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rugbymatt Jun 22nd 2007 10:20 pm

Life is so short.
 
after a really horrible week, my OH and I have come to realise that life really cant be taken for granted and we have decided to return to Spain. Now some of you already knew that and others had already guessed it but I felt it was worth mentioning just to clarify why I am on this forum.

We had been toying with the idea and trying to weigh up the pro's and cons but given recent events it seems stupid to delay anything really.

We haven't decided on where yet and a few trips are planned this year to have a look around certain areas, but initially we are going for a year just to see whats going on.

We don't have a house to sell, and aside from our dog and a few thousand pounds worth of tools not much else to bring except ourselves.

I have put this in Siesta time because it doesn't really pertain to Spain as such, just our decision and subsequent discussion about the move.

We are planning to make the move next March, I cant leave any earlier because of my course and exams, but I will be finishing off the final part out there.

Thanks.
Matt

Fuzzlepop Jun 22nd 2007 10:22 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 
What areas you thinking of checking out?

rugbymatt Jun 22nd 2007 10:26 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by Fuzzlepop (Post 4956630)
What areas you thinking of checking out?

we have a bit of a short list of either Mallorca or around Jerez.

The OH loves Jerez and the large amount of horses out there would make it easy for her to do something, but I would love to go to Mallorca, love the boat scene out there and I have friends there.


But......we are still very open. I would love to just do nothing, I cant so its wherever work looks likely.

I don't have the usual problems of language, and I know Spain well enough not to think its some kind of Utopia without issues.

lynnxa Jun 22nd 2007 10:28 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by Fuzzlepop (Post 4956630)
What areas you thinking of checking out?

yahayy!!:thumbsup:

if I was him it would be everywhere he finds a BE member.........free accomodation when they visit;)

rugbymatt Jun 22nd 2007 10:29 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by lynnxa (Post 4956659)
yahayy!!:thumbsup:

if I was him it would be everywhere he finds a BE member.........free accomodation when they visit;)

now there is an idea........a camper van, and an address list, could be a cheap year!!

lynnxa Jun 22nd 2007 10:30 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4956668)
now there is an idea........a camper van, and an address list, could be a cheap year!!

even with a hangover my brain works!

Sam Greenfield Jun 22nd 2007 10:38 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 
Hi rugbymatt

Fairly new to this site - i presumed you were already over in Spain - :ohmy:. Well good luck wherever you go - been to Mallorca - yep its great loved it - but like you say if you have to work you have to follow it - we were thinking of Menorca once but i think we would have struggled with work as its only a small island n the work is very seasonal. Anyway good luck with your course.
Sam

Fuzzlepop Jun 22nd 2007 10:41 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by lynnxa (Post 4956659)
yahayy!!:thumbsup:

if I was him it would be everywhere he finds a BE member.........free accomodation when they visit;)

Yeah park up outside a BE members house for wireless internet:eek:

derbyflan Jun 22nd 2007 10:49 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 
Mate, I don't know what's been going on in your life but I'm guessing it's something significant. I hope you're bearing up. Good luck with all your plans - whatever happens.

Eve Jun 22nd 2007 10:53 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 
:thumbsup:
Good for you, it really makes you feel good when you make a positive decision about life. Take care, you go for it!
Luv Eve
xx

Eve Jun 22nd 2007 10:53 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by Fuzzlepop (Post 4956730)
Yeah park up outside a BE members house for wireless internet:eek:

No good parking outside my house, already using a neighbours wireless so you will need his house!!
Luv Eve
xx

Cornish maid Jun 22nd 2007 10:55 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4956618)
after a really horrible week, my OH and I have come to realise that life really cant be taken for granted and we have decided to return to Spain.
Thanks.
Matt

Hi Matt

I too thought you were already living over there as opposed to over here! Obviously, I have no idea what has been happening in your life, but can only assume that it is something that has made you re-think. I can only agree whole heartedly with your posting...life really is very short, and the important thing is to live it to the best you can. Spain will, I am sure, recover from it's shock eventually when the news breaks of your arrival:rofl:

Good luck. Mallorca is fantastic, but property is SO expensive over there!
Sally

rugbymatt Jun 22nd 2007 11:11 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 

Originally Posted by Cornish maid (Post 4956799)
Hi Matt

I too thought you were already living over there as opposed to over here! Obviously, I have no idea what has been happening in your life, but can only assume that it is something that has made you re-think. I can only agree whole heartedly with your posting...life really is very short, and the important thing is to live it to the best you can. Spain will, I am sure, recover from it's shock eventually when the news breaks of your arrival:rofl:

Good luck. Mallorca is fantastic, but property is SO expensive over there!
Sally

We dont plan on buying but your right, renting is not cheap there but if we decide to go there is a good amount of work there and my OH has contacted some horsey people out there.


I used to live in Spain but came back a while ago now.

Rosemary Jun 22nd 2007 11:12 pm

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Originally Posted by rugbymatt (Post 4956618)
after a really horrible week, my OH and I have come to realise that life really cant be taken for granted and we have decided to return to Spain.We haven't decided on where yet and a few trips are planned this year to have a look around certain areas, but initially we are going for a year just to see whats going on.
Matt

Good for you making the decision. Sometimes it takes a bad week or so to sort out our heads and make us do what we really want to do. Making the most of your time and persuing your dreams is better than not trying and regretting it.

Good Luck and happy hunting.

Rosemary

Pam Sarky Jun 22nd 2007 11:22 pm

Re: Life is so short.
 
Hey Matt, you and OH are more than welcome to stay with us while you check this area out. Youve lived in Spain before so you should have a very good idea of what life is like. You are right, life is too short so enjoy it while you can.


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