women that flirt with men are tarts...
May 29th 2008, 6:00 am
#79
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Re: women that flirt with men are tarts...
Women that flirt with men are tarts...How NOT to be a tart !!
Six flirting tips for women that would help us men:
1. Give clear signals
Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better.
2. Separate yourself from your friends.
If you go out with a group of friends or even one girlfriend, try and separate from them on occasion so that you are more approachable. No man wants to be rejected in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a chatter of other women!
3. If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man.
‘Get lost nerd’ is not the way to say no! Men who approach women may do so clumsily sometimes (its in our nature). If you are not interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult for men to get up the courage to approach a woman, though Dutch courage always helps !
4. Be interesting by being interested.
Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him – after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them.
5. Try making the first move for a change!
About 95% of men say they would love to be approached by a woman. If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.
6. Be yourself.
It’s no point role playing because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are. Be yourself.
Any additions, boys?
Six flirting tips for women that would help us men:
1. Give clear signals
Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better.
2. Separate yourself from your friends.
If you go out with a group of friends or even one girlfriend, try and separate from them on occasion so that you are more approachable. No man wants to be rejected in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a chatter of other women!
3. If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man.
‘Get lost nerd’ is not the way to say no! Men who approach women may do so clumsily sometimes (its in our nature). If you are not interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult for men to get up the courage to approach a woman, though Dutch courage always helps !
4. Be interesting by being interested.
Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him – after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them.
5. Try making the first move for a change!
About 95% of men say they would love to be approached by a woman. If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.
6. Be yourself.
It’s no point role playing because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are. Be yourself.
Any additions, boys?
8. We don't mind meeting your friends but you can't meet ours.
9. Running off in a strop does not work, guys will never follow you.
10. And if its not to arrange something don't ring at 11pm for a 4 hour chat
May 29th 2008, 6:04 am
#80
hmmmm...nice
Joined: Jul 2006
Posts: 27,923
Re: women that flirt with men are tarts...
where is the romance indeed...
May 29th 2008, 6:22 am
#85
A bubbly-jock...
Joined: Mar 2005
Location: Teneriffe
Posts: 6,262
Re: women that flirt with men are tarts...
How about giving six flirting tips for men that would help women. Then I might get an idea from the woman's point of view.
