oh my god, i am mad uprooting us all and moving us to spain???
hubby is leaving on monday with all our stuff, i'm gonna be here another week on my own without him to calm me down lol
expect many random posts from me...................i'm scared now......
please tell me its normal to feel scared.

Hello Cajam,
Please don't be frightened...be excited , a wonderful opportunity for you and your family..go out there and give it hell...you know deep down you can..have the time of your life..keep us updated..

thanks bigbhudda, i am excited, just flippin scared at the same time lol

hi
Where in spain are you going? I expect I wil feel like you when my turn comes - hopefully won't be long.

just got home, rather pi$$Ed, and spent most of my drunken night telling eveeronye how much i wanna go home to spain.
computer was on, this was up , so lets post!

I think it must be normal to feel a bit scared,but its a new begining a adventure,be positive,I suspose when you first get there it must feel like a holiday,until it sinks in that you live there,I dont know cause my turn as yet to come.Are you taking kids with you?Where abouts in Spain are you going,
at least you still have your computer on so your not alone,keep us posted

Hi,
It is very normal to feel scared, good luck for the future and most importantly have lots of fun xxxxxxxx

thanks everyone.
to answer the questions all at once, we're going to almeria, near vera, and taking our 13 year old daughter. feel better than i did last night lol am dreading my husband going and leaving me behind even if it is only for a week!

don't worry, totally normal..and you'll be fine once you get here...all the fresh air & sangria you'll sleep really well.................

Lucky, lucky you Wish we were at your stage....another week and nothing happening, at this rate I'll be drawing a pension before we move


Make the most of having a double bed all to yourself for a week

What are you guys going to do for work, or are you retired? The unknown is always frightening and also exciting, but you can also use that fear in a positive way as it also motivates you in making it work. Well it does me anyway.

It is very normal , in fact if you wasnt feeling that way i would be most suprised .. I am doing the same thing still waitting to sell the UK home , but even i yep Bigpete !!! has a few moments when i wonder ! Jeez what if it turns out i hate it there ? What if the place i move to is overun with a man eating Locust colony ? What if i get stitched on the house purchase and the land is nicked and i am thrown into jail for making a fuss ? Loads of little things and i am still ages away ..So perfectly normal i guess . in fact i wouldnt mind betting been a load who have simply bottled out ? Now that would make a interesting Thread maybe ?

In my case i would hate to bottle it as i dont know if i could stand the wondering what if !! For the rest of my days ..
But then again having my bones nibbled by a 1,000 locusts could be just as bad as the wondering what if maybe ?

So cajam you're all alone at nights in that big creaky house, wind blowing hard shaking the windows in their frames, waking up every 10 minutes wondering if that was someone rattling the front door?
Hubby meanwhile is living it up in Spain, dusky senoritas, keen to keep him company at nights, rubbing oil into his tired shoulders on the beach in the daytime (unless you're moving near to Big Pete of course!!)
I can see why you're scared!!
Don't do a "Naughty", stick it out and enjoy!

thanks for making me feel better
nah, no worries there, without him the windows wont be rattling, its his snoring that makes all the noise here, it'll be quiet without him lol
We'll stick it out, i'm a stubborn little bugger at the best of times, i think after all the "moving to spain, have you lost your mind" comments theres no way i wanna give in early, i gotta prove them all wrong hopefully lol

White Chestnut.