Any ideas what it is like living in Tarifa?
We're on the costa at the moment but it's pretty quiet where we are...looking for somewhere with a bit more nightlife.
Only cons I could see are wind and very touristy in summer.
I mean is it literally windy EVERY day? Might be a pain to relax on the beach.
Any other coastal places worth trying out for a few months?

Due to the wind, it used to have the highest suicide rate in Spain! All that coast is full of wind turbines and surfers, and neither works without wind! I've been on the beaches there one day, and it's perfect, next day, same beach, you can hardly stand, everyone seeks shelter to prevent getting sand blasted. Of course it's not everyday, but it can be a lot. Definitely the place for the youngsters, the place is full of them.

I'm guessing anyone our sort of age as an expat probably lives in the cities. Other than that...I can only see our age group being in Tarifa, Ibiza, or Barcelona
Are there many expats in Cadiz?