nonthaburi

He's been on quite a ride.

caretaker

So why are you lighting into him now that he's come around to acceptance and is finally getting it cleared up?

Jerseygirl

Post #3570.

spouse of scouse

Jeez Louise, you've commented plenty on this thread!

Rete

Actually, I thought he was a friend of P11. In the first 10 pages of looking through his past posts, only 10 of them were on a different thread. The rest were all on this one.

Philosophical 11

Short ..but to the point.

Thank you

Regards

Millhouse

Red_Wine_Fairy

You know him in real life, which gives you a better insight than us into the one-sided narrative we hear from P11. P11 has been through one divorce already, he should know the drill - if not legally, then behaviourally. ExL is seething at a photo she saw on Facebook, I can only imagine he's been posting photos of himself with more 'lovely ladies' of the Filipina variety, part of- or close to- the household he now dwells in: most likely intended to drive ExL to a fit of jealous rage because secretly, he wants her back as much as she wants his money back. He still fails to grasp that as a septuagenarian he's no longer going to be considered a virile god, and that these ladies look (very) hard past the wrinkly skin to ascertain the prospect of the wallet deep inside. When it comes to Asian females, it seems that P11 can check out but he can never leave.

Philosophical 11

Explain to me how you came to that view. I have not posted anything of that nature on fb. Others can verify.

Regards

Red_Wine_Fairy

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#3465
I'm nowhere near the Philippines as most of your fan club aren't. Does it really take a mallet to the head? If so, ExLL and her first husband/baby-daddies (how many did she have again??) may oblige if you don't start acting your age and stop making your lovely new lady friends posts Private Viewing for friends only (while assigning every Filipino who ever knew you in your former life with her to Acquaintance on Facebook)? The only possible explanation for your behaviour is a) misguided alpha-male'ism or b) making ExL jealous.

Unlike the sycophants here, I won't pamper your feigned delicate feelings. If you value the rest of your years and want to have a simple and peaceful life in the Philippines, wise up. You've gone through a divorce before now, so why is an annulment to this firebrand so different? Respect her by posting only sunrise and scenery photos on Facebook and not more lady-friends. Seems your expat friends are wringing their hands at your antics. You are a classic example of why age is not a direct correlation to wisdom. You can hate me because I'm just an anonymous reader. But I think you should better evaluate these slices of criticism rather than holding closely the people who go pat-pat-there-there. You aren't a baby after all.

N0rbett

I think you hit the nail on the head with the "Temptation to withdraw" part, I know T-GF would just take the money out to send to her family at the first sign of any problems if it was in her bank account so maybe the necklace is a better buy (smart cookie)

moneypenny20

Don't you hate having only half a story???

N0rbett

LMFAO... I'm saving that, to use at some point

Philosophical 11

May I suggest to you that you get your facts right before criticising me. I have fb friends here who can vouch that I have not posted anything on fb relating to my circumstances here, Also if you had read my post correctly concerning the annulment, the problem concerns the costs and time involved.

Red_Wine_Fairy

You put your narrative out there P11, not me and not your friends. Quoting you personally, once again.. ''the only picture I can imagine she has seen on fb is during one evening of shenanigans, there were a few pic taken of a few of us .One specifically of me and a waitress and her daughter.'' IF you are serious about keeping it as amicable as possible, unfriend her or adjust your settings so she doesn't see this stuff for your own privacy. Least said soonest mended, and all that.


My point was that you'll have precious little of those costs ever saved up if you don't stop and take stock, and perhaps a reality check. Perhaps now you feel safe and settled with your adoptive family, but there may yet be a price to pay for that. Because to a waitress and her daughter, and their social circle, whatever you have left (which in your eyes may be a pittance) is to them a fortune, and we all know that a middle-aged lovely lady will forgive your aging body for the security of a fortune.