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commander Sep 28th 2012 9:01 am

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
[QUOTE=kittycat1;10304179]

[Scamp
Meh. It's nobody else's business.

For all you know she could have been lumping him and doing the same things.

Nobody can be sure what goes on in a relationship unless they're in it.QUOTE]

OO scamp you sound so naive sometimes- you say that when you see your mum with a black eye or your sister with slit wrists as she feels so alone and has tried to kill herself or your granny black and blue. Domestic abuse goes on because people choose to ignore it and are ashamed to admit its happening to them.

Sometimes the right thing to do is hard, ie asking someone if they need help and helping to give them options.
You are not wrong Kitty but neither is scamp. She could have been a right twat also behind closed doors. Unless you are involved, you don't know the full story. I went out with a nutjob when I was in my early twenties, she used to kick off at anything when she had drunk too much. One day I was speaking to a schoolpal (female) in a bar and the ex went to the bar, bought a whisky and then walked up to me and threw it in my eyes. Wouldn't have minded but I hate whisky. She also walked into my parents house one night (I was sat watching TV with my dad) and she had it in her head I was cheating on her. She walked into the livingroom and punched me in the jaw. It wasn't funny, she had a mean left hook. We split up after that lol. I had told my parents many times that she was a bit of a loose cannon, but it took something happening right in front of them to realise she was complete nutter material and had to go.

scrubbedexpat141 Sep 28th 2012 9:34 am

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
[QUOTE=kittycat1;10304179]

[Scamp
Meh. It's nobody else's business.

For all you know she could have been lumping him and doing the same things.

Nobody can be sure what goes on in a relationship unless they're in it.QUOTE]

OO scamp you sound so naive sometimes- you say that when you see your mum with a black eye or your sister with slit wrists as she feels so alone and has tried to kill herself or your granny black and blue. Domestic abuse goes on because people choose to ignore it and are ashamed to admit its happening to them.

Sometimes the right thing to do is hard, ie asking someone if they need help and helping to give them options.
Not in this case.

In this case they are in court. It's got nothing to do with anyone else but them now.

kittycat1 Sep 28th 2012 9:48 am

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
[QUOTE]Not in this case.

In this case they are in court. It's got nothing to do with anyone else but them now./QUOTE]

ok i wa stalking in general not about this specific case

The Dean Sep 28th 2012 2:30 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
This thread has become very serious............ this means it is inappropriate to point out that Collins must have been having A Larke............... :o

scrubbedexpat141 Sep 28th 2012 4:51 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
[QUOTE=kittycat1;10304251]

Not in this case.

In this case they are in court. It's got nothing to do with anyone else but them now./QUOTE]

ok i wa stalking in general not about this specific case
Agree with you in a more general sense completely.

The Dean Sep 28th 2012 6:03 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
I see your Justin Lee Collins, and I raise you a Jimmy Saville............ :ohmy:

http://yiannopoulos.net/2011/10/29/j...start-talking/

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/ji...s-8189637.html

scrubbedexpat141 Sep 28th 2012 6:20 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 10304807)
I see your Justin Lee Collins, and I raise you a Jimmy Saville............ :ohmy:

http://yiannopoulos.net/2011/10/29/j...start-talking/

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/ji...s-8189637.html

I thought that was common knowledge?

OleJanx Sep 28th 2012 6:28 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 10304807)
I see your Justin Lee Collins, and I raise you a Jimmy Saville............ :ohmy:

http://yiannopoulos.net/2011/10/29/j...start-talking/

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/ji...s-8189637.html

Nice comment from the first one:" More 'sources' than Heinz! what a load of bollocks!" Well said, that man!:thumbup:

The Dean Sep 28th 2012 7:09 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 

Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 10304830)
I thought that was common knowledge?

Knew about the Jersey connection, but not the details about the girls.......

Meow Sep 29th 2012 3:15 pm

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 

Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 10304830)
I thought that was common knowledge?

It has been for many, many years. Boys as well as girls.

britexpat76 Oct 10th 2012 10:21 am

Re: I thought he was a nice guy....
 
Guilty !

http://uk.omg.yahoo.com/news/tvs-col...131728806.html


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