Why did you get a post deleted then ?

Errrrrr

Aren't we being a little harsh here
An unsolicited URL was removed to a site that vdubber is quite within rights to post in his signature. Thats been dealt with, and we should move on

Because he posted be fore reading the rules heres one for site suggestions if you have just register then the rules get emailed to you and every time you log on for the first month the first page you get is the rules.

Quick suggestion dont know if it can be implemented but would save a lot of moaning maybe, when I came on here first I think I had posts removed ro whatever for not reading the rules, was called a spammer which IMO I wasnt but I understood then I went on about not knowing any rules and and got flamed bigtime, fair enough,

Maybe when you join It could have simple T&C conditions that could be made easy to read and then a box has to be ticked and you get your email to login.

I do think a lot of people would understand more, just my thoughts

Good idea tick box next to each rule.

Maybe three people who have a record of moaning and groaning about several threads should have their knuckles rapped too. 'Keyboard warriors'

Look, be fair .... you're relatively new on this forum so best to let it rest and start afresh, eh?

How to survive by uncle Ray

shove that in the sign up part, bit cheeky but would work a treat, I would have benefitted from it for sure

Actually in the welcome email that is sent upon registration it asks for the member to familiarise themselves with the site rules before posting, and a link to the site rules is included.

All I can say is I have read your PM and I agree, I am very rude, and can be a little unpleasant. I should be more compassionate towards people and have a little more tolerance, I should learn to read posts, I am far too quick to judge, I should change my ways.



But hell, where is the fun in that??

I dont think you are any of the above

V.dubber, Im new too. I read this forum for weeks before I joined and posted my first post. I was a nervous wreck cos I knew what everyone was like and I was going to end up asking ALL THE SAME QUESTIONS that theyve heard over and over and over and over and over... but they were very patient with me. I did cock-up on my second day when a post I wrote was taken the wrong way and I was gently castigated by Mitzy. These posts are like text messages - the tone cannot be heard and they can be read wrongly or taken the wrong way and get us into trouble.
Ive realised that although all the `old ones` (sorry guys) have a go at each other constantly they are in the same `gang` and if you kick one then they all limp.
On saying that, they are all very friendly (some of them eventually) ... and will be with you too.
Start again. This will all be forgotten.
Debs xx

P.s - does anyone know why my smilies wont work? When I click on one to add to my post nothing happens.

Hi Debsy,

First of all thanks for the pm the other day

Secondly, I think its funny that you see us as a gang But I must say that you and anyone else here is more than welcome to join our "gang" and have a laugh and banter in Siesta Time

Karma sent

Go into "my options" then "edit options" scroll down to "thread display options" and check the boxes are ticked there.