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al dente May 30th 2011 7:31 pm

How Much do you Spend?
 
Let's have it

kittycat1 May 30th 2011 7:39 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 
Rent 5250 per month
Taxis 1750 a month
food 600-1000 a month
entertainment- cinema going out- 500
trainer 1700 a month
bills- phone/du/dewa- 1000 a month

I try to keep my monthly outgoings at under 11k- 12 maximum.

Thats basically it. I don't go clothes shopping much but when I do I have a blow out- maybe 3-5k every 4 months or so.

Having said that I have only recently finished decorating my apartment but a l of that will come home with me so long term investments

Travel acorss the year budgeted at 15-20K including spending money.

al dente May 30th 2011 7:42 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 9399209)
Rent 5250 per month
Taxis 1750 a month
food 600-1000 a month
entertainment- cinema going out- 500
trainer 1700 a month
bills- phone/du/dewa- 1000 a month

I try to keep my monthly outgoings at under 11k- 12 maximum.

Thats basically it. I don't go clothes shopping much but when I do I have a blow out- maybe 3-5k every 4 months or so.

Having said that I have only recently finished decorating my apartment but a l of that will come home with me so long term investments

Travel acorss the year budgeted at 15-20K including spending money.

Soz but thank's for being so honest, it just took time to set up a poll!

Bahtatboy May 30th 2011 7:44 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 
Bugger. I'm in LH's category, but then that's only on me (family's in the UK). If I included what my family costs, then it'd be about AED 60k.

Blue Cat May 30th 2011 7:47 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 9399221)
Bugger. I'm in LH's category, but then that's only on me (family's in the UK). If I included what my family costs, then it'd be about AED 60k.

we spend less than 10k a month, nothing to be ashamed about :) supermarket is less than 500 a week, petrol, eating out, 1500 a week at the most

Millhouse May 30th 2011 7:49 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 9399221)
Bugger. I'm in LH's category, but then that's only on me (family's in the UK). If I included what my family costs, then it'd be about AED 60k.

I'm not far off him, I only just tipped into the next box!

That said, one car is owned - the other almost owned. If I was renting them I'd be in for another 10k / month on leasing.

Bahtatboy May 30th 2011 7:52 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 9399228)
we spend less than 10k a month, nothing to be ashamed about :) supermarket is less than 500 a week, petrol, eating out, 1500 a week at the most

No, no: I have no shame about spending as little as possible, its the shame of being in the same category of anything as LH, especially where money's concerned.

Blue Cat May 30th 2011 7:57 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 9399242)
No, no: I have no shame about spending as little as possible, its the shame of being in the same category of anything as LH, especially where money's concerned.

point taken, but I can't see how people spend 20k a month? after housing, dewa, schooling etc

kittycat1 May 30th 2011 7:59 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

point taken, but I can't see how people spend 20k a month? after housing, dewa, schooling etc
Oh I could spend it- Just have to resist not to!

Blue Cat May 30th 2011 8:00 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 9399262)
Oh I could spend it- Just have to resist not to!

what on clothes? make up? non essentials?

Millhouse May 30th 2011 8:01 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by al dente (Post 9399186)
Let's have it

No, Al Dente... looking at these voting ranges, I assume that you are way about 10-15k....

What on earth are you spending it on!? :rofl:

I'm around 13k, but we own the cars. I can only think that if I was leasing the two then it would around 23k?

Bahtatboy May 30th 2011 8:02 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 9399257)
point taken, but I can't see how people spend 20k a month? after housing, dewa, schooling etc

I bet there's a fair few expats who actually buy from the expensive shops in the malls rather than feigning disinterest like me. Previous colleague bought two GBP5k watches in a year (for himself), and his wife actually had a little device (a refractometer?) which she used in shops to tests whether the diamonds were genuine, so god knows how much they spent on lumps of rock. 20k a month on average would be quite easy if you're of that mindset.

Blue Cat May 30th 2011 8:02 pm

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Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 9399269)
No, Al Dente... looking at these voting ranges, I assume that you are way about 10-15k....

What on earth are you spending it on!? :rofl:

I'm around 13k, but we own the cars. I can only think that if I was leasing the two then it would around 23k?

we pay for one car, still don't spend 15k

Blue Cat May 30th 2011 8:03 pm

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Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 9399270)
I bet there's a fair few expats who actually buy from the expensive shops in the malls rather than feigning disinterest like me. Previous colleague bought two GBP5k watches in a year (for himself), and his wife actually had a little device (a refractometer?) which she used in shops to tests whether the diamonds were genuine, so god knows how much they spent on lumps of rock. 20k a month on average would be quite easy if you're of that mindset.

well you always find the odd tosser :rofl: there used to many like that, not so many these days though, people are watching their money. Look how well all these discount sites are doing, everyone is out to save money

kittycat1 May 30th 2011 8:07 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

what on clothes? make up? non essentials?
If I had no interest in saving any money wotsoever and was just here for the craik then Id spend a fair bit on clothes each month- I used to shop for a living so Im pretty good at it! I'd go travelling as much as possible, buy 'stuff' for the kids and family at home (I suffer from guilt purchases), get a nice car, maybe live somewhere else- downtown maybe, go out more often. 20K could go easily.

mummy2dolly May 30th 2011 8:17 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 
We now get £2k into the bank here each month, so whatever that converts to when it gets transfered is what we will live on. That will include utilities, which we budget 1,000dhs for. That is for 4 of us.

Millhouse May 30th 2011 8:21 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 9399257)
point taken, but I can't see how people spend 20k a month? after housing, dewa, schooling etc

I know someone who goes back to see most home games of his premiership club. That has to be costly.

Madam Medusa May 30th 2011 8:25 pm

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i think i'm missing something here...what does it matter who saves/spends what, unless you are comparing lifestyle with lifestyle, it's irrelevant...

MM, xx

Patsy Stoned May 30th 2011 8:36 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 9399274)
well you always find the odd tosser :rofl: there used to many like that, not so many these days though, people are watching their money. Look how well all these discount sites are doing, everyone is out to save money

FFS BC!!! Why does somebody have to be a "tosser" just because they like, and can afford, to buy nice things from high end stores? I would rather save my money and buy a pair of Louboutins or a good handbag than shop in some of the high street stores for things that don't last 2 weeks.

Stop being so judgemental darling!:frown:

al dente May 30th 2011 8:50 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 9399269)
No, Al Dente... looking at these voting ranges, I assume that you are way about 10-15k....

What on earth are you spending it on!? :rofl:

I'm around 13k, but we own the cars. I can only think that if I was leasing the two then it would around 23k?

I think it's time to reassess our budget. I'm not letting the hardworking other half see this. (Though i do bring in a few pennies myself).

We own one car and one year off paying the other one, but that only affects the budget by 3.5k. Restaurants, parties and entertaining take a big chunk as does holiday accommodation.

Other than going to Jordan next month, i will attempt a 10k month. Blimey, can't believe i wrote that...

Edited to say, please don't think of me as a nob just someone who is useless with money. It does drive my husband barmy.

Millhouse May 30th 2011 8:56 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by al dente (Post 9399363)
I think it's time to reassess our budget. I'm not letting the hardworking other half see this. (Though i do bring in a few pennies myself).

We own one car and one year off paying the other one, but that only affects the budget by 3.5k. Restaurants, parties and entertaining take a big chunk as does holiday accommodation.

Other than going to Jordan next month, i will attempt a 10k month. Blimey, can't believe i wrote that...

Edited to say, please don't think of me as a nob just someone who is useless with money. It does drive my husband barmy.

can I come to one of our parties?

al dente May 30th 2011 9:03 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 9399370)
can I come to one of our parties?

Don't think there will be anymore now :o

kittycat1 May 30th 2011 9:03 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by al dente
I think it's time to reassess our budget. I'm not letting the hardworking other half see this. (Though i do bring in a few pennies myself).

We own one car and one year off paying the other one, but that only affects the budget by 3.5k. Restaurants, parties and entertaining take a big chunk as does holiday accommodation.

Other than going to Jordan next month, i will attempt a 10k month. Blimey, can't believe i wrote that...

Edited to say, please don't think of me as a nob just someone who is useless with money. It does drive my husband barmy.

can I come to one of our parties?
Is it a keys in the bowl job lol

MataHari May 30th 2011 9:21 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 9399314)
i think i'm missing something here...what does it matter who saves/spends what, unless you are comparing lifestyle with lifestyle, it's irrelevant...

MM, xx

exactly...and the size of the family and ages...there is no way I could foodshop for 500 dhs a week with 2 hungry teenagers and their friends attacking the fridge/cupboards every waking moment...1 trolley will be around 800 dhs and will only last me 2/3 days...

csdf May 30th 2011 9:48 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 9399405)
exactly...and the size of the family and ages...there is no way I could foodshop for 500 dhs a week with 2 hungry teenagers and their friends attacking the fridge/cupboards every waking moment...1 trolley will be around 800 dhs and will only last me 2/3 days...

Really? Sob. Didn't realise children ate so much! Our average trolley is 250 dhs and lasts 7-8 days (for two people).

lionheart May 30th 2011 11:12 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 
Actually I'm in the second category thanks primarily to my weekly massages, daily bottle of wine and extortionate DEWA bills. This month it was well over Dhs1,800...:eek:

Mogs May 30th 2011 11:15 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by lionheart (Post 9399581)
Actually I'm in the second category thanks primarily to my weekly massages, daily bottle of wine and extortionate DEWA bills. This month it was well over Dhs1,800...:eek:


it does say after energy bills in the poll question

Millhouse May 30th 2011 11:15 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by lionheart (Post 9399581)
Actually I'm in the second category thanks primarily to my weekly massages, daily bottle of wine and extortionate DEWA bills. This month it was well over Dhs1,800...:eek:

Dhs1,800!?? You're in a flat right?

Mine was 1,100 this month.

Meow May 30th 2011 11:23 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 9399586)
Dhs1,800!?? You're in a flat right?

Mine was 1,100 this month.

I assumed the AED 1,800 was his total monthly spend ;)

Brains1983 May 31st 2011 12:54 am

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Meow (Post 9399599)
I assumed the AED 1,800 was his total monthly spend ;)

Lionheart? Surely that's more like annual?

Blue Cat May 31st 2011 1:26 am

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned (Post 9399334)
FFS BC!!! Why does somebody have to be a "tosser" just because they like, and can afford, to buy nice things from high end stores? I would rather save my money and buy a pair of Louboutins or a good handbag than shop in some of the high street stores for things that don't last 2 weeks.

Stop being so judgemental darling!:frown:

and you can afford it Patsy!! I was not referring to people like you but those who get in debt to do so :)

spencerbarnes May 31st 2011 1:53 am

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If you enjoy decent food, dont mind a splash of wine and eat out three times weekly... AED20k goes in a heart beat!

This place is designed to suck everything out of you.... :eek:

The Dean May 31st 2011 5:28 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 
What a strange thread........ a bizarre question indeed.

How does anyone know how much they spend each month? Or am I missing something?

"Well I get paid 32,500, and after rent etc that leaves 19,250, and I save 6,000 so I suppose I must spend... er... 13,250...." :blink:

Who cares?

al dente May 31st 2011 5:43 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 9401794)
What a strange thread........ a bizarre question indeed.

How does anyone know how much they spend each month? Or am I missing something?

"Well I get paid 32,500, and after rent etc that leaves 19,250, and I save 6,000 so I suppose I must spend... er... 13,250...." :blink:

Who cares?

It's my fault, i thought through the answer but not the question. I find it expensive living here and rather than ask people in real life where it felt that it would be awkward, i thought it'd be fine on here. On reflection it is a crass question but i got caught up in the spirit of the save thread and was curious.

Sorry.

scrubbedexpat141 May 31st 2011 6:45 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by al dente (Post 9401806)
It's my fault, i thought through the answer but not the question. I find it expensive living here and rather than ask people in real life where it felt that it would be awkward, i thought it'd be fine on here. On reflection it is a crass question but i got caught up in the spirit of the save thread and was curious.

Sorry.

Worry not. Don't see the problem in asking.

I spend much less than I was anticipating to before I moved out 2 months ago.

The Dean May 31st 2011 8:15 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by al dente (Post 9401806)
It's my fault, i thought through the answer but not the question. I find it expensive living here and rather than ask people in real life where it felt that it would be awkward, i thought it'd be fine on here. On reflection it is a crass question but i got caught up in the spirit of the save thread and was curious.

Sorry.

Apology accepted (and unnecessary).

Carry on.

I've no idea though.................

lionheart May 31st 2011 8:20 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 9399586)
Dhs1,800!?? You're in a flat right?
Mine was 1,100 this month.

No, we have a 3-bed villa with a separate maids quarters.

Bahtatboy May 31st 2011 8:29 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 9402050)
Apology accepted (and unnecessary).

Carry on.

I've no idea though.................

You must be able to do a rough calculation (say for last year):

Total annual remuneration
Less how much you saved / invested
Less your annual rent
Less an estimate of how much you spend each month (x 12) on the other things
= your annual "spend"

The Dean May 31st 2011 10:32 pm

Re: How Much do you Spend?
 

Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 9402070)
You must be able to do a rough calculation (say for last year):

Total annual remuneration
Less how much you saved / invested
Less your annual rent
Less an estimate of how much you spend each month (x 12) on the other things
= your annual "spend"

I suppose so.

I don't spend much - but then I am ludicrously and quite undeservedly overpaid.

Blue Cat Jun 1st 2011 12:25 am

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 9402258)
I suppose so.

I don't spend much - but then I am ludicrously and quite undeservedly overpaid.

:rolleyes:


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