Just been invited by the Spanish owners of the local bar to their son's 1st communion celebration in May. They are also having their youngest son (aged 3) christened at the same time. Can anyone tell us what is the norm for giving a gift to both boys. We have attended a Spanish wedding (which was absolutely fantastic) but this is our first baptism and communion so don't want to put our feet in it by doing the wrong thing.

Anything goes really, computer games, books etc., Jewellery is normally given by immediate family.You can even ask the parents what they think they'd like.

Cats how nice to see you in the throng of things and being accepted....... Unless your Spanish of course, And not moaning about everything, Living on an Urb and singing bloody karaoke every night in between bingo sessions and visits to the English shop for the old white bread and oven chips. Then again

Depending on how close you are and how you want to be accepted.

If you give DVD`s, Games etc etc that`s fine.

But if you want to show real closeness and an understanding of Spanish culture, try finding these types of gifts, in Spain you`ll find plenty.

Typical gifts

http://www.discountcatholicstore.com...nion_Gifts.htm

The Rosary beads, medals, coins, are all good options.

Bibles, candles tend to come from close family.

These types of christian ornaments tend to be joked about by many brits, but to Spaniards who are doin First communion are important

Thank you for all your help. And no, I am not Spanish but have been learning to speak it as where I live it is necessary as not many speak any language other than their own (or the local dialect version). We have made lots of Spanish friends up here by being friendly and joining in. Several of us English (including some of the men) also go to the school in "children's week" held in February when the ladies of the village make various postres or cakes to show their skills. We all made something and they seem to enjoy the fact that we are joining in.