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commander Feb 14th 2009 4:20 pm

13 year old boy in UK becomes a dad
 
Just seen this report on Sky. Sick...

13 year old dad, 15 year old mum..

Do they both get done for underage sex?? Lol.

commander Feb 14th 2009 4:30 pm

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He was 12 when he pumped her.I'm sure my baws hadn't even dropped at that age.

Bizzare.

His daughter will be in primary 1 when he is in Sixth year at school.

Madam Medusa Feb 14th 2009 4:32 pm

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i saw that too, bloody hell, the mind boggles...he looks soooo young too...just feel sorry for the baby...

MM, xx

MacScot Feb 14th 2009 4:44 pm

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7285039)
Just seen this report on Sky. Sick...

13 year old dad, 15 year old mum..

Do they both get done for underage sex?? Lol.

Biologically speaking...not really surprising, since humans are neotenous apes.

Neoteny is a process which leads to an organism reaching reproductive capacity in its juvenile form.

I think the marriage age in Sicily used to be 13 years old.

commander Feb 14th 2009 4:55 pm

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Sorry but us laymans find it slightly 'surprising'

At 12 I was playing football.

The nearest I got to a girl was at scottish country dancing classes. I was always the last to be picked.

Or of course, kiss, cuddle or torture..

commander Feb 14th 2009 4:58 pm

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For you guys with older kids, what age to you start the birds and the bees conversations? Or the serious sex education?

Fairydust Feb 14th 2009 5:05 pm

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On this topic i was up at the junior rugby tournament today and was abso gobsmacked at how old these 13-15 year olds looked :eek:

busybee2 Feb 14th 2009 5:42 pm

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my boy who is 12 is now just doing reproduction at school.

Confucius Feb 14th 2009 5:43 pm

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Originally Posted by busybee2 (Post 7285174)
my boy who is 12 is now just doing reproduction at school.

What...They're implementing it already???

busybee2 Feb 14th 2009 5:49 pm

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7285179)
What...They're implementing it already???

no they had planned this a long time ago, we had to sign a paper at beginng of school year saying we were happy for school to do it as part of curriculum, i suppose with being in a muslim country etc.

Confucius Feb 14th 2009 5:52 pm

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Originally Posted by busybee2 (Post 7285188)
no they had planned this a long time ago, we had to sign a paper at beginng of school year saying we were happy for school to do it as part of curriculum, i suppose with being in a muslim country etc.

wow...so will be losing his, erm, you know...since you also know about it...

Ozzidoc Feb 14th 2009 5:56 pm

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7285104)
For you guys with older kids, what age to you start the birds and the bees conversations? Or the serious sex education?

From the kid's birth. Or thereabouts. Try "Mummy Laid An Egg"

The Dean Feb 14th 2009 5:58 pm

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Full marks to the lad for not............. er.............. arriving too early...........

I like the quote from the interview:

Interviewer: "How will you manage financially?"
Boy: "What does financially mean?"

:huh:

Jacquie77 Feb 14th 2009 5:59 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7285203)
Full marks to the lad for not............. er.............. arriving too early...........

I like the quote from the interview:

Interviewer: "How will you manage financially?"
Boy: "What does financially mean?"

:huh:

That's the part that made me feel like crying!

Confucius Feb 14th 2009 6:02 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7285203)
Full marks to the lad for not............. er.............. arriving too early...........

I like the quote from the interview:

Interviewer: "How will you manage financially?"
Boy: "What does financially mean?"

:huh:

The birds in the sky, the fish in the sea, the animals on the ground, never died of starvation and always had food...
Things always work out...

The Dean Feb 14th 2009 6:04 pm

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7285211)
The birds in the sky, the fish in the sea, the animals on the ground, never died of starvation and always had food...
Things always work out...

True............ it's only the human race who are destined to suffer.

Confucius Feb 14th 2009 6:07 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7285216)
True............ it's only the human race who are destined to suffer.

Not at all...Other species dont interfere in each others affairs...Hence they live the happy life, oblivious of the lion behind them sharpenng its teeth...

The Dean Feb 14th 2009 6:08 pm

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Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 7285220)
Not at all...Other species dont interfere in each others affairs...Hence they live the happy life, oblivious of the lion behind them sharpenng its teeth...

Being part of the food chain - at a lower level than a lion - is not 'suffering'.

Confucius Feb 14th 2009 6:09 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 7285225)
Being part of the food chain - at a lower level than a lion - is not 'suffering'.

In simpler terms please...

Fairydust Feb 14th 2009 6:14 pm

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Originally Posted by busybee2 (Post 7285188)
no they had planned this a long time ago, we had to sign a paper at beginng of school year saying we were happy for school to do it as part of curriculum, i suppose with being in a muslim country etc.

We had to do that in year 5 in primary and they all had the "talk" but separated male/female but she's just done it all again in year 7 without any forms to sign

MataHari Feb 15th 2009 2:38 am

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I just told my boys that I would kick their fcking heads in if they ever get a girl pregnant...that should suffice...

but seriously...is there anyone that learnt the facts of life from their parents...

Charismatic Feb 15th 2009 2:54 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7286104)
I just told my boys that I would kick their fcking heads in if they ever get a girl pregnant.

Bit extreme as they will get married one day :eek:.

MataHari Feb 15th 2009 2:55 am

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Originally Posted by Charismatic (Post 7286117)
Bit extreme as they will get married one day :eek:.

I'll just turn into the mother in law from hell when that happens...

busybee2 Feb 15th 2009 5:23 am

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Originally Posted by Fairydust (Post 7285242)
We had to do that in year 5 in primary and they all had the "talk" but separated male/female but she's just done it all again in year 7 without any forms to sign

yeh they did a talk back inprimary but he is now in year7

snowbunny Feb 15th 2009 5:32 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7286120)
I'll just turn into the mother in law from hell when that happens...

That would mean kicking HER head in first. ;)

MataHari Feb 15th 2009 5:35 am

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Originally Posted by snowbunny (Post 7286268)
That would mean kicking HER head in first. ;)

yeah...damn her for leading my little boy astraigh...

Spugsy Feb 15th 2009 5:47 am

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7285039)
Just seen this report on Sky. Sick...

13 year old dad, 15 year old mum..

Do they both get done for underage sex?? Lol.

aye the dirty get eh? Still I know people who were shagging at 13, but if he never used anything then he's plain stupid,

that's his life pretty ****ed then now eh?

NorthernLad Feb 15th 2009 5:48 am

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There is now a 16 year old lad demanding DNA tests as he claims it is his baby.

Sounds like a nice lass.

Spugsy Feb 15th 2009 5:49 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7286104)
I just told my boys that I would kick their fcking heads in if they ever get a girl pregnant...that should suffice...

but seriously...is there anyone that learnt the facts of life from their parents...

aye, my mam told me all about it when I was about 9 or 10. Then as a young teenage lad she bought me a few books about it, sort of cool teenager books, if you know what I mean that explain loads of things.

NorthernLad Feb 15th 2009 5:51 am

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Originally Posted by Spugsy (Post 7286290)
Then as a young teenage lad she bought me a few books about it, sort of cool teenager books, if you know what I mean that explain loads of things.

Razzle and Escort?

Spugsy Feb 15th 2009 6:00 am

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Originally Posted by NorthernLad (Post 7286293)
Razzle and Escort?

asian babes and readers wives....

DaWarrior Feb 15th 2009 6:22 am

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So when the kid's 18, the dad is 31. They may end up dating the same chick at prom night. So what do you call that, paternal rivalry?

Grace O Malley Feb 15th 2009 6:27 am

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Originally Posted by busybee2 (Post 7285188)
no they had planned this a long time ago, we had to sign a paper at beginng of school year saying we were happy for school to do it as part of curriculum, i suppose with being in a muslim country etc.

I signed that as well, my boy (now in 6th form) tells me they are now covering STD's in the lessons

Grace O Malley Feb 15th 2009 6:30 am

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7285104)
For you guys with older kids, what age to you start the birds and the bees conversations? Or the serious sex education?

I got my lad a book when he was around 11, then as BB said they cover it at BSAK also. I had a serous chat with him last year as there was a girl on the scene, also as Mata said I told him i would @ucking kill him, if he got up to any crap.

Spugsy Feb 15th 2009 6:32 am

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Originally Posted by annacarna (Post 7286336)
I signed that as well, my boy (now in 6th form) tells me they are now covering STD's in the lessons

that's nothing but a good thing though.

MissDemeanor Feb 15th 2009 7:18 am

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If the law states that it is illegal for kids to have sex under the age of 16,it should be illegal for them to have a child.
When it comes to this,they shouldnt be given a choice.My opinion.

Beard Man Feb 15th 2009 7:41 am

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I still remember the youngest girl (who became a mother) in UK who was only 12 years old.

so she started doing it at age of 11 or 10 ..who knows maybe 9 :)

Inselaffen Feb 15th 2009 7:56 am

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if it had been a 15 year old boy having sex with a 13 year old girl he would have been prosecuted for sure. I hate the double standards that apply in English criminal law!

Grace O Malley Feb 15th 2009 8:24 am

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Originally Posted by Spugsy (Post 7286342)
that's nothing but a good thing though.

oh yeah absolutely.

Ozzidoc Feb 15th 2009 8:53 am

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I wonder what Maslow would think.


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