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Well today is my 10th wedding anniversary
I bought myself $40 of flowers as I really wanted flowers and I wanted to guarantee that I got them..the florist felt sorry for me and gave them to me for 4o instead of 50

I bought us a new wii game to play as a family ( i know...odd pressie)
He packs a sad cos he can't work it out and won't play anymore (this is two days in a row)
I say..don't be so childish.
He has gone to bed...I though...sod it...i going to open the bubbly anyway as I deserve it
I ate my little heart shaped cake too (petit coeur d'amour my arse)
I am now officially a tragic case
:(

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Sounds like marriage pet.

I don't know much about the "L" word but they say the secret to investing is knowing when to get in and when to get out, not sure if that helps ;).

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you know...it was quite lovely to be called pet!
Haven't been called that for a long time :)

Turns out I'm enjoying not having to share the bubbly :drinkwine: :drinkwine: :drinkwine: :drinkwine:

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Cricky! It’s worse than I thought, you clearly need to get out more. You could join the bowls club or go down to the RSA to moan about how things where better during the war...:p.
Right, fine then...that doesn’t bother me at all :frown:.

Everyone look she's a bollyhog! Take her right off your Christmas card list and cancel the BBQ invites.

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Awwww poor you, although getting the bubbly to yourself :thumbsup:

Is hubster normally a sulker? I know I am :o my poor OH usually just ignores my sulk and carries on as if all is fine :sneaky: eventually I pull myself out of it so it does work.

Dewb xx

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Prickly,I know where you are coming from. Have been with my OH 27 years this Sep,married for 16 years. We don't do cards on our anniversary,or flowers or a nice meal....nothing!:frown: haven't done for years. I usually buy myself a nice bubbly and box of guylain chocs ( my favourites ) and have that after the boys are in bed. As for Valentines day!!!!!!! here is a direct quote I fell for years ago " why do I need to spend a fortune on flowers and a card on one day a year to tell you I love you when I can tell you any other time for free" !!!!!!!!!!

Now,don't get me wrong,he does tell me he loves me and is nice in other ways:wub: BUT to a girl anniversaries and valentines day are a bit special aren't they? We like to be made a fuss of if it is only twice a year.

So hope you enjoyed your bubbly and look forward to next year:wub:

Phyl x

p.s. guess where I will be headed for my anniversary in 2011....Invercargill:eek: Scotland are playing in rugby world cup that day........OH was planning a boys weekend away until he remembered the date. As if he would get to a Scotland match without me no matter what the date:p The boys are coming too!

P x

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Aww love.:wub: I have bought my own presents for years, even getting them gift wrapped!:lol: At least then I'm getting what I want and not going to be disappointed.

I think your hubby and mine may well be related, mine's about as romantic as a pickled walnut ...

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OK I am I am going to stick up for the MALES not all men are unromantic
It was our anniversary last week
we went out for a nice Italian meal
and even pushed the boat out with a $30 bottle of wine
my Oh put some of our wedding photos on Facebook
to remind everyone back home
come on fellas help me out with this one
:sneaky:

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He needs a kick up his 'arris. Miserable git.

Right you Prickly. :sneaky: Time for a plan.
Thank heavens you got your priorities right and quaffed the bubbly straight down , no messin':drinkwine:.

Now. Here is what you do for next year if you are sure he still won't be ars@d.
You find yourself a health spa and book yourself & maybe a girly friend in overnight. He pays.

Mine is a bit rubbish on the flowers & present choosing front but he knew right from the start that I expect effort. That doesn't mean fancy arrangements or sizeable $$ on presents. It just means effort.

His next birthday , you wrap up an empty box and give it to him. It's about what he deserves.:thumbdown:

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hear hear BEVS.
Pk that's just rubbish.
Do you mind, or is it ok really?

Dh and I have our 10 year anniversary at the end of the month and are total saps really.
We're going to Melbourne and I'm getting a couple of hours in Ikea! heehee

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Yeah I am quite romantic with Kate..I buy her lots of stuff and cuddle with her even after over 10 years. Always spoil her rotten for her birthday and Valentines day.

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Sometimes we get fish & chips, a few lagers and go down to the riverbank. Does that count? :p

http://www.knitemare.org/cats/hugstime.jpg

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Yep that counts
Fish & chips and lager ??? a bit flash
see i knew romance was still alive
:thumbsup:

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:rolleyes: men!

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And that's probably him and his mates when they go fishing ...