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Marmalade Feb 22nd 2008 5:18 am

Right then, only postive posts please!
 
Well, I have been sitting here for two days sequestered in my house due to the thick ice on the roads (dangerous driving - and I'm not about to go out in the car). So, my mind has wandered again to thoughts of moving back to my beloved Scotland:D

I've read many negative comments on these boards about moving back, but also some really good comments.

So, here's my question - what are the most positive things about living in the UK? No negative comments please, only positive ones, thanks.:wub:

TruBrit Feb 22nd 2008 5:22 am

Re: Right then, only postive posts please!
 

Originally Posted by Marmalade (Post 5969690)
Well, I have been sitting here for two days sequestered in my house due to the thick ice on the roads (dangerous driving - and I'm not about to go out in the car). So, my mind has wandered again to thoughts of moving back to my beloved Scotland:D

I've read many negative comments on these boards about moving back, but also some really good comments.

So, here's my question - what are the most positive things about living in the UK? No negative comments please, only positive ones, thanks.:wub:

well it's home for starters :thumbsup:

Eastbound Feb 22nd 2008 5:39 am

Re: Right then, only postive posts please!
 
So, here's my question - what are the most positive things about living in the UK? No negative comments please, only positive ones, thanks.:wub:[/QUOTE]

HI
Sorry not quite what you asked for but only my definition
Feeling instinctively that is where you belong especially when you catch up with old friends who understand you because you share history built up over many years .:)

dunroving Feb 22nd 2008 8:10 am

Re: Right then, only postive posts please!
 

Originally Posted by Marmalade (Post 5969690)
Well, I have been sitting here for two days sequestered in my house due to the thick ice on the roads (dangerous driving - and I'm not about to go out in the car). So, my mind has wandered again to thoughts of moving back to my beloved Scotland:D

I've read many negative comments on these boards about moving back, but also some really good comments.

So, here's my question - what are the most positive things about living in the UK? No negative comments please, only positive ones, thanks.:wub:

The Right to Roam (free countryside). :thumbup:

elfman Feb 22nd 2008 8:21 am

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Originally Posted by dunroving (Post 5970440)
The Right to Roam (free countryside). :thumbup:

that's a good one - my inlaws are from Virginia and on their first visit to my parents' village in Suffolk they couldn't get over the whole public footpath thing - they were amazed that you could walk practically anywhere through farmland provided you abide by a few simple rules. Where they live in rural VA that's basically unthinkable.

Juswus Feb 22nd 2008 8:31 am

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Not being asked where you are from the moment you open your mouth...and then being asked if that is near Liverpool :blink:

SarahInTX Feb 22nd 2008 8:40 am

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Originally Posted by Juswus (Post 5970536)
Not being asked where you are from the moment you open your mouth

I like to think that when I go back I will no longer be "the outsider," but then I think I'm going to sound American to people in the UK and THEY'll ask me where I'm from . . . . and if I like it there . . . :rofl:

TruBrit Feb 22nd 2008 8:56 am

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Originally Posted by SarahInTX (Post 5970581)
I like to think that when I go back I will no longer be "the outsider," but then I think I'm going to sound American to people in the UK and THEY'll ask me where I'm from . . . . and if I like it there . . . :rofl:


well you're going to have to start to speak proper like and get practicing :D

SarahInTX Feb 22nd 2008 8:58 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5970668)
well you're going to have to start to speak proper like and get practicing :D

Yer. I think it'll come back pretty quickly . . . .

quoll Feb 22nd 2008 9:07 am

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For me it is the green grass and the ground that gives when you walk on it. The patchwork of fields in summer time. A sense of shared history that is relevant to me. The variety and beauty of the place. Birds that sing and dont screech (flock of cockies just flew overhead at 747 decibel level). Long, balmy summer nights. A sense of belonging and not being somewhere on the periphery of life and being able to be my real self instead of acting a part day after day. Oh, yes, and daffodils and cowslips!

Fleaflyfloflum Feb 22nd 2008 9:13 am

Re: Right then, only postive posts please!
 

Originally Posted by Juswus (Post 5970536)
Not being asked where you are from the moment you open your mouth...and then being asked if that is near Liverpool :blink:

Funnily enough, when i went back last year i DID get asked where i was from all the time. Apparently I have a slight aussie accent nowadays. But the difference between here and UK is that people tended to be much more friendly and interested in where i was "from". In fact it was a good ice breaker. The only time it was a problem was in Tescos when several times various checkout ladies would start asking me heaps of questions which irritated the queue behind me :lol:


My fave things about being back in UK were

People taking a real interest in making their gardens attractive.

Glorious hanging baskets of flowers everywhere in the summer months

Homes that feel like homes made of brick and stone, not flimsy wood or the cheapest materials available

Manners. Yes i know all places have rude people, but in general the British are far better mannered than Aussies and consider other peoples feelings

Feeling I am back in the land of the here and now instead of a time warp playing catch up

Twigstar Feb 22nd 2008 9:14 am

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Manners, someone holding the door open to let me through, talking with neighbours and them understanding EVERYTHING I say. Being able to hop on a bus to town, Sainsbury's & M&S. London and the wonderful buildings, the thought of just standing under Nelson's column with a stupid big grin on my face, saying "I'm home".

TruBrit Feb 22nd 2008 9:28 am

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Originally Posted by Twigstar (Post 5970761)
Manners, someone holding the door open to let me through, talking with neighbours and them understanding EVERYTHING I say. Being able to hop on a bus to town, Sainsbury's & M&S. London and the wonderful buildings, the thought of just standing under Nelson's column with a stupid big grin on my face, saying "I'm home".

i say that at passport control on landing at heathrow/gatwick on my trips back. the immigration officers must think i'm nuts but hey who cares, i don't :p

JRB Feb 22nd 2008 10:06 am

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A sense of community
Sense of humour
Diversity
Interestingness ( if there's such a word!)
Meeting people you can relate too, have common shared experiences e.g yes I went to Glastonbury in 95 too instead of 'WTF is the Melbourne cup?'
Summer festivals, fairs, fetes
No annoying flies going in your ear or nose, just normal ones!
Sunshine is bearable so kids can play out for hours in the summer
Obviously family and old friends
So much to do
shops are interesting and different, not just bland shopping centres with the same shops
Culture, Europe on doorstep
Pubs, theatre, music
Not as many 4WD's
Don't have to travel miles for something different
Countryside and great beaches, southwold, Scotland, Cornwall etc etc
Loads of interesting little towns to explore all within 50 mile radius, not just one bland suburb the same as the other.
Character houses
People are generally more tolerant and less materialistic
Better study and work options
The train passengers aren't as intimidating!!!

I can go on and on. I am glad to have experienced living in Perth for 5 years but much happier back here. I think if you ignore the daily mail gloom and doom B/S and make the most of things, the UK is fantastic. Our lives are greatly enriched being back here.

All the best

TruBrit Feb 22nd 2008 10:09 am

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Originally Posted by JRB (Post 5970988)
A sense of community
Sense of humour
Diversity
Interestingness ( if there's such a word!)
Meeting people you can relate too, have common shared experiences e.g yes I went to Glastonbury in 95 too instead of 'WTF is the Melbourne cup?'
Summer festivals, fairs, fetes
No annoying flies going in your ear or nose, just normal ones!
Sunshine is bearable so kids can play out for hours in the summer
Obviously family and old friends
So much to do
shops are interesting and different, not just bland shopping centres with the same shops
Culture, Europe on doorstep
Pubs, theatre, music
Not as many 4WD's
Don't have to travel miles for something different
Countryside and great beaches, southwold, Scotland, Cornwall etc etc
Loads of interesting little towns to explore all within 50 mile radius, not just one bland suburb the same as the other.
Character houses
People are generally more tolerant and less materialistic
Better study and work options
The train passengers aren't as intimidating!!!

I can go on and on. I am glad to have experienced living in Perth for 5 years but much happier back here. I think if you ignore the daily mail gloom and doom B/S and make the most of things, the UK is fantastic. Our lives are greatly enriched being back here.

All the best

well that certainly deserves some k!


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