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Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by The Capitans Wench
(Post 9855913)
As a widow, who thought she would go back very soon after her great loss, I am still here 28 months later. Feeling settled where I am, not wanting to make any major decisions while dealing with loss, the changes and trying to adjust to new situation, the idea has been, gone and returned several times. Life would be easier for sure but on any visit back to UK I found the grey was so depressing that even if enjoying the visit I want home after a week or so.
I am waivering between leave Spain, where to go and staying put and long term implications. I have heard of a few cases , of differing nationalities, Germans, Swedes, Brits ,where more or less housebound people have been getting care from a friend or nieghbour, and for some reason or otherthe neighbour cannot carry on "caring" for them, either through becoming ill themselves or leaving. That is when the start reality sets in, and from what I hear, most people wisely go back to a country where they at least understand the language 100 percent. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by JLFS
(Post 9855897)
The real problem arises though, when they are so bad that they cant still get out in the sun, and then most prefer to stare at English walls, not Spanish walls.
And therefore maybe it might be a good idea to forgo the sun and return before you are unable to? Seriously, if you are old, frail and houseband, and alone, how are you going to manage? |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by scampicat
(Post 9855930)
And therefore maybe it might be a good idea to forgo the sun and return before you are unable to?
And sometimes it is not se easy to go back before, especially for the "I will never go back" group, they sort of see it a "failure" |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
It's true that in extreme cases, aged expats may be better off back home, but ordinarily Spain offers much more for its pensioners than the UK.
But I am talking about expat areas like Torrevieja, which has boundless facilities for pensioners. The Spanish council has built a giant social centre for it's pensioners, but expats with residencia are welcome and make much use of the facilities there, including an afternoon disco. There are also expat social clubs galore, aimed at pensioners. I read yesterday that Carrefour are selling all of the food products to pensioners without VAT, a saving of around 8%, I can't imagine that happening in the UK. And pensioners get heavily subsidized holidays in Spain too. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by HBG
(Post 9855964)
It's true that in extreme cases, aged expats may be better off back home, but ordinarily Spain offers much more for its pensioners than the UK.
But I am talking about expat areas like Torrevieja, which has boundless facilities for pensioners. The Spanish council has built a giant social centre for it's pensioners, but expats with residencia are welcome and make much use of the facilities there, including an afternoon disco. There are also expat social clubs galore, aimed at pensioners. I read yesterday that Carrefour are selling all of the food products to pensioners without VAT, a saving of around 8%, I can't imagine that happening in the UK. And pensioners get heavily subsidized holidays in Spain too. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by HBG
(Post 9855964)
I read yesterday that Carrefour are selling all of the food products to pensioners without VAT, a saving of around 8%, I can't imagine that happening in the UK. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
The ability to enjoy yourself at fiestas etc without the Nanny State and do-gooders telling us what we can and can't do.
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Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by Gophie
(Post 9856034)
The ability to enjoy yourself at fiestas etc without the Nanny State and do-gooders telling us what we can and can't do.
One thing here in Spain I have noticed, and I don't know if it's the same for others, I never feel like I want a holiday to some exotic place. If I won a competition for a holiday in Barbados say, I would give it away |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by Gophie
(Post 9856034)
The ability to enjoy yourself at fiestas etc without the Nanny State and do-gooders telling us what we can and can't do.
BE is a very large expat website, so if you have problems finding your way around we have concierges who will try to direct you. The moderators for the Spanish forums are Mitzyboy and Fred James, moderators are there to ensure that the site runs smoothly within the rules of BE. Problems and complaints should always be addressed to a moderador who will look into the matter and deal with it efficiently and fairly. Our members who post in the Spain Forums are friendly and helpful with a wealth of knowledge of the issues of living in Spain. At the top of the page you will find a quirkily named thread called Free Beer which is full of important and useful information. Hope you enjoy your time participating in the forums. Please let me know if you need any further help. Rosemary |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by scampicat
(Post 9855995)
Such as? In the village I was in, there appeared to be nothing for frail elderly people who had no family. There was a pensionista, but that is of no use at all to a housebound person who can't care for themselves.
But I was talking about an expat area where there are hundreds of thousands of others. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by anonimouse
(Post 9856060)
and usually without the Yobbo p...s heads
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Re: What keeps you in Spain
Nearly every fiesta has some trouble, you can read it in spanish newspapers. As for quoting fiestas as a reason for staying in Spain:unsure: There aren't that many in a year. What would have kept us in Spain was if we could not have sold the house. Didn't fancy locking and leaving.
I have seen a lot who move to Spain and don't think much about location when they are old. Couples stuck in the middle of nowhere. Only one of them drives, lots of steps, lugging gas bottles around. It is clear some only speak a smattering of Spanish...do they really want to be stuck in hospital with no common language. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by anonimouse
(Post 9856060)
and usually without the Yobbo p...s heads.
One thing here in Spain I have noticed, and I don't know if it's the same for others, I never feel like I want a holiday to some exotic place. If I won a competition for a holiday in Barbados say, I would give it away If you ever win that competition, please pm me:lol: |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by jackytoo
(Post 9856100)
Nearly every fiesta has some trouble, you can read it in spanish newspapers. As for quoting fiestas as a reason for staying in Spain:unsure: There aren't that many in a year.
We have actually witnessed very little trouble in our years out here and fiestas we have been too have been in general a joy without any hint of threat or trouble. |
Re: What keeps you in Spain
Originally Posted by jackytoo
(Post 9856109)
When we moved to Spain we thought well at least we won't be spending thousands every year on holidays. That lasted about 3 years, nothing like a bit of proper winter sun and seeing a new country/area.
If you ever win that competition, please pm me:lol: |
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