Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by arkon
Talking of boredom, It's the 22nd December, the friday before xmas and I don't know if it's just me, but it's exactly the same as every one of the 365 days before it. Shouldn't it feel a bit special and christmassy? Today I've mowed lawns, cleaned the pool, refilled the fly traps, cleaned the mozzie killer, filled a hole and basically done the same boring shite I do every day. Went into town for a bit too, and well what a damp squid.
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by northernbird
you are a nasty bitter and twisted individual. I do not dish out personal insults nor do I criticise England, it is the country of my birth and I will always be proud to be English. However it offers me and my family nothing anymore and I make no apologies for that. You can criticise Australia/Perth all you like, that is not what I have the issue with. What I have the issue with is you slagging people off personally. I have been called a loser and disgusting today by you and I find that highly offensive and as such will be complaining to the mods about you. I am quite a tough old bird usually but you have absolutely floored me today :( .
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by arkon
Talking of boredom, It's the 22nd December, the friday before xmas and I don't know if it's just me, but it's exactly the same as every one of the 365 days before it. Shouldn't it feel a bit special and christmassy? Today I've mowed lawns, cleaned the pool, refilled the fly traps, cleaned the mozzie killer, filled a hole and basically done the same boring shite I do every day. Went into town for a bit too, and well what a damp squid.
Something those thinking of coming here really need to think about if they like their UK christmas's, Oh and easters too. IT JUST AIN'T THE SAME! (And before a muppet replies, 'ooooooow but your in another country what did you expect, you have to adapt to their way' blah blah blah.... Well so what, I didn't recce over xmas and even if I did I would have been in holiday mode, then after 3 years to get a visa there was no way shite xmas's would have put me off) Santa got stuck up the chimny because he couldn't pull a bird, his p*b*s got stuck around his plums and all the kiddies heard...'pull me out or you'll get nowt you nasty load of pr***S'....F*** your toys the kids replied and pelted the C*** with bricks......... I think this is just synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all. I spoke to a UK guy of Indian descent recently who has lived in oz for a decade and works in a govt department. He put his finger on it when he said to me " Back in London (where he was from) if we came across each other we'd prob say hi to each other and end up having a chat over a cuppa or a pint but here we'd at most likely just give a polite smile or hello as we passed on by " People badmouth the UK, but by and large those who live there have learned how to get on with others and understand the value in friendship building on a real level. It's part of the British spirit/psyche, a part I hope never gets lost. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by arkon
Santa got stuck up the chimny because he couldn't pull a bird, his p*b*s got stuck around his plums and all the kiddies heard...
'pull me out or you'll get nowt you nasty load of pr***S'....F*** your toys the kids replied and pelted the C*** with bricks......... You might be having a boring time Arkon...but I'm off to sing this to the neighbours:D |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
It hasn't felt like xmas for me for along time. I think a lot of that is to do with what we associate xmas to be with: family and friends, climate, familiar surroundings etc But aside from all of that, I see some traditional signs of xmas here but don't feel the 'xmas spirit' if you know what I mean.
I think this is just synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all. I spoke to a UK guy of Indian descent recently who has lived in oz for a decade and works in a govt department. He put his finger on it when he said to me " Back in London (where he was from) if we came across each other we'd prob say hi to each other and end up having a chat over a cuppa or a pint but here we'd at most likely just give a polite smile or hello as we passed on by " People badmouth the UK, but by and large those who live there have learned how to get on with others and understand the value in friendship building on a real level. It's part of the British spirit/psyche, a part I hope never gets lost. I think alot has to do with living closer together too.People consider their neighbours more ie barking dogs etc. Village life is very community based and that is something I miss.I have not made any friends really it us all a bit superficial.This maybe where I live but forming close friendships seems to be harder. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
It hasn't felt like xmas for me for along time. I think a lot of that is to do with what we associate xmas to be with: family and friends, climate, familiar surroundings etc But aside from all of that, I see some traditional signs of xmas here but don't feel the 'xmas spirit' if you know what I mean.
I think this is just synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all. I spoke to a UK guy of Indian descent recently who has lived in oz for a decade and works in a govt department. He put his finger on it when he said to me " Back in London (where he was from) if we came across each other we'd prob say hi to each other and end up having a chat over a cuppa or a pint but here we'd at most likely just give a polite smile or hello as we passed on by " People badmouth the UK, but by and large those who live there have learned how to get on with others and understand the value in friendship building on a real level. It's part of the British spirit/psyche, a part I hope never gets lost. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Well....I happen to love Xmas here in Aus [sorry guys:o ]....I hated all the commercialism in the UK, the massive ques, car parking nightmare, cold, cooking, spending obscene amounts on presents and food we either threw away, gave away or forgot about until it went off:cool:
The other half on the other hand preferred the UK Christmas as he's a right Christmas baby:rolleyes: .....although he's easy going so is quite happy as long as I'm happy:D Christmas in Aus for us is breakfast on the *barbie* followed by finger food during the day while it's hot, playing in the pool with my bro and his family, BBQ steak and salad and roasties in the eve when it's cooled down and loads of laughs and drinks with family and neighbours. NO CHUFFIN COOKING FOR ME:D So Merry Happy and Happy Merry to all....and I hope 2007 is a better year and that you live the life you want, wherever that may be:beer: |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by phoenixinoz
So Merry Happy and Happy Merry to all....and I hope 2007 is a better year and that you live the life you want, wherever that may be:beer: |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
What more could anyone want? :) :beer:
And a Happy Christmas and New Year to you and TheBloke too:beer: I hope 2007 is a good year job wise for you:) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by phoenixinoz
Agreed Polly.
And a Happy Christmas and New Year to you and TheBloke too:beer: I hope 2007 is a good year job wise for you:) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Thanks. :) Though I must admit I have almost given up hope.
Another little story for you... 2 nights ago I spent all night down at A&E, I won't go into the where's and whys but I met a nurse there and got talking like you do. She was Australian and had an English husband, they had just got back in the country after years away, they have been here 4 months so far and she as a nurse walked straight into a job within a day or two. The English husband on the other hand can't get a job for love nor money and is now a stay at home dad looking after the kids. She (Australian) was saying they can't wait to leave again as anywhere was better than this. Without drawing too much from this, my wife is a qualified nurse and can't get a job as a nurse here for any amount of trying. I'm convinced something stinks here and it's not the sausages. Anyway good luck next year, have a good xmas and get your old man to dress up as santa.....Did I say I've got a song about frostry the snowman too?....... |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Thanks. :) Though I must admit I have almost given up hope.
It's not unusual to go through hell to find a job you deserve here in Aus. Like you said before, previous UK skills and experience stands for nothing. Your time has got to come ......so maybe 2007 will be it;) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Lord Pom Percy
Anyone want to say something nice about OZ for a change, poor OZ seems to be getting a big bashing down here in this forum. :(
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by paulrachel
Great Milkshakes in OZ and Smoothies...thats it ..thanks. ;)
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by rossifumi
Yeah but they're not proper milkshakes are they mate. :D
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all.
I'll think of you and the lack of community spirit you're experiencing when we (the village) all meet on Sunday night to sing in Christmas and hope 2007 will get you what you're looking for. :) ..... Have a good one. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by phoenixinoz
Don't do that Polly. Don't be beaten. You've gone through too much and deserve better:)
It's not unusual to go through hell to find a job you deserve here in Aus. Like you said before, previous UK skills and experience stands for nothing. Your time has got to come ......so maybe 2007 will be it;) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by sassenach
Living in perth is like living on an island within an island ,and unless one is totally moronic there is no doubt one will go crazy ,just like monkies in a cage .
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
Have to agree. I've heard its like that.
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
I'll think of you and the lack of community spirit you're experiencing when we (the village) all meet on Sunday night to sing in Christmas and hope 2007 will get you what you're looking for. :) ..... Have a good one. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Fingers crossed, but I'm not putting any bets on. However I'm still here, Christmas number 4....... :eek:
Have you thought about leaving government work and working for the private sector? Government jobs are well known for being *jobs for the boys* and low pay. You would probably do much better in the private sector:) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
And even though I'm a Kiwi (and proud of it), I can demonstrate how grown up we can be, and declare that not only do I have a sense of humour, but also think Arkon is a pretty ok guy :D
Now would an Aussie/Aussie lover be as well balanced and mature as I am if that was posted about Australia ? ;) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by phoenixinoz
Well, it took me 29 months but I finally got a Directors position with a global company .....so it can be done Polly.
Have you thought about leaving government work and working for the private sector? Government jobs are well known for being *jobs for the boys* and low pay. You would probably do much better in the private sector:) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Community spirit isn't dead on Brisbane......Rossi has just said he'll try and meet up with me for a pint over Christmas :) :beer:
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by rossifumi
I like to do my bit for the aged community.
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
I think this happens a lot now just about everywhere. I moved from the UK to Australia because I couldn't afford to live in one of those nice communities people long for on this site and found it here.
I'll think of you and the lack of community spirit you're experiencing when we (the village) all meet on Sunday night to sing in Christmas and hope 2007 will get you what you're looking for. :) ..... Have a good one. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
I think I can disprove this one instantly. Although I rarely personally 'attack' Arkon -and anyway - remember people - this is all light-hearted humour - I have to agree. I am an Australia lover, and I happen to agree that the areas you people live in are as crap as you say they are. ;)
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Maybe, all I want though is a basic admin position in the area I love - emergency management. You've done really well, and I'm pleased for you. I have no aspirations to high positions, I just want a permanent job that I love. Have decided that the new year is make or break though, so I will have to sacrifice job satisfaction for job security and am therefore going to turn to private enterprise and just accept it. After all I'm sure there are many people out there doing jobs they don't like.
Thanks for the compliment re my job:o ....actually Polly I was a Senior Exec in UK, also for a global company...so I've just got back to where I was. Believe me, I found myself working in some pitiful jobs over here to get myself established again. I've worked some *silly O'clock hours* in really difficult roles over here in order to get an industry reputation. I have cried tears of frustration at times:o You must keep going. You need a strategy to work towards. Do so with ferocious appetite cos whether we like it or not, we have to be better than anyone else. Good luck Polly....2007 maybe ...just maybe your year;) |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
It hasn't felt like xmas for me for along time. I think a lot of that is to do with what we associate xmas to be with: family and friends, climate, familiar surroundings etc But aside from all of that, I see some traditional signs of xmas here but don't feel the 'xmas spirit' if you know what I mean.
I think this is just synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all. I spoke to a UK guy of Indian descent recently who has lived in oz for a decade and works in a govt department. He put his finger on it when he said to me " Back in London (where he was from) if we came across each other we'd prob say hi to each other and end up having a chat over a cuppa or a pint but here we'd at most likely just give a polite smile or hello as we passed on by " People badmouth the UK, but by and large those who live there have learned how to get on with others and understand the value in friendship building on a real level. It's part of the British spirit/psyche, a part I hope never gets lost. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Cheeky mare, bet I out-drink you :p
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Pollyana
Maybe, all I want though is a basic admin position in the area I love - emergency management.
Shame about the money - although the yearly increments aren't bad. The private sector would pay more P, and you'd be treated as an adult but then you have to 'forgo' the subject matter. It's amazing what you have achieved already - getting into ES is quite hard. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by phoenixinoz
So Merry Happy and Happy Merry to all....and I hope 2007 is a better year and that you live the life you want, wherever that may be:beer:
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
It hasn't felt like xmas for me for along time. I think a lot of that is to do with what we associate xmas to be with: family and friends, climate, familiar surroundings etc But aside from all of that, I see some traditional signs of xmas here but don't feel the 'xmas spirit' if you know what I mean.
I think this is just synonymous with one of the greatest social problems australia faces: a general lack of community spirit/belonging that stems from a lack of inclusivity of others. On the surface oz claims to welcome and include all new comers to their country, but in reality this does not pan out that way at all. I spoke to a UK guy of Indian descent recently who has lived in oz for a decade and works in a govt department. He put his finger on it when he said to me " Back in London (where he was from) if we came across each other we'd prob say hi to each other and end up having a chat over a cuppa or a pint but here we'd at most likely just give a polite smile or hello as we passed on by " People badmouth the UK, but by and large those who live there have learned how to get on with others and understand the value in friendship building on a real level. It's part of the British spirit/psyche, a part I hope never gets lost. I am really curious....I am sure you have probably said, but I cant really be bothered hunting back through your posts, when did you live in the UK? Where and for how long exactly?? |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by northernbird
Same to you, have a good one :)
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Hels Bells
I am really curious....I am sure you have probably said, but I cant really be bothered hunting back through your posts, when did you live in the UK? Where and for how long exactly??
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
I lived in London (Bayswater, Lancaster Gate area mainly) for around a year and then spent a couple months in a place called Neath in Sth Wales. This was back in 88-89.
Thought so..... |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Hels Bells
Thought so.....
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Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
I lived in London (Bayswater, Lancaster Gate area mainly) for around a year and then spent a couple months in a place called Neath in Sth Wales. This was back in 88-89.
Originally Posted by Hels Bells
Thought so.....
What you see is what you interpret. You might think because it was some time ago, that makes the description less valid as the UK has changed since then. Other people may disagree. Some may say its actually improoved since '89. Its horses for courses - but your opinion carries equal weight to everyone elses as its yours, and rightly so. |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by chance to be
Originally Posted by kiwi_child
I lived in London (Bayswater, Lancaster Gate area mainly) for around a year and then spent a couple months in a place called Neath in Sth Wales. This was back in 88-89. i dont think we can judge the validity of peoples comments on the basis of how long they have lived somewhere/how long ago or what area. What you see is what you interpret. You might think because it was some time ago, that makes the description less valid as the UK has changed since then. Other people may disagree. Some may say its actually improoved since '89. Its horses for courses - but your opinion carries equal weight to everyone elses as its yours, and rightly so. Nothing like jumping to conclusions and making a few assumptions!! :rolleyes: |
Re: Be nice to OZ
Originally Posted by Hels Bells
Thought so.....
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