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Squirty Cream Apr 19th 2009 7:27 am

Is it wrong to cry
 
....at the end of a sad film?

Just watched 'Boy in the Striped Pyjamas' - me and Tattoo Girl sobbed our hearts out and Mr Sinky had a go at us :frown:

Don't men ever cry at sad films then?

The Dean Apr 19th 2009 7:42 am

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Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7493983)
....at the end of a sad film?

Just watched 'Boy in the Striped Pyjamas' - me and Tattoo Girl sobbed our hearts out and Mr Sinky had a go at us :frown:

Don't men ever cry at sad films then?

Oh God don't get me started...............

Field of Dreams........... right at the end, when he meets his dad.......... Niagara Falls job.

The Dean Apr 19th 2009 7:50 am

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7494014)
Oh God don't get me started...............

Field of Dreams........... right at the end, when he meets his dad.......... Niagara Falls job.

........... and by an amazing coincidence, Sky News has just announced the death of JG Ballard, author of 'Empire Of The Sun', which even the commercially-obsessed Steven Spielberg couldn't ruin.

Christian Bale was stunning as the boy ('Jim'), and I cried at the bit where he salutes the kamikaze pilots who are being honoured just before they take off. Stunning........... must be a You Tube link for that.................

Squirty Cream Apr 19th 2009 7:52 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7494014)
Oh God don't get me started...............

Field of Dreams........... right at the end, when he meets his dad.......... Niagara Falls job.

Was the film really sad though or was it because that struck a chord with you?

I'll tell Mr Sinky then that men do cry at sad films. I know his grandad used to get all emotional over Little House on the Prairie and The Waltons and my brothers used to tease him rotten. Perhaps Mr Sinky is just too young to be man enough to cry.

StublueKPL Apr 19th 2009 8:14 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 
THE FOOTBALL FACTORY.

I couldnt stop crying when chelsea go "done" by millwall in that movie.

A travesty if ever there was one....

BangleMan Apr 19th 2009 8:17 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7493983)
....at the end of a sad film?

Just watched 'Boy in the Striped Pyjamas' - me and Tattoo Girl sobbed our hearts out and Mr Sinky had a go at us :frown:

Don't men ever cry at sad films then?

I cried when Steven Gerrard scored an injury time equaliser in the 2006 FA Cup Final ....

The Dean Apr 19th 2009 8:23 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7494026)
Was the film really sad though or was it because that struck a chord with you?

I'll tell Mr Sinky then that men do cry at sad films. I know his grandad used to get all emotional over Little House on the Prairie and The Waltons and my brothers used to tease him rotten. Perhaps Mr Sinky is just too young to be man enough to cry.

Wasn't sad as such............ more like tears of joy............... the ending was somewhat unexpected.

commander Apr 19th 2009 1:43 pm

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Real men cry....FACT.

I've sat onboard a warship with a mixture of sailors, bootnecks and shakyboats watching movies only to see some of the UKSF's finest bubbling away to forest gump...

If you don't cry then your a breakdown waiting to happen.

Let it out fella's.

I openly admit to bubbling when tom hanks was vitteled at the end of saving private ryan...

And also when that cow daniella got malleted by janine butcher in eastenders and died in her mums arms....boy there wasn't a dry eye in the commanders house that night.

Blue Cat Apr 19th 2009 4:51 pm

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7494565)
Real men cry....FACT.

I've sat onboard a warship with a mixture of sailors, bootnecks and shakyboats watching movies only to see some of the UKSF's finest bubbling away to forest gump...

If you don't cry then your a breakdown waiting to happen.

Let it out fella's.

I openly admit to bubbling when tom hanks was vitteled at the end of saving private ryan...

And also when that cow daniella got malleted by janine butcher in eastenders and died in her mums arms....boy there wasn't a dry eye in the commanders house that night.

when did that happen in EE? recently?

MataHari Apr 19th 2009 4:56 pm

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Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 7494771)
when did that happen in EE? recently?

last week...one of the most stupid story lines ever...glad she is dead

Blue Cat Apr 19th 2009 4:57 pm

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7494777)
last week...one of the most stupid story lines ever...glad she is dead

Daniella the young blonde lass who is Ronnie's daughter? I keep forgetting to watch it, so what was that all about then? Janine has murdered before, back to jail for her it is :)

Grace O Malley Apr 19th 2009 7:02 pm

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Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 7494780)
Daniella the young blonde lass who is Ronnie's daughter? I keep forgetting to watch it, so what was that all about then? Janine has murdered before, back to jail for her it is :)

SHe ran her over by accident. I hadn't seen EE for years, now that its on showtime i have started watching it again, its weird tho how you can just get back into story line with EE.

Lol my son says its the most depressing show ever.

Blue Cat Apr 19th 2009 7:13 pm

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Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7495014)
SHe ran her over by accident. I hadn't seen EE for years, now that its on showtime i have started watching it again, its weird tho how you can just get back into story line with EE.

Lol my son says its the most depressing show ever.

it's on at 2 pm today, going to tape it watch it later. It is depressing though :huh:

commander Apr 19th 2009 8:31 pm

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 
****, ive inadvertently started a ****ing eastenders thread...

BangleMan Apr 19th 2009 8:33 pm

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7495276)
****, ive inadvertently started a ****ing eastenders thread...

one of the many things you have to answer for mate !

Lorna at Vicenza Apr 19th 2009 8:35 pm

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by commander (Post 7495276)
****, ive inadvertently started a ****ing eastenders thread...

I admit I watch it..... but when you've lived with crap Italian TV for years, almost anything that is in English is a delightful change. Even EE.
They are all living such miserable lives, it makes me feel great about my own. :thumbsup:

I just wish that mad woman - Stacey's mum would leave.

MataHari Apr 19th 2009 9:47 pm

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Originally Posted by Lorna at Vicenza (Post 7495294)
I admit I watch it..... but when you've lived with crap Italian TV for years, almost anything that is in English is a delightful change. Even EE.
They are all living such miserable lives, it makes me feel great about my own. :thumbsup:

I just wish that mad woman - Stacey's mum would leave.

she needs locking up that one...

Confucius Apr 19th 2009 10:29 pm

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I'm only human...

BangleMan Apr 19th 2009 10:49 pm

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7495654)
I'm only human...

and I thought you were half man / half beast

Confucius Apr 19th 2009 10:50 pm

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Originally Posted by BangleMan (Post 7495732)
and I thought you were half man / half beast

No...You're mistaking me with The Dean, who is half man/half woman/half beast...

Alexa Apr 19th 2009 10:51 pm

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7495507)
she needs locking up that one...

Is she still in it? Haven't watched EE for ages...living in Siberia is eerily similar to EE........:eek:

Madam Medusa Apr 20th 2009 12:44 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7493983)
....at the end of a sad film?

Just watched 'Boy in the Striped Pyjamas' - me and Tattoo Girl sobbed our hearts out and Mr Sinky had a go at us :frown:

Don't men ever cry at sad films then?

omg, i sobbed my heart out too over that film...have you seen the reader...?

MM, xx

The Dean Apr 20th 2009 5:13 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 7496131)
omg, i sobbed my heart out too over that film...have you seen the reader...?

MM, xx

This has become the "Madam Medusa's Ten Greatest Films Featuring Racist Regimes" thread.............

I always get emotional at films that show the human spirit overcoming the odds.............. Shawshank, anyone?

Madam Medusa Apr 20th 2009 5:16 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7496929)
This has become the "Madam Medusa's Ten Greatest Films Featuring Racist Regimes" thread.............

I always get emotional at films that show the human spirit overcoming the odds.............. Shawshank, anyone?

ohh, did i forget to mention schindler's list...

MM, xx

Roadking Apr 20th 2009 5:23 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7496929)
This has become the "Madam Medusa's Ten Greatest Films Featuring Racist Regimes" thread.............

I always get emotional at films that show the human spirit overcoming the odds.............. Shawshank, anyone?

Brilliant movie. One of the all time greats

The Dean Apr 20th 2009 5:25 am

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Originally Posted by Roadking (Post 7496954)
Brilliant movie. One of the all time greats

Better than the slightly overrated Green Mile, I think (same director - he obviously likes men in prisons).

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 5:49 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 7496131)
omg, i sobbed my heart out too over that film...have you seen the reader...?

MM, xx

No, is it good - I always buy a couple of dvds at the airport and I saw The Reader. What's it about?

Madam Medusa Apr 20th 2009 5:50 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7497021)
No, is it good - I always buy a couple of dvds at the airport and I saw The Reader. What's it about?

holocaust, lol...it's brilliant, and i'm not a kate winslett fan normally...

MM, xx

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 5:50 am

Re: Is it wrong to cry
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7496929)
This has become the "Madam Medusa's Ten Greatest Films Featuring Racist Regimes" thread.............

I always get emotional at films that show the human spirit overcoming the odds.............. Shawshank, anyone?

I can watch that film over and over again, it's superb. But, it doesn't make me cry.

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 5:54 am

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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 7497022)
holocaust, lol...it's brilliant, and i'm not a kate winslett fan normally...

MM, xx

I'll keep my eye out for it.

Another weepie was the BBC production of Tess of the D'Urbevilles - so much anguish and misery and sadness all rounded off with a good sob - nothing quite like it.

Confucius Apr 20th 2009 5:55 am

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In Lebanon, whenever we go to watch Indian movies we take a pack of kleenex with us...

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 6:00 am

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7497038)
In Lebanon, whenever we go to watch Indian movies we take a pack of kleenex with us...

Is that because they're a load of s**t? Because I have to say we're discussing crying not cr@pping!

Confucius Apr 20th 2009 6:04 am

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Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7497049)
Is that because they're a load of s**t? Because I have to say we're discussing crying not cr@pping!

No...Crying...

And be careful about labelling Indian films as shit and crap...The Dean will call you a racist, even though he fancies your avatar and also uses kleenexes sometimes...

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 6:49 am

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7497063)
No...Crying...

And be careful about labelling Indian films as shit and crap...The Dean will call you a racist, even though he fancies your avatar and also uses kleenexes sometimes...

I love Bollywood!

Confucius Apr 20th 2009 6:57 am

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Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7497201)
I love Bollywood!

Yet two posts earlier you said they were shite...Hmmm...

The Dean Apr 20th 2009 7:17 am

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As I was saying................ the first part of this (as the young Christian Bale salutes the kamikaze pilots who are about to take off, and sings that stunningly beautiful song) is as moving a scene as you could wish to see.

Cry? Not really - but it's shivers up the spine stuff.........

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tztl6...eature=related

Squirty Cream Apr 20th 2009 7:19 am

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7497230)
Yet two posts earlier you said they were shite...Hmmm...

Ooh you fibber - I could have meant 'salt' or 'sweat' or 'scent' or 'stoat', even 'sleet' or 'shirt' - it could even be something else completely other than those words......

Confucius Apr 20th 2009 7:27 am

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Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7497323)
Ooh you fibber - I could have meant 'salt' or 'sweat' or 'scent' or 'stoat', even 'sleet' or 'shirt' - it could even be something else completely other than those words......

No...

Lorna at Vicenza Apr 20th 2009 8:32 am

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The one film that really did make me cry was "Stepmum" with Julia Roberts and the red head one ... Sarandson or something.

I might not have cried if I had not have had kids of my own. I think the crying factor was in imagining how one would personally cope in that kind of situation ................. and if you put yourself in that situation - it makes you cry.
As a mummy anyway.

Blue Cat Apr 20th 2009 4:11 pm

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Originally Posted by Squirty Cream (Post 7497201)
I love Bollywood!

so do I! anyone got any good Bollywood they fancy loaning out :)


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