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Old Dec 8th 2014, 4:43 pm
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Originally Posted by Hotscot
Well do that then.
Quote me where I said parents are the only solution...I'll wait.

And look up the meaning of multifaceted.

(And I don't think I ever used the phrase 'parents, parents, parents'.)
A good school is more likely to involve the parents though.

You appeared to me to be saying the parents were all that mattered. That was why I sought clarification.
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Yes. Collectively as a society we absolutely should. It's our responsibility.
Then I think children need to make a concerted effort to be less annoying. It's all I can do to put up with my own two
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
Some of those kids that came to the clothes bank place...jeeze...and it was the tip of the iceberg.
I was listening to somebody ranting about food stamps, school lunches, and lazy parents. What would you do? Let the kids starve because the parents can't/won't/don't work? Seriously?
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Originally Posted by Leslie
I was listening to somebody ranting about food stamps, school lunches, and lazy parents. What would you do? Let the kids starve because the parents can't/won't/don't work? Seriously?
Let the kids eat the parents. Everyone's happy.
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Originally Posted by Hotscot
Nevertheless....
And besides, schools can only do so much.

Parental support. and the attitude of classmates, are the bigger influence. And some parents value education regardless of their location.

And unfortunately some parents value sneakers over books.
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But, by far, the biggest influence on those results are the attitude of parents and classmates, and not money/location/resources.

An attentive student with supportive parent/s will excel wherever they are.
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If only parents were more responsible.
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In knowing this the question becomes, can positive parental influence be improved? As that is the most significant influence on educational success.

And who's responsibility actually is it? To improve parental influence.

The government? Teachers?

Not the parents surely?
Those are just some of the comments.
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
A good school is more likely to involve the parents though
Absolutely yes.

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You appeared to me to be saying the parents were all that mattered.

Certainly not. Society as a whole is responsible.
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Perhaps I'm more resigned to the fact that unlimited access to guns in the USA is here to stay. After Sandy Hook and the Aurora theater massacres I thought surely someone would do something. However it's something that cannot be touched apparently.

Also I was going to mention that there is a legitimate reason for gun ownership. There is a lot more wilderness here than in Europe The only outings the gun has had other than to a gun range is on a camping trip. Bears. I'm terribly frightened of bears and don't think I'd be able to outrun one or fight it off. Of course the boyfriend jokes that I only have to be able to outrun whoever I'm with in the event of a bear attack
...again, good points, but I never suggested banning guns would be fair to anyone or remotely practical, as it would only fuel a black market.

No, it's a culture that has developed over many generations, spawned by an inalienable constitutional right to freely bear arms (interpretably, without restriction).

That in itself really isn't such a bad thing. It was actually a very wise constitutional amendment, particularly considering the nature of the era of its creation.

The problem is the interpretation of today was obviously never the real intent (e.g. to prevent tyrannical rule over the population). Today's interpretation has led to a comparatively well-armed population that feels well within it's rights to freely and openly exercise that right, and most troubling, the need and justification to use deadly force to defend itself from all the other weapons-grade punters out there. It's highly unlikely that the founding fathers would ever have anticipated that interpretation (or exercise) of that right in that way.

By the way, hunting is a major sport here. Saturday morning shotgun blasts galore. But they are shotguns. Equally capable of killing someone at close range, yet getting a permit requires a squeaky clean record, and at least some evidence that hunting is something that you would be facilitated to do (e.g., own a lot of land). Besides generally not being available to the average city dweller, shotguns are rather difficult to discreetly carry down the street to the local Tabaco shop without being seen and/or reported.
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Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP
Those are just some of the comments.
Yes I did discuss parental involvement as a significant aspect in child learning. Are you saying that's wrong?

Point out the part where I said parental responsibility was the only solution.

And do you understand that a multifaceted approach means addressing many issues simultaneously?
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Originally Posted by Leslie
I was listening to somebody ranting about food stamps, school lunches, and lazy parents. What would you do? Let the kids starve because the parents can't/won't/don't work? Seriously?
The 'taxi driver' approach to society's ills may seem attractive, but where does it get us? Shooting kids cannot be the answer.

The Scandinavian approach has been shown to be more effective eg supplying a good comprehensive early years education.
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Yes I did discuss parental involvement as a significant aspect in child learning. Are you saying that's wrong?

Point out the part where I said parental responsibility was the only solution.

And do you understand that a multifaceted approach means addressing many issues simultaneously?
You did not initially refer to other facets, and have not said what they are.

I don't like arguing with me mates though
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You did not initially refer to other facets, and have not said what they are.

I don't like arguing with me mates though
I think there was a misunderstanding that I was 'blaming the parents' which I am not. However that aspect, parental involvement, is an issue which my teacher wife specialises in. Therefore it's something I know about.

I'm sure we're aware that this, as well as socioeconomic disparity, attitude/behaviour towards minorities and many other aspects all contribute to the problem.
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The Scandinavian approach has been shown to be more effective eg supplying a good comprehensive early years education.

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I don't like arguing with me mates though
Yes you do ...
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Yes you do ...
**** off.
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**** off.
How does one **** off, exactly?

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