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Old May 1st 2015 | 4:23 am
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Eh... /shrug
 
Old May 1st 2015 | 5:04 am
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Originally Posted by Weeze
I'd get a silver bracelet. They have loads at James Avery. You could get a charm bracelet with a mildly religious charm, like "hope". Or just a regular silver bangle.
Yep, I'd second James Avery.
 
Old May 1st 2015 | 7:06 am
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As someone that isn't religious at all (nor is the wife), I think your original suggestion of booze is an excellent one!
 
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Originally Posted by Yorkieabroad
We have been invited to a friends house for lunch after her daughters first communion this weekend. We are pretty close with the family, and it is only a small gathering - I think 2 other families plus us. Wife just asked me whether we should take a present, and if so, what. My suggestion of a six pack and a bottle of wine apparently was not correct. And nor was the follow up "don't ask if you don't want an honest answer...."

Help? Anyone?
Google is your friend ..... <first communion gifts> gives lots of sites with many ideas both overtly religious and less so.
 
Old May 1st 2015 | 7:28 am
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Action Figure? .....
The recipient is a girl ya dummy!

Obviously Yorkie needs to find one of these:


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Old May 1st 2015 | 7:30 am
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When I was a kid, I absolutely loved cash gifts.
Grownups always give you what they think you want, not actually what you do want.
 
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
The recipient is a girl ya dummy!
A science or engineering toy may be more appropriate then!

My wife recently attended a first communion for a friend (we're Jewish). If you are uncomfortable with a religious gift, money in the form of cash/check or gift card is quite appropriate.
 
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Originally Posted by Yorkieabroad
We have been invited to a friends house for lunch after her daughters first communion this weekend. We are pretty close with the family, and it is only a small gathering - I think 2 other families plus us. Wife just asked me whether we should take a present, and if so, what. My suggestion of a six pack and a bottle of wine apparently was not correct. And nor was the follow up "don't ask if you don't want an honest answer...."

Help? Anyone?
You're welcome round ours...
 
Old May 1st 2015 | 9:06 am
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OK, thank you very much for the ideas, suggestions (some better than others, looking at nobody in particular, but you know who you are) and the support for my original idea...

Against my better judgement, a visit was made to James Avery where I parted with about $70 for a silver (looking) chain with a pendant thingy on it that is apparently ideal for a 9 year old girls first communion. Or so the saleslady told me.....
 
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Shame - shiner are doing a lovely prickly pear beer right now. A 12 pack of that would have been ideal.
 
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Originally Posted by Yorkieabroad
OK, thank you very much for the ideas, suggestions (some better than others, looking at nobody in particular, but you know who you are) and the support for my original idea...

Against my better judgement, a visit was made to James Avery where I parted with about $70 for a silver (looking) chain with a pendant thingy on it that is apparently ideal for a 9 year old girls first communion. Or so the saleslady told me.....
Seems entirely appropriate to me.
 
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
Obviously Yorkie needs to find one of these:



I wonder if they have a "Ken" with real stigmata ...
 
Old May 3rd 2015 | 12:03 pm
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
The recipient is a girl ya dummy!

Obviously Yorkie needs to find one of these:

http://www.uscatholic.org/sites/defa...?itok=BdcgZTYU
Wow. Sexism at its finest!
 
Old May 3rd 2015 | 12:23 pm
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I wonder if they have a "Ken" with real stigmata ...
No, but it would be fun to improvise with a Black and Decker and some red nail varnish.
 
Old May 3rd 2015 | 1:09 pm
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Wow. Sexism at its finest!
Er, it was a partly a jab against the Catholic church not being at the cutting edge of sex equality.
 


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