old Nov 29th 2003, 11:23 pm
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"Mark Huntley" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
    > i129F Visa is your best bet!

Thank you Ray, Mark and Joe - at least I've learned a little bit here.
Still got a long way to go though. Anybody got any other bits of info
that might help the two of us?
Mike
 
Old Nov 30th 2003, 3:17 am
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Just wait until both your divorce's are finalised and go thru the normal K-1 fiancee visa...slow but trouble free

have a read here:
http://bcis.stephenpalik.com/faq/k1faq.htm

and others, check google for K-1 visa
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Old Nov 30th 2003, 1:48 pm
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Just how do two people go through divorce, live on two seperate continents,
and plan marriage at the same time????
Next post will be, "help me" my new wife wants a divorce, and I only have a
conditional greencard."


"Mike Devlin" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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    > I am a UK citizen who is desperate to move to the USA to be with my
    > future wife. Trouble is both she and I are going through a divorce, so
    > marriage at the present moment in time is impossible although it is
    > something we will do.
    > I am doing my best to search for a job in SC so I can be with her and
    > her children (not mine - although we do plan on having one as soon as
    > possible between us). I am extremely well (over-?)qualified with
    > experience in the Confectionery and Bakery trade (although apparently
    > they call them "gourmet bakeries" in the US), but I have just
    > discovered that the employer has to pay $1000 to hire me!!! As if I
    > don't have enough problems! We are both desperate to be together and I
    > am thinking of anyway I can to get there (and preferably work).
    > Has anyone any ideas at all - no matter how remote! And is it true
    > about staying in the USA for 3 months, going to Mexico or Canada for
    > 24 hours and coming back in again for 3 months and so on....
    > Please help us both.
 
Old Dec 2nd 2003, 1:23 am
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Jan wrote:
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[...]
    > Next post will be, "help me" my new wife wants a divorce, and I only have a
    > conditional greencard."

That's a simpler problem to "solve" than the original poster has
 
Old Dec 2nd 2003, 3:02 am
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Thanks Jan, I need suggestions and info really, but thank you anyway.


"Jan" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:<[email protected] t>...
    > Just how do two people go through divorce, live on two seperate continents,
    > and plan marriage at the same time????
    > Next post will be, "help me" my new wife wants a divorce, and I only have a
    > conditional greencard."
    >
    >
    > "Mike Devlin" <[email protected]> wrote in message
    > news:[email protected]...
    > > I am a UK citizen who is desperate to move to the USA to be with my
    > > future wife. Trouble is both she and I are going through a divorce, so
    > > marriage at the present moment in time is impossible although it is
    > > something we will do.
    > > I am doing my best to search for a job in SC so I can be with her and
    > > her children (not mine - although we do plan on having one as soon as
    > > possible between us). I am extremely well (over-?)qualified with
    > > experience in the Confectionery and Bakery trade (although apparently
    > > they call them "gourmet bakeries" in the US), but I have just
    > > discovered that the employer has to pay $1000 to hire me!!! As if I
    > > don't have enough problems! We are both desperate to be together and I
    > > am thinking of anyway I can to get there (and preferably work).
    > > Has anyone any ideas at all - no matter how remote! And is it true
    > > about staying in the USA for 3 months, going to Mexico or Canada for
    > > 24 hours and coming back in again for 3 months and so on....
    > > Please help us both.
 

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