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Blue Cat Aug 24th 2007 3:13 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 
what have I missed?? don't tell me you lot all got wound up over a troll :rofl:

The Dean Aug 24th 2007 3:35 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5230600)
I don't think we have Arab ladies posting on here...

Nor do I MH - that's precisely my point.......

The Dean Aug 24th 2007 3:36 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 5230618)
what have I missed?? don't tell me you lot all got wound up over a troll :rofl:

BC, are you thinking 'perla' is who I'm thinking 'perla' is??

MataHari Aug 24th 2007 3:38 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 5230719)
BC, are you thinking 'perla' is who I'm thinking 'perla' is??

just say who you think it is...why all the secrecy

Madam Medusa Aug 24th 2007 3:39 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5230727)
just say who you think it is...why all the secrecy

can you let me know when you find out, doll...i'm feeling totally out of the loop here!!!

MM, xx

Blue Cat Aug 24th 2007 3:41 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 5230719)
BC, are you thinking 'perla' is who I'm thinking 'perla' is??

no idea who it is, just think it is a troll :)

MataHari Aug 24th 2007 3:42 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 5230731)
can you let me know when you find out, doll...i'm feeling totally out of the loop here!!!

MM, xx

you and me both doll...That The Dean is seeing things...

Modernian Aug 24th 2007 3:42 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 5230737)
no idea who it is, just think it is a troll :)

I reckon it's someone who will be in Dire trouble soon..........

Madam Medusa Aug 24th 2007 3:43 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by Blue Cat (Post 5230737)
no idea who it is, just think it is a troll :)

it must be a troll...they do come up with some inventive stuff though, eh? I don't know how they can be arsed...!!!

MM, xx

Fairydust Aug 24th 2007 5:58 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 
Oh Perla come on I can see you lurking :p

perla Aug 24th 2007 6:01 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 
I have come across this forum on the same say I registered and replied this post. Yes I am an Arab girl (what's wrong with that?), and I believe my English writing was alright compared to many other posts.

As for patsy the stond, I think she/ he was sober enough to read my post so thoroughly and pick on every word and spelling/ grammatical mistake like it was a pleasure to search and find them!! I think it has 'gotten' to you somehow, and that is obvious. Even though that was not my intended purpose.

I agree that escorting does not do much for self-respect, but as long as not too many people know, then!! ALSO 80% of the men I meet are self-employed business owners, and Vice Presidents, CEO's, managers, directors in famous MNC's, banks and governmental associations. I am certain they get all the respect they deserve for their experience, knowledge and intelligence. Many of them meet escorts, have perverted fantasies- and i mean extreme stuff- yet they have a solid image that gets them self-respect AS LONG AS nobody knows what they really do out there/ back at home.

Respect and love belong to anyone who is fair and just to humans and other living creatures, honest and polite, doesn't hurt anyone verbally or physically and compassionate and respectful to others. I think a person with these qualities deserves the respect and good treatment of others.

In my post, i did not want to sound like im 'wiser than all'- even though i do run my own business (in media) and am a post-graduate, yet as money focused as i try to be in this other business, i do occasionally find someone so interesting and good-looking that i break all rules and just have a normal friendship/ relationship.

Many people forget that escorts are human too- and with feelings- whether they are the professional full-time ones or p/timers who do it for extra cash for university or because they are single mothers, etc. They are sacrificing, have their strengths and weaknesses and fight to make a living- like we all do. For some reason, lots of people think that they escorts are hard-minded, cold-hearted, inflexible, business focused girls with nothing on mind but cash and how to get their hands on it. But that is not true for many people I know. When you get to know them properly, and if you do, you might be surprised by many things.

Lastly about Dubai, the reason why Arab men get aggressive with women and even their wives, is because it'sw their country, they think they can get away with it. Now more women are stepping forward and complaining. As many of those Arab men are abusive, especially UAE nationals and Saudis, as many as I have met who are decent educated gentlemen who would never touch a woman in a way she doesnt want. Europeans/ Americans might be more restricted as expats in the Middle East, ruled by foreign policies of another country, but the case is surely different when you see things in their own countries. I personally think East Europeans, Russians and Far Eastern lady escorts suffet the most- as they have a terrible reputation that is hard to get rid of once you are born as a national of that country. And they get mistreated in many clubs and bars, probably in their own countries it's worse. And they often get critisized by men due to their nationalities, who vigorously negotiate their prices forgetting that these girls live, eat, have shelter from that money, which most of it is sent to their families, mothers, sisters, etc to help them survive.

One easy way to sympathize with others and feel for them:

TRY TO SEE FROM THEIR EYES- TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH, APART FROM THE COVER THEY PUT TO LOOK HARD AND PROFESSIONAL, AND IMAGINE BEING IN THEIR PLACES, LIVING THEIR LIFE. THIS CAN BE DONE WITH ANYBODY WHOM YOU ARE ANGRY FROM, CANT SEE THEIR POINT, ETC.

Love,

Perla

The Dean Aug 24th 2007 6:05 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by perla (Post 5231338)
I have come across this forum on the same say I registered and replied this post. Yes I am an Arab girl (what's wrong with that?), and I believe my English writing was alright compared to many other posts.

As for patsy the stond, I think she/ he was sober enough to read my post so thoroughly and pick on every word and spelling/ grammatical mistake like it was a pleasure to search and find them!! I think it has 'gotten' to you somehow, and that is obvious. Even though that was not my intended purpose.

I agree that escorting does not do much for self-respect, but as long as not too many people know, then!! ALSO 80% of the men I meet are self-employed business owners, and Vice Presidents, CEO's, managers, directors in famous MNC's, banks and governmental associations. I am certain they get all the respect they deserve for their experience, knowledge and intelligence. Many of them meet escorts, have perverted fantasies- and i mean extreme stuff- yet they have a solid image that gets them self-respect AS LONG AS nobody knows what they really do out there/ back at home.

Respect and love belong to anyone who is fair and just to humans and other living creatures, honest and polite, doesn't hurt anyone verbally or physically and compassionate and respectful to others. I think a person with these qualities deserves the respect and good treatment of others.

In my post, i did not want to sound like im 'wiser than all'- even though i do run my own business (in media) and am a post-graduate, yet as money focused as i try to be in this other business, i do occasionally find someone so interesting and good-looking that i break all rules and just have a normal friendship/ relationship.

Many people forget that escorts are human too- and with feelings- whether they are the professional full-time ones or p/timers who do it for extra cash for university or because they are single mothers, etc. They are sacrificing, have their strengths and weaknesses and fight to make a living- like we all do. For some reason, lots of people think that they escorts are hard-minded, cold-hearted, inflexible, business focused girls with nothing on mind but cash and how to get their hands on it. But that is not true for many people I know. When you get to know them properly, and if you do, you might be surprised by many things.

Lastly about Dubai, the reason why Arab men get aggressive with women and even their wives, is because it'sw their country, they think they can get away with it. Now more women are stepping forward and complaining. As many of those Arab men are abusive, especially UAE nationals and Saudis, as many as I have met who are decent educated gentlemen who would never touch a woman in a way she doesnt want. Europeans/ Americans might be more restricted as expats in the Middle East, ruled by foreign policies of another country, but the case is surely different when you see things in their own countries. I personally think East Europeans, Russians and Far Eastern lady escorts suffet the most- as they have a terrible reputation that is hard to get rid of once you are born as a national of that country. And they get mistreated in many clubs and bars, probably in their own countries it's worse. And they often get critisized by men due to their nationalities, who vigorously negotiate their prices forgetting that these girls live, eat, have shelter from that money, which most of it is sent to their families, mothers, sisters, etc to help them survive.

One easy way to sympathize with others and feel for them:

TRY TO SEE FROM THEIR EYES- TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH, APART FROM THE COVER THEY PUT TO LOOK HARD AND PROFESSIONAL, AND IMAGINE BEING IN THEIR PLACES, LIVING THEIR LIFE. THIS CAN BE DONE WITH ANYBODY WHOM YOU ARE ANGRY FROM, CANT SEE THEIR POINT, ETC.

Love,

Perla

I DEFINITELY feel a parody coming on........ what a load of self-serving tosh.

By the way Perla - I've worked out who you are........

Fairydust Aug 24th 2007 6:08 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 5231360)
I DEFINITELY feel a parody coming on........ what a load of self-serving tosh.

By the way Perla - I've worked out who you are........

Fill us in then :confused:

beebee Aug 24th 2007 6:13 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by Fairydust (Post 5231375)
Fill us in then :confused:

Yeah.. c'mon

Madam Medusa Aug 24th 2007 11:27 am

Re: An Escort in Dubai
 

Originally Posted by beebee (Post 5231397)
Yeah.. c'mon

well i've been sitting here waiting with baited breath for the info The Dean...and you've left me tired and disappointed, lmao...let's hope you redeem yourself tomorrow...!!

MM, xx


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