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shiva Feb 14th 2012 9:55 am

Wow just wow
 
http://www.7days.me/2012/02/muslim-m...-sex-comments/

flabbergasted by the response to this one

"UAE-based marriage counsellor faced a storm of criticism last night after she said married Muslim women should enjoy sex with their husbands.

Ahead of Valentine’s Day, today, Emirati Wedad Lootah told Muslim women they should not be afraid of enjoying intercourse and that there was a misconception that Islam forbids married women from enjoying lovemaking.

It sparked hundreds of online comments, some calling her a “Satan” while others said she was insulting Muslims. The online attacks came after she told the AFP news agency that her 11 years as a marriage counsellor in the Dubai courts had taught her that lack of sexual fulfillment was the main source of conflict in UAE marriages.

“Don’t shy away from it, don’t feel ashamed by it – enjoy it, you’re supposed to,” she said, adding that she is trying to break misconceptions that sex in Islam is only about conceiving children. “It’s also about having fun,” she said.

Mohamad from Saudi Arabia branded her “insane” on Yahoo Arabia, while some men took to cyberspace to accuse her of working for Satan.

However, Lootah’s comments were supported by Dolly Habbal, a clinical psychologist at the Gulf Diagnostic Centre in Abu Dhabi. Habbal said that intercourse should be mutually enjoyed by married couples.

“Women should feel free to communicate during lovemaking to enjoy it, otherwise it can result in sexual frustration and sexual disorders,” she said.

The Dean Feb 14th 2012 10:23 am

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Originally Posted by shiva (Post 9901214)
http://www.7days.me/2012/02/muslim-m...-sex-comments/

flabbergasted by the response to this one

"UAE-based marriage counsellor faced a storm of criticism last night after she said married Muslim women should enjoy sex with their husbands.

Ahead of Valentine’s Day, today, Emirati Wedad Lootah told Muslim women they should not be afraid of enjoying intercourse and that there was a misconception that Islam forbids married women from enjoying lovemaking.

It sparked hundreds of online comments, some calling her a “Satan” while others said she was insulting Muslims. The online attacks came after she told the AFP news agency that her 11 years as a marriage counsellor in the Dubai courts had taught her that lack of sexual fulfillment was the main source of conflict in UAE marriages.

“Don’t shy away from it, don’t feel ashamed by it – enjoy it, you’re supposed to,” she said, adding that she is trying to break misconceptions that sex in Islam is only about conceiving children. “It’s also about having fun,” she said.

Mohamad from Saudi Arabia branded her “insane” on Yahoo Arabia, while some men took to cyberspace to accuse her of working for Satan.

However, Lootah’s comments were supported by Dolly Habbal, a clinical psychologist at the Gulf Diagnostic Centre in Abu Dhabi. Habbal said that intercourse should be mutually enjoyed by married couples.

“Women should feel free to communicate during lovemaking to enjoy it, otherwise it can result in sexual frustration and sexual disorders,” she said.

How can a woman communicate during sex? It's rude to talk with your mouth full, especially when you are with your dad and your brothers..........

kittycat1 Feb 14th 2012 10:24 am

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what's a sexual disorder?

Good on her I say!

Meow Feb 14th 2012 10:30 am

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More nonsense from ignorant, ill-educated morons. There is a passage in the koran that states that men should also give their wives pleasure. They should really read their own books properly.

:thumbdown:

kittycat1 Feb 14th 2012 10:34 am

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So does the muslim faith believe in Satan? I thought that was a Christian thing? confuseddotcom

tayls123 Feb 14th 2012 10:35 am

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Originally Posted by Meow (Post 9901264)
More nonsense from ignorant, ill-educated morons. There is a passage in the koran that states that men should also give their wives pleasure. They should really read their own books properly.

:thumbdown:

They are too busy having wildly un-fulfilling sex to read books my dear

Meow Feb 14th 2012 10:39 am

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Originally Posted by tayls123 (Post 9901273)
They are too busy having wildly un-fulfilling sex to read books my dear

Quite.

I thought they were supposed to read their own fantasy book though. Also, if humans are perfectly created by god then women are made with the ability to have sexual pleasure, although I doubt these morons would know where to start, even with the help of an ordnance survey map, signposts and neon flashing lights.

kittycat1 Feb 14th 2012 10:42 am

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I thought they were supposed to read their own fantasy book though. Also, if humans are perfectly created by god then women are made with the ability to have sexual pleasure, although I doubt these morons would know where to start, even with the help of an ordnance survey map, signposts and neon flashing lights.
lol Meow- is this the voice of experience?

tayls123 Feb 14th 2012 10:43 am

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Originally Posted by Meow (Post 9901278)
an ordnance survey map, signposts and neon flashing lights.

i'm sure you could float the idea for some of these products to ann summers, could have a niche market on your hands.

"For the unskilled lover in your life, try an ordnance map"

Meow Feb 14th 2012 10:50 am

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Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 9901287)
lol Meow- is this the voice of experience?

Do you really think I'd go within 10 feet of a religious twat? :ohmy:

tayls123 Feb 14th 2012 10:52 am

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a religious twat? is that like a vagina with a cross shaved into the pubic hair?

ukecadet Feb 14th 2012 11:04 am

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Originally Posted by Meow (Post 9901264)
More nonsense from ignorant, ill-educated morons. There is a passage in the koran that states that men should also give their wives pleasure. They should really read their own books properly.

:thumbdown:

What page is that on? I can't find it.My Mrs keeps on about it but she failed to show me where it is.She can't find the passage( no euphemism intended) and I can't find her G spot.Nothing worse than her screaming 'pleasure me!!! the koran tells you so' It's proper off putting.

The Dean Feb 14th 2012 11:50 am

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Originally Posted by ukecadet (Post 9901316)
What page is that on? I can't find it.My Mrs keeps on about it but she failed to show me where it is.She can't find the passage( no euphemism intended) and I can't find her G spot.Nothing worse than her screaming 'pleasure me!!! the koran tells you so' It's proper off putting.

You have to read the Koran from right to left....... so, in your wife's case, you probably started at the wrong end.........

.......... or you should start at the back, and work your way to the front...........

ukecadet Feb 14th 2012 11:53 am

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 9901384)
You have to read the Koran from right to left....... so, in your wife's case, you probably started at the wrong end.........

I can't be arsed.I'm just leafing through an old Fiesta mag 'readers wives'

Chadwick Turner Feb 17th 2012 1:51 pm

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Originally Posted by shiva (Post 9901214)
Islam forbids married women from enjoying lovemaking.

She could be talking to ALL married women here, not just the Islamic ones



Originally Posted by shiva (Post 9901214)
“Don’t shy away from it, don’t feel disgusted by it – enjoy it, you’re supposed to,” she said, adding that “It’s also about having fun,” she said.

I need this marriage counselor to give my wife a little pep talk like this.


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