Wedding costs
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Originally Posted by Sally
You do packages don't you?
lol snap
lol snap
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Originally Posted by frrussre
Sad truth, its mostly to impress others.
They should take every dime they have & save it, put down a deposit on their own home or at least invest in the future.
Seem to remember ABC, did a Diane Sawyer show on the fancy wedding deal. Parents were taking 2nd mortgages to pay for (Impress the relatives) weddings. $50 $60 $80k. Bloody stupid, especially when they may well be divorced, few years up the road.
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They should take every dime they have & save it, put down a deposit on their own home or at least invest in the future.
Seem to remember ABC, did a Diane Sawyer show on the fancy wedding deal. Parents were taking 2nd mortgages to pay for (Impress the relatives) weddings. $50 $60 $80k. Bloody stupid, especially when they may well be divorced, few years up the road.
Reg. Frank R.
Yep I agree. But different strokes suit different folks. My sister got married the year before us...she had a good sized wedding party. Both her and her husband had just graduated and had 30 pounds to their name on the wedding day. Over 28 yrs later they are still happily married and wouldn't have changed a thing.
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Originally Posted by Ray
Yup house for a week as well
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I could come with them and have a swim in your pool...wow
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Originally Posted by Ray
Chaperone and witness yup ..we could marry them in the pool
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
Yep I agree. But different strokes suit different folks. My sister got married the year before us...she had a good sized wedding party. Both her and her husband had just graduated and had 30 pounds to their name on the wedding day. Over 28 yrs later they are still happily married and wouldn't have changed a thing.
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Got my dress from Monsoon in Manchester was about 200 quid
Cake was $318
His suit was $400 from Banana Republic
They were the most expensive things. We got hitched in a courtroom and spent then went for a meal with the families. Spent that night in the hotel bar having a laugh with my mum and dad. It was great.
Cake was $318
His suit was $400 from Banana Republic
They were the most expensive things. We got hitched in a courtroom and spent then went for a meal with the families. Spent that night in the hotel bar having a laugh with my mum and dad. It was great.
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I'm going to suggest it
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Originally Posted by frrussre
There is always an exception, few & far between. Just look at the divorce rate. Plus you have been married for a long time & your wedding cost zippo.
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Originally Posted by Sarah
Got my dress from Monsoon in Manchester was about 200 quid
Cake was $318
His suit was $400 from Banana Republic
They were the most expensive things. We got hitched in a courtroom and spent then went for a meal with the families. Spent that night in the hotel bar having a laugh with my mum and dad. It was great.
Cake was $318
His suit was $400 from Banana Republic
They were the most expensive things. We got hitched in a courtroom and spent then went for a meal with the families. Spent that night in the hotel bar having a laugh with my mum and dad. It was great.
Same with us but we didn't have a cake and spent about fifty pounds on the clothes.
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
Same with us but we didn't have a cake and spent about fifty pounds on the clothes.
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Anybody else want to come ...
If it's at Christmas when we come to stay with you. Won't have to pay for two lots of travel then.
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
If it's at Christmas when we come to stay with you. Won't have to pay for two lots of travel then.
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
If it's at Christmas when we come to stay with you. Won't have to pay for two lots of travel then.
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