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Pulaski Sep 25th 2013 5:37 am

Re: Meetups
 
I am surprised how often I see posts in the Meet ups sub-forum, that are from someone who has posted just a handful of times, or it's even their first post. Is it just me, or does that seem unlikely to get a favourable response?

I'm not averse to meet ups, but I have never participated in one arranged through BE (though Mrs P and I did meet someone we know through another forum), but I would look much more favourably on a post from someone who I "know" through, hundreds of posts, than someone whose first, or very early, post is: "Hey, I've just moved to Yourtown. Wanna meet up?".

:unsure:

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 5:58 am

Re: Meetups
 
Dunno. It does seem a bit presumptuous at first glance but I suppose a cup of tea or a pint won't do anyone any harm.

I have met Brits out here but none of them were BE members, I just happened to meet them through random chance.

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:02 am

Re: Meetups
 
I suppose early days are when you need someone.

Nicky didn't specifically ask for a meetup but we realized she lived close to me and met up.

I also met 'Soap Addict' through the site.

We do tell our kids not to do it :lol:

SarahG Sep 25th 2013 6:04 am

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I've met a couple people here in SC through the meet up section on BE. In Indiana I met some people through others who were on BE and they became really good friends.

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 6:06 am

Re: Meetups
 
I don't know though, there are a fair few people on here I'd move to a new state to get away from ...

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:08 am

Re: Meetups
 
This is a bit like the person in the 'Tele' thread complaining about people talking about tele.

Pulaski Sep 25th 2013 6:15 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10917771)
.... I suppose a cup of tea or a pint won't do anyone any harm. .....

But:

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10917791)
..., there are a fair few people on here I'd move to a new state to get away from ...

:confused:

Which is exactly why I am unlikely to look favourably on a request from a single digit poster, and probably not even a double digit poster. :unsure:

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 6:17 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 10917813)
But:

:confused:

Which is exactly why I am unlikely to look favourably on a request from a single digit poster, and probably not even a double digit poster. :unsure:

One of those statements was exaggerated for dramatic effect.

The absence of a smiley, etc ...

Bob Sep 25th 2013 6:27 am

Re: Meetups
 
Not through a Meetup thread, but have met up with a bunch of BE folks or helped others out in the area....

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:29 am

Re: Meetups
 
Just one question.

Why people in their 20's don't join social groups?

N1cky Sep 25th 2013 6:36 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 10917783)
Nicky didn't specifically ask for a meetup but we realized she lived close to me and met up.

That was a funny night, LA places at their best:lol:


Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10917791)
I don't know though, there are a fair few people on here I'd move to a new state to get away from ...

Why do you think I moved to No Cal (only joking Sally)


Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 10917813)
But:

:confused:

Which is exactly why I am unlikely to look favourably on a request from a single digit poster, and probably not even a double digit poster. :unsure:

Other than Sally, I've met a handful of people from here. A couple who had only made a couple of posts, but were obviously struggling so I reached out and we met up, both became and stayed friends. Another had made hundreds of posts on here, we met a few times, then she went bat shit crazy and it was all rather strange.

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:40 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10917869)

Why do you think I moved to No Cal (only joking Sally)

Now it makes sense :lightbulb: :lol:

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10917869)

Other than Sally, I've met a handful of people from here. A couple who had only made a couple of posts, but were obviously struggling so I reached out and we met up, both became and stayed friends. Another had made hundreds of posts on here, we met a few times, then she went bat shit crazy and it was all rather strange.

Yes that was weird.

Bob Sep 25th 2013 6:42 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10917869)
... Another had made hundreds of posts on here, we met a few times, then she went bat shit crazy and it was all rather strange.

Sally? :D

N1cky Sep 25th 2013 6:43 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Bob (Post 10917882)
Sally? :D

Nah, she's always been bat shit crazy

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:43 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Bob (Post 10917882)
Sally? :D

That would be 'tens of thousands' :lol:

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 6:48 am

Re: Meetups
 
I've often wondered - how crazy is bat shit, exactly? In comparison, are other varieties of shit considered quite sane?

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 6:50 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10917895)
I've often wondered - how crazy is bat shit, exactly? In comparison, are other varieties of shit considered quite sane?

Depends if it is from bats in the belfry or out of Hell.

tonrob Sep 25th 2013 6:54 am

Re: Meetups
 
I strongly suspect that most of you are probably axe murderers anyway, so I'm glad not to have met you.

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 6:57 am

Re: Meetups
 
In the context of 'meeting up' - I suppose I'm halfway there, since I have a bunch of BE mates on arsebook and I have emailed one or two members off-site because sometimes it's easier than PMs and that.

kimilseung Sep 25th 2013 7:07 am

Re: Meetups
 
My mate on BE wants to know if your mate on BE wants to meet up sometime?

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 7:09 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 10917927)
My mate on BE wants to know if your mate on BE wants to meet up sometime?

Yer askin?

kimilseung Sep 25th 2013 7:16 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 10917929)
Yer askin?

Am askin'

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 7:23 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 10917942)
Am askin'

http://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/lol/danc...y-emoticon.gif

ChocolateBabz Sep 25th 2013 7:47 am

Re: Meetups
 
I went to a Houston meet-up ages ago and have met 3 other BE'ers separately and someone from the city-data Houston forum.

jemima55 Sep 25th 2013 8:16 am

Re: Meetups
 
Sally, is that cat "tworking?". I'm not sure what tworking is, being too shy to ask my kids!

Nutek Sep 25th 2013 8:27 am

Re: Meetups
 
Would it mean going outdoors?

There would have to be an incentive. Cakes or something.

Redwing Sep 25th 2013 8:30 am

Re: Meetups
 
I know quite a number of expats, and not one is on BE.

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 8:33 am

Re: Meetups
 
Now, I say I've never met a BE member but I do now have a vague recollection that I was going to a job interview last summer and the bloke on the security desk did turn out to be a poster in a thread I was in.

Not sure that counts though.

Nutek Sep 25th 2013 8:37 am

Re: Meetups
 
Mrs N. says I shouldn't be allowed to speak to people.

Or be out in public really. :D

N1cky Sep 25th 2013 8:39 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10918028)
Would it mean going outdoors?

There would have to be an incentive. Cakes or something.

It's Brits meeting up, it clearly involves alcohol, but may also include salt and vinegar crisps or pork scratchings

Nutek Sep 25th 2013 8:43 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10918046)
It's Brits meeting up, it clearly involves alcohol, but may also include salt and vinegar crisps or pork scratchings

I was rather holding out for tea and biscuits. Custard Creams, preferably.

:)

Hmmm... Thinking about Pork Scratchings now... One of the things on my "can't find it" list.

N1cky Sep 25th 2013 8:44 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10918028)
Would it mean going outdoors?

There would have to be an incentive. Cakes or something.


Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10918035)
Now, I say I've never met a BE member but I do now have a vague recollection that I was going to a job interview last summer and the bloke on the security desk did turn out to be a poster in a thread I was in.

Not sure that counts though.

I was picking my daughter up from school, and a woman came over to talk to my dog. I noticed she was English so we struck up a conversation and are now quite good friends. When she mentioned where her husband worked and she had moved from LA, I remembered her post on BE about the upcoming move, we'd done the same move so it had stuck with me. Small world

N1cky Sep 25th 2013 8:44 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10918055)
I was rather holding out for tea and biscuits. Custard Creams, preferably.

:)

Hmmm... Thinking about Pork Scratchings now... One of the things on my "can't find it" list.

Collect sweepings from under your cooker and fridge, they'll be the same as scratchings.

Nutek Sep 25th 2013 8:47 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10918059)
Collect sweepings from under your cooker and fridge, they'll be the same as scratchings.

To the Recipe Thread with you!...

Pulaski Sep 25th 2013 9:02 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by N1cky (Post 10918059)
Collect sweepings from under your cooker and fridge, they'll be the same as scratchings.

Do you have feral pigs living under your fridge? :confused:

jeffreyhy Sep 25th 2013 9:34 am

Re: Meetups
 
Seems to me that a meet up would be like having a fantasy come true, and there's no better way to ruin a good fanatasy thant that.

Regards, JEff

SultanOfSwing Sep 25th 2013 9:38 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by jeffreyhy (Post 10918117)
... and there's no better way to ruin a good fanatasy than that.

Marriage ... ?

:whistle::scarper:

Sally Redux Sep 25th 2013 9:46 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by jeffreyhy (Post 10918117)
Seems to me that a meet up would be like having a fantasy come true, and there's no better way to ruin a good fanatasy thant that.

Regards, JEff

Fantasy? Maybe of clocking someone.

Bob Sep 25th 2013 10:06 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by Nutek (Post 10918040)
Mrs N. says I shouldn't be allowed to speak to people.

Or be out in public really. :D

The webbed hands aren't that freaky...

Pulaski Sep 25th 2013 10:30 am

Re: Meetups
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 10917895)
I've often wondered - how crazy is bat shit, exactly? ....

Often rabid, I hear! :rofl:


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