Questions for BEARD MAN ????????????
#91
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Re: Questions for BEARD MAN ????????????
All the sins mentioned on the list have at one time or another been considered sinful in all cultures. Even today, most would be considered immoral, wrong or criminal in the west
#93
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They have told him that they don't mind him marrying her as a second wife but he must marry a local girl of their choosing.
#94
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not at all. there is a huge difference between a revert and a convert.
the word revert intrinsically implies that the person was a muslim prior to denouncing Islam and then finding it again.
I believe you chose the word carefully!
the word revert intrinsically implies that the person was a muslim prior to denouncing Islam and then finding it again.
I believe you chose the word carefully!
#95
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Re: Questions for BEARD MAN ????????????
My best friend is married to an educated Asian from a wealthy family but he has not even told his family because she is white european. They even tried to hold him hostage on one trip back to his country by removing his passport so he could not go back to her. He had to get a friend of his to get him a new passport so he could return to Europe.
They have told him that they don't mind him marrying her as a second wife but he must marry a local girl of their choosing.
They have told him that they don't mind him marrying her as a second wife but he must marry a local girl of their choosing.
#96
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but the majority of the sins are cultural/moral based restrictions from which the west has advanced through periods of enlightenment. Blindly following strict medieval restrictions means that society will remain medieval by nature!
#98
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There are a number of voices from within the Islamic world that call increasingly for a seperation of religion and state, arguing that this is a necessary pre-requisite to stabalizing the countries of the Middle East.
Even here in the UAE they have established a Civil Code which they try to make work in tandem with Shariah Law - it's a messy compromise and full of inconsistencies.
#100
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Arranged marriages are not necessarily so terrible - I know a lot of Asians (Muslim, Sikh and Hindu) who went down that route and have ended up with what appear to be happy relationships. Then again, I've seen arranged marriages fail, I've seen non-arranged marriages fail.
For a lot of Asian kids, the pressure to please the family is very strong - but it doesn't make it an invalid life choice to allow your partner to be selected by your family/community, particularly if you're planning to spend your life entrenched in that community.
Freedom - it's a wonderful thing, but it ain't everyone's cuppa coacoa....
For a lot of Asian kids, the pressure to please the family is very strong - but it doesn't make it an invalid life choice to allow your partner to be selected by your family/community, particularly if you're planning to spend your life entrenched in that community.
Freedom - it's a wonderful thing, but it ain't everyone's cuppa coacoa....
Yeh, sometimes for sure, better the devil you don't know
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