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Bahtatboy Dec 2nd 2013 10:11 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018240)
Oy vey.

Ironically you're slightly along the right track. Mrs. E likes chunky jewelry and these tribal style necklaces made out of blown glass and/or rock crystal.

Haha! Well in that case some authentic Egyptian jewellery might fit the bill--don't know where to buy it outside of Egypt--although it might be seen as too touristy.

Ethos83 Dec 2nd 2013 10:20 pm

Re: Married or not
 
Yeah.

She already has the conventional. The pearls and silver bangles. And likes them a lot too.

When we were in Paris for a weekend some time back she saw this amazing modern necklace in a shop window on the place vendome. It was hand blown glass, formless shapes, of pale green jade colours strung along a silver or platinum necklace chain. Spectacular and my description doesn't do it justice.

She spent days talking about it and I quietly squirreled around and got the shop name and called them.

€35,000.

Thank you no. But I've picked up the names of a few designers she likes and she's getting something from one of them.


Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 11018243)
Its actually an impossible question to answer. Apart from the tried'n'trusted stuff (eg pearls) its very difficult, IMHO and loads of experience, to buy jewellery (and handbags. Especially handbags.) for one's wife. Especially as you've only been married for a short time. I too like the necklace, but that's totally irrelevant. On the other hand, if she's the type of gal who will be pleased and who will like it simply because its from you and you've taken time and care to chose it, then you're a lucky man. I could venture that you might consider what jewellery she has chosen for herself and go for something in keeping with that, but I perhaps that view needs to be verified by the fairer sex on the bored.

Good luck, anyway. :D


scrubbedexpat141 Dec 2nd 2013 10:25 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018221)
I didn't say I was going to get it. Was only trying to look for a picture of something Mrs. Ethos would like. Harder than you'd think.

Oh I wasn't having a dig my friend, just anything with POA is bloody annoying. The old 'if you have to ask, you can't afford it' is bollocks too, just advertise how much it is, if it's expensive if shows how exclusive, if it's not, more people will be inclined to buy, rather than enquire on a hope. Bastards.

Bahtatboy Dec 2nd 2013 10:30 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018260)
Yeah.

She already has the conventional. The pearls and silver bangles. And likes them a lot too.

When we were in Paris for a weekend some time back she saw this amazing modern necklace in a shop window on the place vendome. It was hand blown glass, formless shapes, of pale green jade colours strung along a silver or platinum necklace chain. Spectacular and my description doesn't do it justice.

She spent days talking about it and I quietly squirreled around and got the shop name and called them.

€35,000.

Thank you no. But I've picked up the names of a few designers she likes and she's getting something from one of them.

In that case I'd suggest being bold. Use your judgment to find something that is similar, provided that the shop will swap it for something else if she doesn't like it (ideally money back, but that's probably pushing it). Its the thought that counts... :unsure:

Inselaffen Dec 2nd 2013 10:30 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 11017906)
I was saying 6 years since Insellafen got married! I would have thought it was about 4! I have been married 11 years and have a 9 year old.

yes it is coming up to 6 years :ohmy:. we were in Singapore for 4.5 years

Ethos83 Dec 2nd 2013 10:35 pm

Re: Married or not
 
Yeah. I know.

It's the same with certain types of antique shops. Pretentious twats.

I was once told it's because the shops will give a different price depending on who's contacted them. If it's you or me (the great unknown masses) they'll give one price. But if a recognisable name comes along, say Julia Roberts, or someone with Al Thani or Al Nahyan at the end of their too long name, they'll be given a much higher quote.

Then there's the claim that only serious buyers will make the effort to contact the shop so it's a way of weeding out the riff-raff.


Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 11018268)
Oh I wasn't having a dig my friend, just anything with POA is bloody annoying. The old 'if you have to ask, you can't afford it' is bollocks too, just advertise how much it is, if it's expensive if shows how exclusive, if it's not, more people will be inclined to buy, rather than enquire on a hope. Bastards.


Blue Cat Dec 2nd 2013 10:37 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018260)
Yeah.

She already has the conventional. The pearls and silver bangles. And likes them a lot too.

When we were in Paris for a weekend some time back she saw this amazing modern necklace in a shop window on the place vendome. It was hand blown glass, formless shapes, of pale green jade colours strung along a silver or platinum necklace chain. Spectacular and my description doesn't do it justice.

She spent days talking about it and I quietly squirreled around and got the shop name and called them.

€35,000.

Thank you no. But I've picked up the names of a few designers she likes and she's getting something from one of them.

google Sue Tyson jewellery :)

Blue Cat Dec 2nd 2013 10:37 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Inselaffen (Post 11018275)
yes it is coming up to 6 years :ohmy:. we were in Singapore for 4.5 years

so it must be 7 years since we went for dinner!

scrubbedexpat141 Dec 2nd 2013 10:44 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018279)
Yeah. I know.

It's the same with certain types of antique shops. Pretentious twats.

I was once told it's because the shops will give a different price depending on who's contacted them. If it's you or me (the great unknown masses) they'll give one price. But if a recognisable name comes along, say Julia Roberts, or someone with Al Thani or Al Nahyan at the end of their too long name, they'll be given a much higher quote.

Then there's the claim that only serious buyers will make the effort to contact the shop so it's a way of weeding out the riff-raff.

Interesting point.

Oh well, I more than likely couldn't afford the necklace you posted even though I think it's quite nice.

What about a bracelet? Nice white gold / diamond combo?

Ethos83 Dec 2nd 2013 10:51 pm

Re: Married or not
 
Yummy mummy jewellery, eh?

What I'm getting for Mrs. Ethos is sort of in the same genre but the stones are a mix of very good quality hand blown glass and the better semi-precious stones. It's being bought through a pretty well known jewellery store so there's an exchange policy in place.



Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 11018280)
google Sue Tyson jewellery :)


Bahtatboy Dec 2nd 2013 10:52 pm

Re: Married or not
 
1 Attachment(s)
Expensive: check
Diamonds: check
Unique: check (well, unusual at least)
High quality: check
Practical: check

What's not to like?


Ethos83 Dec 2nd 2013 10:53 pm

Re: Married or not
 
My attitude towards diamonds is that there's no point unless you can fork over serious money for the super high quality ones. But can't afford it. Rather thankfully as I find diamonds boring although she did get a pair of 1c earrings from me when we were engaged.



Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 11018288)
Interesting point.

What about a bracelet? Nice white gold / diamond combo?


Blue Cat Dec 2nd 2013 10:57 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018295)
Yummy mummy jewellery, eh?

What I'm getting for Mrs. Ethos is sort of in the same genre but the stones are a mix of very good quality hand blown glass and the better semi-precious stones. It's being bought through a pretty well known jewellery store so there's an exchange policy in place.

so it will be mass produced and over-priced, Sue Tyson's stuff is one offs and reasonably priced, an she does an exchange policy.

Meow Dec 2nd 2013 10:59 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 11018302)
so it will be mass produced and over-priced, Sue Tyson's stuff is one offs and reasonably priced, an she does an exchange policy.

Is she still in Dubai? She's leaving if she hasn't already gone.

weasel decentral Dec 2nd 2013 11:00 pm

Re: Married or not
 

Originally Posted by Ethos83 (Post 11018295)
Yummy mummy jewellery, eh?

What I'm getting for Mrs. Ethos is sort of in the same genre but the stones are a mix of very good quality hand blown glass and the better semi-precious stones. It's being bought through a pretty well known jewellery store so there's an exchange policy in place.

Though there is never a really a good reason to visit Yemen, the place is awash with semi precious stones and antique silver. One my last trip home I brought back a kilo of the stones that I got for $1,000 dollars. I sold them to a friend's wife who has one of those bohemian type jewellery stores in a market for about $30 per stone, for a total of $6,000.
While ostensibly this is a bragging post, it also contains some helpful jewellery shopping in Yemen advice.


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