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megansmummy Jun 15th 2007 7:11 pm

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by woodyinoz (Post 4921149)
get used to it..

When you get back to England all you will here is "what did you come back to this dump for":rofl:


People have said that to me. They have this pre-conception that Oz is some kind of paradise!! I admit that when you watch home & away & neighbours it certainly looks fab but when your living it, it does become boring & it certainly isnt paradise!!

Reading the comments made to fleaflyfloflum do not surprise me at all. People in oz are a strange breed on times. They have never been anyway apart from theree & have never experienced other cultures. they are so set in their ways hence why i think they are so laid back

I wouldnt worry that you have told them hun, Bugger them! You wont be there much longer anyway. Just imagine the UK & all its got & that will take your mind off things. Thats what i did from the time i was left in Oz waiting to come home!!

LouiseD Jun 15th 2007 8:20 pm

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by megansmummy (Post 4921236)
People have said that to me. They have this pre-conception that Oz is some kind of paradise!!

A bit like us before we went - its the big Oz marketing machine in action and we believed it all :o

mabozar Jun 15th 2007 10:24 pm

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by jad n rich (Post 4920931)
:rofl: I did a beauty this week, waiting for the car to be serviced other owners waffling on about camping, you know the same old spots where there is nothing really, certainly not anything special, just another bit of beach/scrub and a veeeery long drive to get to it.

I am just sitting there casually flicking though a magazine and after a speel of how you can spend a month :confused: at ayres rock, the dead beach town of 1770 is raised, half concentrating by now I chirp up " yeah we went there, long drive, bit disappointed really nowt there". OMG :eek: Woman goes nuts :rofl: totally crazed that someone would dare say such a thing:thumbsup: But its true, how many dead beach spots can a person do before going stark raving bonkers.

I remember speaking to you a while back Jade, I don't know if you remember me the one with the nephew who had a heart condition?

Where did you eventually settle are you enjoying it? Will you come back to the uk then?

We haven't even sold the house yet the thought of that scares me.


Is Oz really that boring when you move there?

Cheers for your reply

Carol

dunroving Jun 16th 2007 12:23 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 
Maybe I'm missing something, but these people are your work colleagues. What does your personal situation have to do with them?

Just focus on continuing to do a good job at work, and any time discussion of your personal life comes up, deflect it. Think of work as a place you work.

I'm guessing that maybe the work/personal life barrier is fuzzier in Oz than elsewhere. Bottom line is though that most countries have rules governing the workplace, that usually include the idea that your personal life is separate from from work issues.

JAJ Jun 16th 2007 3:30 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by Fleaflyfloflum (Post 4920591)
One said i was crazy as Australia is the best country on earth :curse: This from a bloke who has only ever left Aus once for a 4 week holiday in USA.

Another tried to make me feel guilty for getting Aus citizenship and now buggering off.

You said on a previous thread that you weren't an Australian citizen:
http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=440998

Fleaflyfloflum Jun 16th 2007 8:14 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by JAJ (Post 4922424)
You said on a previous thread that you weren't an Australian citizen:
http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=440998

That was my husband posting. I am a citizen he isnt. We share being a flea :D
But he hasnt been on for a couple of weeks. Maybe he should get his own name if it causes you a problem.

Mercedes Jun 16th 2007 8:19 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 
I thought he was kiwi, so wouldn't need to get his citzenship anyway?


Originally Posted by Fleaflyfloflum (Post 4923294)
That was my husband posting. I am a citizen he isnt. We share being a flea :D
But he hasnt been on for a couple of weeks. Maybe he should get his own name if it causes you a problem.


Fleaflyfloflum Jun 16th 2007 8:27 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by Mercedes (Post 4923299)
I thought he was kiwi, so wouldn't need to get his citzenship anyway?

Thats correct Mercedes, whereas i am British as he also stated on another post in that thread, so i got my citizenship which enables me access to both NZ and Aus now.

Mercedes Jun 16th 2007 8:43 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 
Well the world is your oyster you have Europe and Aus and NZ.:thumbup: Don't forget to tell that to you colleagues, you aren't just restricted to UK and you are looking forward to exploring Europe and how cheap the costs are blah blah blah. :D You can turn the table on their negativity you know and make them reeeeallly jealous :sneaky:



Originally Posted by Fleaflyfloflum (Post 4923313)
Thats correct Mercedes, whereas i am British as he also stated on another post in that thread, so i got my citizenship which enables me access to both NZ and Aus now.


Fleaflyfloflum Jun 16th 2007 8:52 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by Mercedes (Post 4923333)
Well the world is your oyster you have Europe and Aus and NZ.:thumbup: Don't forget to tell that to you colleagues, you aren't just restricted to UK and you are looking forward to exploring Europe and how cheap the costs are blah blah blah. :D You can turn the table on their negativity you know and make them reeeeallly jealous :sneaky:

That's a very good point. I shall make sure i let them know the next time i get a dig.

I am a fully paid up member of the global village. They are not :thumbsup:

JAJ Jun 16th 2007 9:05 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by Mercedes (Post 4923299)
I thought he was kiwi, so wouldn't need to get his citzenship anyway?

New Zealanders don't have full citizenship rights in Australia, unless they become Australian citizens.

TouristTrap Jun 16th 2007 9:20 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by LouiseD (Post 4921334)
A bit like us before we went - its the big Oz marketing machine in action and we believed it all :o

It isn't only Aus. South Africans used to suffer from the same media brainwashing years ago. If you told them that S.A. was fine but there were other beautiful countries in the world, they'd take it as an insult. Many still do. The ones who have never set foot anywhere else that is!

LouiseD Jun 16th 2007 9:25 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by TouristTrap (Post 4923410)
It isn't only Aus. South Africans used to suffer from the same media brainwashing years ago. If you told them that S.A. was fine but there were other beautiful countries in the world, they'd take it as an insult. Many still do. The ones who have never set foot anywhere else that is!

OMG I'm working with a girl who is from SA and all she ever talks about all day, every day is how wonderful SA families are, what amazing cooks they are, how clever they all are, how brilliant they are at absolutely everything. Every conversation reverts back to South Africa. It's so irritating. Don't these people realise how up themselves they really are :confused:

TouristTrap Jun 16th 2007 9:37 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by LouiseD (Post 4923427)
OMG I'm working with a girl who is from SA and all she ever talks about all day, every day is how wonderful SA families are, what amazing cooks they are, how clever they all are, how brilliant they are at absolutely everything. Every conversation reverts back to South Africa. It's so irritating. Don't these people realise how up themselves they really are :confused:


How long has she lived in the UK? She's probably homesick.

I refuse to associate with many over here who are still living their past lives there, and go on and on about how wonderful it is, when some haven't been there for over 20 years!!! It WAS a great country which is becoming a third world hellhole as I type. :frown::frown: There are many stages to emigration and sometimes it takes people a little bit longer to get through them all.

I wish they'd take advantage of all the UK has to offer and especially cheap trips to the Continent to broaden their horizons and their minds. I'd give something to be in their shoes right this minute! Being able to be in Prague for the weekend for peanuts sounds heavenly to me!

britvic Jun 16th 2007 9:40 am

Re: I Think I've Made A Big Mistake
 

Originally Posted by woodyinoz (Post 4921149)
get used to it..

When you get back to England all you will here is "what did you come back to this dump for":rofl:

And do you tell them....you dont know what you've got till it's gone....be proud your English, said with a :)


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