Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4642788)

USER.

Originally Posted by IntuitiveNipple (Post 4642843)

I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean, but it comes across to me as rude, insulting and boardering on the nasty.

For someone not remotely involved in Miss N's decision to make such a comment shows a total lack of respect and henceforth it leads me to discount anything 'Douglas jack' writes.

Miss N, I think you've been candid and open in trusting to ask for views on what is obviously for you, a dilemma.

I'm glad you've made a decision and I think I would do the same, because I've worked for myself or run businesses for so long I find it very hard to imagine being able to do a 'proper' 9-5 especially if I'm not motivated and challenged and enjoying it.

Also, I think your current boss will understand and respect your reasons, and the fact you're not dragging it out means he can recall other candidates that didn't get the job, presuming there were more than just you :)

So, good luck and best wishes to you and your hubby. It sounds to me as you two are fighters and will make a good go of it - remember, the fun is not in the winning but in the attempt!

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4643047)

please tell me this is a joke.

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4642924)

No but for Gods sake how much more can you take of the winging there is clearlly a prolblem,she cant make it in Spain and problems in England,this is Bitish expats.Not prats.

Originally Posted by crispygirl (Post 4643060)

Come on matt, I think we know the answer to that.........

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4643084)

Think about it.

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4643074)

scrub my previous post.


What a self centered arrogant, self opinionated pompous arse you are.


This forum is to alloy people in ALL stages of their life the ability to talk to others about what will be the biggest decision many will make.


Who the hell are you to decide how they do it?

You are a troll really are you not?

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4643155)

The biggest decision they will make,small mind, you are here,this is about, will they make it ,not about you and your spade ,or did I dig the hole were I was told too dig it ,stop eating the muck you are to spread,door mat.

Originally Posted by crispygirl (Post 4643143)

If there is one thing I do before I put pen to paper or in this case fingers to keyboard it is "think". When I read what has been written I may have negative thoughts about what has been said but I am big enough and ugly enough with many years of life experience behind me to try and understand the person and how they are feeling and why they are acting the way they are. It is not my place to tell them they are wrong or right and it is certainly not my place to be rude to them no matter how I may feel personally about them or the situation. Even you Douglas Jack, I may struggle to understand you at times but you are entitled to your opinion; I just wish you were not so rude with it. There are ways of saying what you think without the need to cause upset, having said all that deep inside I hope IT WAS A JOKE and it was just in bad taste.

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4643187)

If I knew what this says I would reply to it.

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4643047)

please tell me this is a joke.

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4643215)

Why.

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4643202)

Touche.

Originally Posted by Douglas jack (Post 4643211)

Understandble.

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4643074)

scrub my previous post.
What a self centered arrogant, self opinionated pompous arse you are.
This forum is to alloy people in ALL stages of their life the ability to talk to others about what will be the biggest decision many will make.
Who the hell are you to decide how they do it?
You are a troll really are you not?