I need to know the truth
#46
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Re: I need to know the truth
Err if the cost of a Wof is a factor in affording to move to NZ then stay in the UK mate.......i assume that was not a serious remark as the cost of a wof is cheap when compared to a UK MOT test............
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#47
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Re: I need to know the truth
No it isn't.
It is when you can't afford to get a passport renewed. When you want to leave and can't afford to. When you want to leave but your partner doesn't want to. When you can't do something for your kids because there is no money . When you face real financial ruin because you cannot balance the budget , knowing it would not have been so had you stayed in the place/job/county/country you had come from. That is stuck and no laughing matter.
By good grace, we are not stuck and I am very thankful for that & more. We have choice. However, I am not so cosy in this NZ life of mine as to make light of those that do feel under extreme pressure. Nor would I poo poo those that feel content with their NZ lot either.
When we post to these boards we perhaps need to remember that not everyone will be in the same boat as ourselves. Nor be happy with what we are happy with as individuals. To that end, I would endorse being open and honest about our financial situations here in NZ rather than just stating we are
a - OK and brillliant
b - Not OK and struggling
c - Something in betweeny
I'm not sure it's a duty but it is , perhaps, a responsibility.
It is when you can't afford to get a passport renewed. When you want to leave and can't afford to. When you want to leave but your partner doesn't want to. When you can't do something for your kids because there is no money . When you face real financial ruin because you cannot balance the budget , knowing it would not have been so had you stayed in the place/job/county/country you had come from. That is stuck and no laughing matter.
By good grace, we are not stuck and I am very thankful for that & more. We have choice. However, I am not so cosy in this NZ life of mine as to make light of those that do feel under extreme pressure. Nor would I poo poo those that feel content with their NZ lot either.
When we post to these boards we perhaps need to remember that not everyone will be in the same boat as ourselves. Nor be happy with what we are happy with as individuals. To that end, I would endorse being open and honest about our financial situations here in NZ rather than just stating we are
a - OK and brillliant
b - Not OK and struggling
c - Something in betweeny
I'm not sure it's a duty but it is , perhaps, a responsibility.
We all know what it's like to cling to every word that gets posted on these forums when you are still in the UK looking for assurances and a glimmer of hope that things will work out. People do have a moral responsibility to give the facts, after all we have all been there looking for information and it's so not fair to paint things with a rosier glow than is reasonable for the average person to expect. Yes, indeedy scraping by on $45k may work and be satisfactorily achievable for some people, but they do need to caveat that with the realities and downsides. I have seen many many people return to the UK who just could not make the numbers add up and many more who would if only they could.
We managed for a few months, as many do in the short term, on one wage of $46k (because we had no choice) and we kept a roof over our heads and food on the table, but it certainly was no picnic and wouldn't be a position I would envy or want to return to, nor would I dare to recommend it to others as a lifestyle choice for the sake of just being in New Zealand.
#48
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Re: I need to know the truth
I agree though, if the price of a WOF is likely to sway the decision, you have got some serious thinking to do.
Big piece of paper, numbers, numbers, pluses and minuses is the only way forward. Think of every expense you have in the UK and find out the equivalent cost here. Weigh it up with your expected take home earnings using the calculator from the IRD website. See what you can live without or cut down upon and crunch and crunch the numbers.
#49
Re: I need to know the truth
Sorry everyone, I was using the WOF as an example, an extended metaphor if you will. When me and the missus were first thinking about the move, we somehow assumed the cost of living would be less than that in the U.K. This was, however, probably based on info that was out of date.
We are family of 4, 2 adults, 2 small kids. I earn average salary (around £30k), wife stays at home. We are fortunate in that we would probably not need too much of a mortage, if any, if we sell up as we own the house. But judging by the poll on here, people living paycheque to paycheque seem quite a large number of people.
We are family of 4, 2 adults, 2 small kids. I earn average salary (around £30k), wife stays at home. We are fortunate in that we would probably not need too much of a mortage, if any, if we sell up as we own the house. But judging by the poll on here, people living paycheque to paycheque seem quite a large number of people.
#50
Re: I need to know the truth
Yes, that is the case. Extremely few people have money left at the end of the month. To go to NZ you really have to give up things you take for granted in the UK. For the most part you have to get used to budgeting. Even the more middleclass NZers watch their pennies. Way of life.
#51
Re: I need to know the truth
Well I for one like watching pennies, the way of life, and works very well for me, in fact has made me better off financially in this country, I am now focused and don't haemorrhage money as I used to in the UK and I haven't slowed down my lifestyle one bit. I have more future - and that folks is the truth!
Actually 'the truth' is an odd thing to pin down, being the internet all you get here is posters perspectives on their lives, opinions etc, but the truth? no.
Actually 'the truth' is an odd thing to pin down, being the internet all you get here is posters perspectives on their lives, opinions etc, but the truth? no.
#52
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Re: I need to know the truth
Yes, that is the case. Extremely few people have money left at the end of the month. To go to NZ you really have to give up things you take for granted in the UK. For the most part you have to get used to budgeting. Even the more middleclass NZers watch their pennies. Way of life.
On reflection since living in New Zealand and before when I was a visitor yearning to move to New Zealand I think we have gained more than we would have in the UK but how would we really know if we would have been better off in the UK unless we were there?
Is it really just about the money or is there something else?
#53
Re: I need to know the truth
I'm glad that I'm not the only one with an expired passport.
I can't afford to renew it as I just bought a new telly LOL and it seems like a lowish priority
As for the truth...well..I very much doubt that there is such a thing. we all have our own truths, want different things, had different things, have widely differing expectations.
Research helps for sure but at some point you just have to go with it and see.
The internet is great but in some ways it makes decisions even harder...there are too many choices and opinions available to us.
At some point you have to sit back and realise that you have done enough preparation and research and then trust yourself. You know what is right for you and yours.
Keep enough money in reserve...or at least an empty credit card...then go with faith and hope
I can't afford to renew it as I just bought a new telly LOL and it seems like a lowish priority
As for the truth...well..I very much doubt that there is such a thing. we all have our own truths, want different things, had different things, have widely differing expectations.
Research helps for sure but at some point you just have to go with it and see.
The internet is great but in some ways it makes decisions even harder...there are too many choices and opinions available to us.
At some point you have to sit back and realise that you have done enough preparation and research and then trust yourself. You know what is right for you and yours.
Keep enough money in reserve...or at least an empty credit card...then go with faith and hope
#54
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Re: I need to know the truth
I must have missed something when we lived in the UK because it seems like everyone there had/has spare cash at the end of each month, salaries that enable everyone to live so comfortably and things are cheaper than NZ.
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
#55
Re: I need to know the truth
I must have missed something when we lived in the UK because it seems like everyone there had/has spare cash at the end of each month, salaries that enable everyone to live so comfortably and things are cheaper than NZ.
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
#56
Re: I need to know the truth
I must have missed something when we lived in the UK because it seems like everyone there had/has spare cash at the end of each month, salaries that enable everyone to live so comfortably and things are cheaper than NZ.
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
What a complete crock of S#it....
We were very lucky to live a middle class kind of life there but the majority don't and plenty struggle to get by just as they do in New Zealand.
There seems to be a view here that everyone who emmigrates should then enter the country they choose as well off, no mortagage etc etc
You can just swap UK living for NZ living with the normal financial constraints that exist in both countries....
What you get in NZ is a much nicer counrty in so many ways, to live your normal life in
#57
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Re: I need to know the truth
Can't see how pointing out that you need to work more hours at NZ wages to pay NZ bills and have the same disposable at the end of the month is a "crock", cause its pretty much spot on for almost everyone who takes an "equivalent" job here.
With the NZ $ as it is now and the GBP on the slide then we probably seem richer than we did but we know the dollar is over-cooked by at least 10-15%. Plus the whole credit cruch fallout in the UK could well cause a re-alignment of wages there versus here. But the way it was when most of us moved over here is pretty clear, NZ salaries were in the main substantially lower than those in the UK, period. Why do all these Kiwis move offshore and work their butts off for years at OE rates to come home and spend the money? If it's not mainly to do with better salaries then I respectfully suggest that you ask a few more of those who have done it/are planning to do it why they are keen to leave these shores......
Plus the benefits for employees here are pretty dire too, hell there has only been 4 weeks of annual leave for 3 years or so, the sick leave is pretty poor and other benefits for employees didn't compare in my experience.
The way that people make it work in NZ is to take the Kiwi approach - spend less, save less, make do, live more simply, hope for the best, invest in property and pray it accumulates in value.
I for one prefer this approach to life although there is a nagging doubt that it will all go to custard at some point.
But then emigrating to the other side of the world and leaving all those support structures, comforts and familiarities was never going to leave you totally doubt-free, unless you are truly coming with "rose tinted specs".
With the NZ $ as it is now and the GBP on the slide then we probably seem richer than we did but we know the dollar is over-cooked by at least 10-15%. Plus the whole credit cruch fallout in the UK could well cause a re-alignment of wages there versus here. But the way it was when most of us moved over here is pretty clear, NZ salaries were in the main substantially lower than those in the UK, period. Why do all these Kiwis move offshore and work their butts off for years at OE rates to come home and spend the money? If it's not mainly to do with better salaries then I respectfully suggest that you ask a few more of those who have done it/are planning to do it why they are keen to leave these shores......
Plus the benefits for employees here are pretty dire too, hell there has only been 4 weeks of annual leave for 3 years or so, the sick leave is pretty poor and other benefits for employees didn't compare in my experience.
The way that people make it work in NZ is to take the Kiwi approach - spend less, save less, make do, live more simply, hope for the best, invest in property and pray it accumulates in value.
I for one prefer this approach to life although there is a nagging doubt that it will all go to custard at some point.
But then emigrating to the other side of the world and leaving all those support structures, comforts and familiarities was never going to leave you totally doubt-free, unless you are truly coming with "rose tinted specs".
#58
Re: I need to know the truth
Totally agree. Whilst not poor in the UK all of our 50k GBP salary went and we only had a 36k mortgage!!! We drove crappy 2nd hand cars..in the end only one..I cycled to work and did not have expensive hols OR toys. I found the UK ridiculously expensive. I honestly only ate REAL steak once every year or so..just an example of what I could not do in the UK that I do here every week.
#59
Re: I need to know the truth
Totally agree. Whilst not poor in the UK all of our 50k GBP salary went and we only had a 36k mortgage!!! We drove crappy 2nd hand cars..in the end only one..I cycled to work and did not have expensive hols OR toys. I found the UK ridiculously expensive. I honestly only ate REAL steak once every year or so..just an example of what I could not do in the UK that I do here every week.
We were on 50k, 100k mortgage, car was never more than 3 years old, 3 holidays a year, etc. etc., no other loans.
Apart from petrol & council tax (only just) we find everything else to be on a par or ridiculously more expensive here.
Oh, and been here 3 years & only had one holiday.
#60
Re: I need to know the truth
I think one issue people are forgetting is setting up a new life in a new country does mean loads of 'set up' costs. It's difficult to compare this any time in life except when you first set up your first home. I know we used to have one bean bag and one chair to sit on and one 14 inch black and white television. We slept on a matteres on the floor. Now add to this equation children and you'll see why a lot of people stuggle in the first years.
The Kiwis I see who live here also don't seem to struggle if they are on a decent wage.
The Kiwis I see who live here also don't seem to struggle if they are on a decent wage.