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Old Oct 12th 2008, 6:26 am
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Default Re: The thin line between nice and annoying...

Originally Posted by Spugsy
yeah it's just basic politeness, it is the way I was brought up - and how it should be, is it so hard just to say thanks or even smile if you are trying to get through and I go out of my way to move back and let you through?
If you hold a door for someone and they don't ackonwledge you, simply smile and say clearly - "It's my pleasure". If they are from a culture where such politness is normal, they will shamefully glance in your direction. If they are from a culture where such things are not the norm then the confused look on their face is worth it anyway.
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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa
i don't agree...but then i'm too nice to argue with you...

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You're too courteous...
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Originally Posted by Cry haddock
If you hold a door for someone and they don't ackonwledge you, simply smile and say clearly - "It's my pleasure". If they are from a culture where such politness is normal, they will shamefully glance in your direction. If they are from a culture where such things are not the norm then the confused look on their face is worth it anyway.
That doesn't work over here...They will always pass and in the back of their mind will say "sucker"...
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There is an equally annoying and highly infuriating thing that happens on the roads here in Dubai: when you want to get into a lane, and the clown who can easily let you pass, just pretends he doesn't see you and you don't exist, and continues moving forward, even not hearing your honking, nor seeing your light and also not even knowing that you flicked him 4 middle fingers!!!
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Originally Posted by Confucius
There is an equally annoying and highly infuriating thing that happens on the roads here in Dubai: when you want to get into a lane, and the clown who can easily let you pass, just pretends he doesn't see you and you don't exist, and continues moving forward, even not hearing your honking, nor seeing your light and also not even knowing that you flicked him 4 middle fingers!!!
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Originally Posted by Confucius
There is an equally annoying and highly infuriating thing that happens on the roads here in Dubai: when you want to get into a lane, and the clown who can easily let you pass, just pretends he doesn't see you and you don't exist, and continues moving forward, even not hearing your honking, nor seeing your light and also not even knowing that you flicked him 4 middle fingers!!!
you just haven't got the right technique...a smile can work wonders...

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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa
you just haven't got the right technique...a smile can work wonders...

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I never have to smile and make an asshole in a Sunny feel superior to me just because he let me one car in front...He can go *uck himself...
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Originally Posted by Confucius
I never have to smile and make an asshole in a Sunny feel superior to me just because he let me one car in front...He can go *uck himself...
that's why you get stuck for hours in traffic...i'd rather get home on time...

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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa
that's why you get stuck for hours in traffic...i'd rather get home on time...

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I get stuck for hours even if I let everyone have their way with me...Still won't change anything...
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Originally Posted by Confucius
I get stuck for hours even if I let everyone have their way with me...Still won't change anything...
ah well, you carry on doing your way, i'll do mine...

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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa
ah well, you carry on doing your way, i'll do mine...

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Still, no remedy for my ennui...
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Still, no remedy for my ennui...
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