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Old Mar 6th 2009, 8:28 am
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a question following on from another thread...

is a woman never ever to (partially) blame if she gets raped...
can a woman do anything she likes to a man and walk away from him knowing she is never in the wrong and he will always get the blame no matter what...or do women have a certain responsibility regarding their behaviour...

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A woman can take some blame however it should not be taken away from the blame on the rapist. However, I don't think it is rape when a woman says she can't remember what happed because she was too drunk.

I also believe that there should be very stiff custodial penalties for women who are proven to have cried rape!
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Originally Posted by MataHari View Post
a question following on from another thread...

is a woman never ever to (partially) blame if she gets raped...
can a woman do anything she likes to a man and walk away from him knowing she is never in the wrong and he will always get the blame no matter what...or do women have a certain responsibility regarding their behaviour...
Basically no...when a woman says no (even when engaged in consensual sex up to the point of saying no)...No means No means No under UK law...I think !

Didn't understand the second question...but agree with Inse about punishing those woman that cry rape when it has not occurred...though difficult to prove.
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No excuse.... Some girls put themselves in a vurnerable position thou, but still..

Statistically, 9 out of 10 love gang rape
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No excuse.... Some girls put themselves in a vurnerable position thou, but still..

Statistically, 9 out of 10 love gang rape
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Originally Posted by commander View Post
....Statistically, 9 out of 10 love gang rape
An oldie...but...statistically, and post-gang rape, 9 out of the same 10 get remorseful and/or get paranoid that the police are after them. They know they did wrong !
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Yes eva,

Ended up riding a total of 170Km. Was a lovely day and for a great cause.

Arse is a wee bit tender, feel like I've been gang raped....
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Macscot,

I agree, but it was a joke, albeit an old one. I know your a brainbox but don't over analyse everything.

Any form of rape is disgraceful.
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I think where things get clouded is when the line between rape fantasy and bedroom role-playing games get out of hand.

I used to see this strange chic who liked to act this tuff out. The first time she started crying out with the no, no business i naturally stopped and asked what was wrong... She called me an idiot and said she liked it that way, so I happily carried on trying to ignore her increasing protestations....

She didn't last long after that.

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http://blogs.psychologytoday.com/blo...rape-fantasies
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Macscot,

I agree, but it was a joke, albeit an old one. I know your a brainbox but don't over analyse everything.

Any form of rape is disgraceful.
I know it was a joke...I was just considering the aftermath and how they would likely feel ! Yeah..probably overanalysing...no worries.
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Default Re: Rape...

Of course woman do have a certain responsibility for their behaviour, but no, I don't think they are EVER partially responsible for being raped. I can understand where you are coming from, some women may flirt, lead men on, even commit to foreplay, etc. but being raped is something entirely different, it is a violation and is never acceptable. From the previous thread I think you were referring to, dressing in a certain manner does not mean that someone was asking for it, and I think that any man with half a brain would know that and should know when to stop. Rape is an act of aggression not love.

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Originally Posted by MataHari View Post
a question following on from another thread...

is a woman never ever to (partially) blame if she gets raped...
can a woman do anything she likes to a man and walk away from him knowing she is never in the wrong and he will always get the blame no matter what...or do women have a certain responsibility regarding their behaviour...
no, don't think she is ever to blame...no matter how far it has gone, if she changes her mind, then no is no...

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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa View Post
no, don't think she is ever to blame...no matter how far it has gone, if she changes her mind, then no is no...

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Sure, but if it's gone that far a polite girl would at least give the guy a hand job......
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Sure, but if it's gone that far a polite girl would at least give the guy a hand job......
syb, you are a very naughty boy...

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