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Old Apr 1st 2013 | 5:38 am
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Originally Posted by LancashireGirl8
Thank you for your kind words! Yes, my hubby has said he'd move over to the UK, which is great. Part of me worries about the potential detrimental impacts it would have on our marriage if he didn't enjoy living in the UK. It's all in my head though, we have a strong foundation based on communication. What i've realised is that my mind has been jumping to all these "what ifs"? which compound to a point where i start to think that it's just easier to stay with the status quo. The mind...as a wise friend once said, "A battle is either lost or won in the mind". Good advice to follow my heart, thank you X
Don't start thinking about the worst outcome before you even try. LOL I spent too much time thinking about the 'what if' scenario and ended up just giving myself a massive headache. You might end up staying with the status quo, but those 'what if's' will keep bugging you because then you would be wondering if it would have all worked out just fine IF you had gone back. If hubby is willing to give it a go what have you got to lose???

You have to at least try if its what you really want to do ! Cross each bridge as you come to it, but at least then you will know that you gave it all your very best effort !
 
Old Apr 6th 2013 | 8:51 pm
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Don't start thinking about the worst outcome before you even try. LOL I spent too much time thinking about the 'what if' scenario and ended up just giving myself a massive headache. You might end up staying with the status quo, but those 'what if's' will keep bugging you because then you would be wondering if it would have all worked out just fine IF you had gone back. If hubby is willing to give it a go what have you got to lose???

You have to at least try if its what you really want to do ! Cross each bridge as you come to it, but at least then you will know that you gave it all your very best effort !
Thank you for your encouragement. Yes, this experience has taught me about the importance of maintaining a positive attitude! All the very best with your move back, looking forward to hearing how it all goes :-)
 
Old Apr 7th 2013 | 3:22 am
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Originally Posted by LancashireGirl8
Thank you for your encouragement. Yes, this experience has taught me about the importance of maintaining a positive attitude! All the very best with your move back, looking forward to hearing how it all goes :-)
Thanks I'm pretty sure I'll have a story or two to tell by the time I get back.
 

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