Our maid
Jun 26th 2008, 1:35 pm
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Our maid
We currently have a part-time maid (through the agency, all totally legit) until our permanent one arrives from the Philippines in about 2 weeks time. She looks after our son for a couple of hours in the afternoons, but he has his afternoon nap when she is here, so is always asleep. So, she is meant to do a bit of housework for us in that time. Because our house is usually pretty clean and tidy, there isn't much to do, so she spent a lot of time just doing nothing. We felt a bit sorry for her, so we taught her how to use the internet (yes, I know). Anyway, after a while, she stopped doing housework altogether, and seems to spend all of her time watching Sri Lankan pop videos on You Tube.
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
Jun 26th 2008, 1:44 pm
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Re: Our maid
So many tacky answers available but all far too obvious....
Honestly, tell her you think she has been looking at inappropriate content, warn her it can get you / her in trouble and then just change the password to remove the internet privilege....
It’s only for a couple of weeks, what’s the worst that happens, she quits? For what she is doing for you it sounds like you can cope for a couple of weeks…..
Honestly, tell her you think she has been looking at inappropriate content, warn her it can get you / her in trouble and then just change the password to remove the internet privilege....
It’s only for a couple of weeks, what’s the worst that happens, she quits? For what she is doing for you it sounds like you can cope for a couple of weeks…..
Jun 26th 2008, 1:58 pm
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Re: Our maid
Good advice, Welivehere - thanks
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Jun 26th 2008, 1:59 pm
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Re: Our maid
We currently have a part-time maid (through the agency, all totally legit) until our permanent one arrives from the Philippines in about 2 weeks time. She looks after our son for a couple of hours in the afternoons, but he has his afternoon nap when she is here, so is always asleep. So, she is meant to do a bit of housework for us in that time. Because our house is usually pretty clean and tidy, there isn't much to do, so she spent a lot of time just doing nothing. We felt a bit sorry for her, so we taught her how to use the internet (yes, I know). Anyway, after a while, she stopped doing housework altogether, and seems to spend all of her time watching Sri Lankan pop videos on You Tube.
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
If you did no work at all and just surfed the net (more than usual..
)would you still be in a job??
As for housework tope of doors wipe down all the tiles, clean out your kitchen cupboards,skirting boards behind sofa etc....Housework is never done!!! Dont let her rip you off you are paying for her to work she is in effect stealing from you!
Jun 26th 2008, 2:02 pm
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Re: Our maid
We currently have a part-time maid (through the agency, all totally legit) until our permanent one arrives from the Philippines in about 2 weeks time. She looks after our son for a couple of hours in the afternoons, but he has his afternoon nap when she is here, so is always asleep. So, she is meant to do a bit of housework for us in that time. Because our house is usually pretty clean and tidy, there isn't much to do, so she spent a lot of time just doing nothing. We felt a bit sorry for her, so we taught her how to use the internet (yes, I know). Anyway, after a while, she stopped doing housework altogether, and seems to spend all of her time watching Sri Lankan pop videos on You Tube.
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
Anyway, the day before yesterday I was looking through our internet history on the side of the screen as I couldn't find a pair of shoes I was previously looking at. The first thing that jumped out at me was "XXX hot lesbian porn action". When I looked, there were loads of similar, all on You Tube. For one horrible moment I thought it was my husband, but, apart from the fact he wouldn't, they were all looked at during the time that our maid is meant to be working. The final giveaway was that she had done multiple Google searches for "lesbian sax"
Anyway, what do we do? I'm scared to confront her as she might leave, but at the same time... the fact that she isn't doing any housework is annoying, but as she is temporary, I don't care that much. But the porn... can we get in trouble for this? I didn't even think you could look at porn here...
What would you do???
I'm sure there's nothing to worry about - it's probably your husband who is looking at these sites, not the maid. This is perfectly normal, as the sheer disgust and revulsion he will feel when watching that sort of stuff for hours and hours every day will only serve to remind him why he loves you - and may indeed enhance his levels of affection for you... if you follow me.....
My suggestion therefore would be to encourage him to watch MORE lesbian porn.... better still, why not invite some of your girlfriends round and film them having sex with each other? Or with you? You could give the tape to him as a birthday present.
Trust me......... he will love you for this, all the more.........
Jun 26th 2008, 2:03 pm
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Re: Our maid
Sack her! she does sfa awayway! Hope you are not gonna be charged for those downloads!
If you did no work at all and just surfed the net (more than usual..)
would you still be in a job??
As for housework tope of doors wipe down all the tiles, clean out your kitchen cupboards,skirting boards behind sofa etc....Housework is never done!!! Dont let her rip you off you are paying for her to work she is in effect stealing from you!
If you did no work at all and just surfed the net (more than usual..
)would you still be in a job??
As for housework tope of doors wipe down all the tiles, clean out your kitchen cupboards,skirting boards behind sofa etc....Housework is never done!!! Dont let her rip you off you are paying for her to work she is in effect stealing from you!
Jun 26th 2008, 2:06 pm
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Re: Our maid
A maid looking at lesbian sex sites......???
I'm sure there's nothing to worry about - it's probably your husband who is looking at these sites, not the maid. This is perfectly normal, as the sheer disgust and revulsion he will feel when watching that sort of stuff for hours and hours every day will only serve to remind him why he loves you - and may indeed enhance his levels of affection for you... if you follow me.....
My suggestion therefore would be to encourage him to watch MORE lesbian porn.... better still, why not invite some of your girlfriends round and film them having sex with each other? Or with you? You could give the tape to him as a birthday present.
Trust me......... he will love you for this, all the more.........
I'm sure there's nothing to worry about - it's probably your husband who is looking at these sites, not the maid. This is perfectly normal, as the sheer disgust and revulsion he will feel when watching that sort of stuff for hours and hours every day will only serve to remind him why he loves you - and may indeed enhance his levels of affection for you... if you follow me.....
My suggestion therefore would be to encourage him to watch MORE lesbian porn.... better still, why not invite some of your girlfriends round and film them having sex with each other? Or with you? You could give the tape to him as a birthday present.
Trust me......... he will love you for this, all the more.........
Jun 26th 2008, 2:07 pm
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Re: Our maid
I wouldnt even leave my kitkats with her by the sounds of it!
Jun 26th 2008, 2:07 pm
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Re: Our maid
Jun 26th 2008, 2:08 pm
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True, she might be showing H her favourite movies! Seriously hun, get rid BUT ask her to forward me her favourites first though! haha
Jun 26th 2008, 2:09 pm
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hmmmm...nice
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Re: Our maid
when I look at my history...it just gives the sites visited...but no times...can someone show me how that works..
