British Expats - HELP advice needed

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Rosemary

Jul 6th 2007 9:31 am

Re: HELP advice needed

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Originally Posted by debi (Post 5019275)

Hi guys,

I,ve been to the solicitor and she says to try writing to him asking for written consent which i,ve done and just posted :eek: she said if he doesn,t agree to it that,s when we,ll have to go thru the solicitor. I,m just hoping a written consent from him will be enough for the spanish authorities when we get there! I tried getting in touch with the spanish consulate but didn,t get much help off them, they just sent me an email which appeared to be a standard email for people considering moving to spain and didn,t specificly answer my question :thumbdown:

Debi

Do not be surprised if he says that he does not know what to write. If he does that then make sure you very carefully word a letter for him to sign.

Hope it all goes well

Rosemary

debi	Jul 8th 2007 8:47 pm

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Hi oddities,
I,d already thought of that and have put in a letter worded how my solicitor had advised me to! All he has to do is sign it and put his contact details, surely that can,t be too hard for him to do ;)

Debi

Rosemary

Jul 8th 2007 9:16 pm

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Originally Posted by debi (Post 5029860)

Good for you. The reason that I said about it is because if they can find a way of being difficult they usually do just to spite the other person.

Hope this is all going to be easily achieved for you.

Rosemary

Mrs eddie

Jul 8th 2007 9:20 pm

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No advice for you babe but I just read the thread and want to send you lots of luck and best wishes....

Thinking of you hun...so unfair......but as you and others have said it'll be worth doing it properly in the long run.

Take care hun and keep as posted - fingers crossed for you Debi ....I bet this situation will help others aswell.

Best get on with the chores which I should have started over an hour ago !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

debi	Jul 8th 2007 9:43 pm

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I,m expecting him to be awkward about it like you say, just to spite me! I imagine he still holds a massive grudge because I moved to a different town with the children a year after we split simply for a better life (schooling, social issues etc) I was stuck in a flat with them in the middle of a not too nice city and wanted better for them, but i kept the door open for him to see the children when he wanted, what,s an hours drive to see your kids? Obviously too much for him! Thanks to all for their good wishes, will let you know if and when i get a reply from him.

Debi

mikeoc

Jul 9th 2007 5:10 am

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I have spoken to someone who knows more than me about this, if he plays awkward then a day in the County Court will see you right, you can have his parental responsibility taken from him. For the good of the children and all that. If he wants to play silly buggers then go to Court. It's a hassle I know but, there's a good chance he'll have to pay the costs too if you apply for them. Even a threat of court action can sometimes make someone see sense, especially with his track record on maintenance etc

Good luck

debi	Jul 9th 2007 5:44 am

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I did actually mention in the letter that if he refuses to give permission then it will have to go through the courts so lets hope it does make him see sense! It could end up costing him a hell of a lot of money and all for nothing really because both my daughters have said that if he now decides he wants contact it,s too late because they want nothing to do with him, they don,t even remember him as they were only 3 and 2 yrs old when they last saw him.

debi	Jul 10th 2007 9:11 pm

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Hi guys!

GOOD NEWS! i,ve just recieved the letter back this morning with his signature and contact details, no fuss!! :thumbsup: Thanks to all who sent their best wishes to me, I feel a big weight lifted now!

Debi

Rosemary

Jul 10th 2007 9:37 pm

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Originally Posted by debi (Post 5039357)

Fantastic. I am so glad that you took advice from a solicitor and followed through with the letter. He has come up trumps for you whereas he cvould have been extremely difficult. Great when a plan comes together!!!!

Well done

Rosemary

Mrs eddie

Jul 10th 2007 9:54 pm

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Aw mate....I'm soooo pleased for you !!!!

Well done ....take care....and best of luck with all your plans for moving

Mich xx

lynnxa

Jul 10th 2007 9:58 pm

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fantastic news!!

nothing to stop you now:thumbsup:

debi	Jul 10th 2007 10:08 pm

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Thanks everyone!! we,re putting the house up for sale in october, hoping it won,t take too long then we,re on our way! :thumbsup: I can,t wait for the girls to get home from school to tell them!

Debi

jdr	Jul 10th 2007 11:35 pm

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Good news :thumbup: ...... but it may pay you to get an official stamped translation into Spanish of the letter and keep them together.

mikeoc

Jul 11th 2007 2:12 am

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I'm claiming credit for this for sending karma!! :p

lynnxa

Jul 11th 2007 2:13 am

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Originally Posted by jdr (Post 5039889)

Good news :thumbup: ...... but it may pay you to get an official stamped translation into Spanish of the letter and keep them together.

good idea:thumbsup:

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